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Patriarchy hurts everyone.

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  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
    alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
    alice@lgbtqia.space
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    #1

    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

    jrbe@scholar.socialJ eruonna@lgbtqia.spaceE autolycos@beige.partyA mamalake@beige.partyM inthehands@hachyderm.ioI 28 Replies Last reply
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    • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

      Patriarchy hurts everyone.

      Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

      jrbe@scholar.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
      jrbe@scholar.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
      jrbe@scholar.social
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      #2

      @alice patterns and novel styles, too.

      dave@alvarado.socialD davey_cakes@mastodon.ieD 2 Replies Last reply
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      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

        Patriarchy hurts everyone.

        Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

        eruonna@lgbtqia.spaceE This user is from outside of this forum
        eruonna@lgbtqia.spaceE This user is from outside of this forum
        eruonna@lgbtqia.space
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        #3

        @alice and if your level of cishet yesterday turns out to be less than what you thought, then hey

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        • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

          Patriarchy hurts everyone.

          Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

          autolycos@beige.partyA This user is from outside of this forum
          autolycos@beige.partyA This user is from outside of this forum
          autolycos@beige.party
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          #4

          @alice well, I mean besides them orthogonal axes, I completely agree with you

          But I think that's your point

          #WearingColorsIsAwesome

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          • eruonna@lgbtqia.spaceE eruonna@lgbtqia.space

            @alice and if your level of cishet yesterday turns out to be less than what you thought, then hey

            luxliquida@critter.cafeL This user is from outside of this forum
            luxliquida@critter.cafeL This user is from outside of this forum
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            #5

            @eruonna @alice

            Yes! Everyone benefits from spending some time questioning... Worst case, you move forward with more confidence and security in what you already knew... Best case, you discover something about yourself you didn't know... And how wonderful is that?! 😍

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            • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

              Patriarchy hurts everyone.

              Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

              mamalake@beige.partyM This user is from outside of this forum
              mamalake@beige.partyM This user is from outside of this forum
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              #6

              @alice another thing I love about Thailand, wearing pink is just a day of the week, Friday.

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              • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                inthehands@hachyderm.ioI This user is from outside of this forum
                inthehands@hachyderm.ioI This user is from outside of this forum
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                @alice @lisamelton

                It’s true! I am daily living evidence of exactly this!

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                • luxliquida@critter.cafeL This user is from outside of this forum
                  luxliquida@critter.cafeL This user is from outside of this forum
                  luxliquida@critter.cafe
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                  #8

                  @raaahbin @eruonna @alice This is beautiful.

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                  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                    heathen_cat@furs.socialH This user is from outside of this forum
                    heathen_cat@furs.socialH This user is from outside of this forum
                    heathen_cat@furs.social
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                    #9

                    @alice
                    I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

                    davey_cakes@mastodon.ieD alice@lgbtqia.spaceA dzwiedziu@mastodon.socialD 3 Replies Last reply
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                    • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                      Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                      Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                      catraxx@tech.lgbtC This user is from outside of this forum
                      catraxx@tech.lgbtC This user is from outside of this forum
                      catraxx@tech.lgbt
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                      #10

                      @alice Can i be gay and wear black?

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                      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                        Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                        Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                        divverent@misskey.deD This user is from outside of this forum
                        divverent@misskey.deD This user is from outside of this forum
                        divverent@misskey.de
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                        #11
                        @alice@lgbtqia.space Kings once wore pink.
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                        • catraxx@tech.lgbtC catraxx@tech.lgbt

                          @alice Can i be gay and wear black?

                          sillycoelophysis@hachyderm.ioS This user is from outside of this forum
                          sillycoelophysis@hachyderm.ioS This user is from outside of this forum
                          sillycoelophysis@hachyderm.io
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                          @catraxx @alice only whenever you want to

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                          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                            Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                            Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                            mpc3032at@mastodon.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
                            mpc3032at@mastodon.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
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                            @alice LOL i forget where i read it the other day but the like "desperation to be *noticed*"... funny and tragic

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                            • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                              Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                              Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                              iscarlosmolero@raccoonisland.socialI This user is from outside of this forum
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                              @alice *Sigh*

                              I’ve been called gay on LinkedIn just because my brand/website uses a colorful muted palette.

                              Let’s leave aside the fact that “gay” is being used as an insult.

                              alice@lgbtqia.spaceA sijmen@shrimp.vijf.lifeS 2 Replies Last reply
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                              • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                                theorangetheme@en.osm.townT This user is from outside of this forum
                                theorangetheme@en.osm.townT This user is from outside of this forum
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                                #15

                                @alice Desperately begging insecure fathers to stop ruining their sons.

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                                • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                  Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                  Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                                  B This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  boojum@hachyderm.io
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                                  @alice I was in a sweater shop in Ireland. The woman at the counter showed me the men's section, with the color choices being dark green, dark blue, grey, and greyer. I gestured towards the women's section and said, "what about those?"

                                  She looked at me, startled, and said, "Surely you wouldn't be seen in public wearing those!" It was all I could do to keep a straight face.

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                                  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                                    joykill@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
                                    joykill@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    @alice NO! The only hererosexual colours are beige, brown, khaki, white and black, everything else is GAY! 😡

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                                    • heathen_cat@furs.socialH heathen_cat@furs.social

                                      @alice
                                      I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

                                      davey_cakes@mastodon.ieD This user is from outside of this forum
                                      davey_cakes@mastodon.ieD This user is from outside of this forum
                                      davey_cakes@mastodon.ie
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                                      #18

                                      @heathen_cat @alice
                                      It's a bit fucked up how my daughter is 9 and my son is 6 but it's my son that isn't allowed wear bright colors any more according to supermarket clothes retailers.

                                      There's an expectation for if the colors are from a computer game.

                                      (Online seems to be the way to go though, we've got him stuff he loves)

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                                      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                        Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                        Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                                        bribear@blahaj.zoneB This user is from outside of this forum
                                        bribear@blahaj.zoneB This user is from outside of this forum
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                                        @alice@lgbtqia.space omg I was just thinking this yesterday as I walked into the office to see a sea of plain. I've got my summer wardrobe full of colour lined up and ready. People generally compliment it if they say anything at all.

                                        It's really too bad it's not easier to find the colourful clothes. I've built my collection over years and about half are "Hawaiian" style shirts.

                                        Unlock the colour!

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                                        • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                          Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                          Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                                          drewnaylor@mastodon.onlineD This user is from outside of this forum
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                                          @alice Plus for those who don't like bright solid colors (perhaps due to trauma with toxic positivity), multi-color plaids exist (this is what I do when not at home) (I am a plaid enjoyer).

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