<![CDATA[Patriarchy hurts everyone.]]>Patriarchy hurts everyone.

Like, bruh, you can wear colorsβ€”you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/topic/53e2960d-2446-4ab6-a943-62b0b943799e/patriarchy-hurts-everyone.RSS for NodeMon, 25 May 2026 18:29:29 GMTThu, 21 May 2026 01:35:29 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 17:36:31 GMT]]>@jrbe @alice I get so interested in cool prints on dresses and stuff that I start worrying I might look like I'm just staring at the owners body.

Must have a good look for shirts

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.ie/users/davey_cakes/statuses/116613774794409974https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.ie/users/davey_cakes/statuses/116613774794409974Thu, 21 May 2026 17:36:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:48:57 GMT]]>@flesh ah.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613351830876030https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613351830876030Thu, 21 May 2026 15:48:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:47:16 GMT]]>@MathieuP nah. Pretty sure it was the beard.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613345237683203https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613345237683203Thu, 21 May 2026 15:47:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:45:17 GMT]]>@AngelicAura I've discovered that pink or black lingerie under an oversized black bear onesie feels pretty femme πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613337419740053https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613337419740053Thu, 21 May 2026 15:45:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:43:54 GMT]]>@alice@lgbtqia.space Checkerboards!

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://transfem.social/notes/amj8666k3nzn0019https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://transfem.social/notes/amj8666k3nzn0019Thu, 21 May 2026 15:43:54 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:42:57 GMT]]>@flesh I don't get that reference 😞

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613328209755254https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613328209755254Thu, 21 May 2026 15:42:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:40:04 GMT]]>@Sobex only if it's bright blue. Navy blue is tactical grey for seamen πŸ’πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613316908263679https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613316908263679Thu, 21 May 2026 15:40:04 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:34:39 GMT]]>@pecet if you like black, it's okay to wear black too; my girlfriend wears a lot of black (but also a lot of purple πŸ’œ).

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613295590602296https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613295590602296Thu, 21 May 2026 15:34:39 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:33:31 GMT]]>@alice was thinking about the very loud shirts and socks and dresses i often see bro-types wearing, that look playful and fun, but when you talk to them, super unpleasant vibes

to me the darkfunny/tragedy is the overall cultural situation that doesn't give consistent validation / attention and space for peeps to be themselves... instead e.g. locked-down business drone some of the time, and then wiiiild and waaacky golf shirt Fun Guy gets smushed out

but without that framing, tho, nothing wrong

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/116609594702103322/statuses/116613291120986815https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/ap/users/116609594702103322/statuses/116613291120986815Thu, 21 May 2026 15:33:31 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:32:52 GMT]]>@alice You mean this guy wasn't turned gay by wearing a pink armor?

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]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.gougere.fr/users/MathieuP/statuses/116613288604307293https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.gougere.fr/users/MathieuP/statuses/116613288604307293Thu, 21 May 2026 15:32:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:30:18 GMT]]>@alice@lgbtqia.space Are you sure?
Because if there are feminizing/transing colors or clothes I would like to know so I can equip myself properly

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://transfem.social/notes/amj7oou32ke400f3https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://transfem.social/notes/amj7oou32ke400f3Thu, 21 May 2026 15:30:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:18:52 GMT]]>@alice@lgbtqia.space I hear you, but consider: ska

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://transfem.social/notes/amj79yu97j3k0048https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://transfem.social/notes/amj79yu97j3k0048Thu, 21 May 2026 15:18:52 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:16:15 GMT]]>@klegdixal@social.vivaldi.net

gestures at Glinda

@alice@lgbtqia.space

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://thegayagenda.fans/notes/amj76lvzv50d0026https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://thegayagenda.fans/notes/amj76lvzv50d0026Thu, 21 May 2026 15:16:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:15:34 GMT]]>@alice Some people with a time machine would try to avert some catastrophe or another. I’d just make sure nobody pays attention to Beau Brummell 😬

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/users/schrotthaufen/statuses/116613220580403807https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mastodon.social/users/schrotthaufen/statuses/116613220580403807Thu, 21 May 2026 15:15:34 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:14:49 GMT]]>@klegdixal @alice what if you're a gay witch?]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://shrimp.vijf.life/notes/amj74rm24h3fh037https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://shrimp.vijf.life/notes/amj74rm24h3fh037Thu, 21 May 2026 15:14:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:13:42 GMT]]>@iscarlosmolero @alice I was called gay once because I had a red phone

still the prettiest phone i ever had. have a boring "green" (it's grey except under very specific light) pixel 8 now
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]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://shrimp.vijf.life/notes/amj73c55bhv1x7djhttps://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://shrimp.vijf.life/notes/amj73c55bhv1x7djThu, 21 May 2026 15:13:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:08:27 GMT]]>@alice
It's the ones that can leave cishet behind, but not the binary that bother me. Still trapped by dominance and power.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://bsd.network/users/hypostase/statuses/116613192551447856https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://bsd.network/users/hypostase/statuses/116613192551447856Thu, 21 May 2026 15:08:27 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:07:45 GMT]]>@iscarlosmolero πŸ«‚

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613189806152830https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613189806152830Thu, 21 May 2026 15:07:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:06:47 GMT]]>@mpc3032at what's funny and tragic about wanting to be noticed?

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613186055617650https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://lgbtqia.space/users/alice/statuses/116613186055617650Thu, 21 May 2026 15:06:47 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 15:05:17 GMT]]>@alice Is blue a colour ?

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://social.sciences.re/users/Sobex/statuses/116613180127233040https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://social.sciences.re/users/Sobex/statuses/116613180127233040Thu, 21 May 2026 15:05:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 12:59:50 GMT]]>@jrbe @alice woah woah woah, let's not get ahead of ourselves here. 🀣

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://alvarado.social/users/dave/statuses/116612686823759351https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://alvarado.social/users/dave/statuses/116612686823759351Thu, 21 May 2026 12:59:50 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 11:41:25 GMT]]>@lyrial @alice

How else will people know I can't get an erecting without the help of internet porn? - same idiots.

It's okay to see a doctor if this pertains to you.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mstdn.social/users/sasyecat/statuses/116612378497017244https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mstdn.social/users/sasyecat/statuses/116612378497017244Thu, 21 May 2026 11:41:25 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 11:34:14 GMT]]>@alice My son works at a deli, and he says the number of angry white people that come in is through the roof now. 🎻 They may have woke to the fact colors, weren't really their problem.

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mstdn.social/users/sasyecat/statuses/116612350268070385https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://mstdn.social/users/sasyecat/statuses/116612350268070385Thu, 21 May 2026 11:34:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Patriarchy hurts everyone. on Thu, 21 May 2026 11:25:49 GMT]]>@alice

Can confirm that this still works when a man's in his sixties. πŸ˜„

]]>https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://infosec.space/users/CppGuy/statuses/116612317128819281https://board.circlewithadot.net/post/https://infosec.space/users/CppGuy/statuses/116612317128819281Thu, 21 May 2026 11:25:49 GMT