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Patriarchy hurts everyone.

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  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

    heathen_cat@furs.socialH This user is from outside of this forum
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    #9

    @alice
    I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

    davey_cakes@mastodon.ieD alice@lgbtqia.spaceA dzwiedziu@mastodon.socialD 3 Replies Last reply
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    • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

      Patriarchy hurts everyone.

      Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

      catraxx@tech.lgbtC This user is from outside of this forum
      catraxx@tech.lgbtC This user is from outside of this forum
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      #10

      @alice Can i be gay and wear black?

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      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

        Patriarchy hurts everyone.

        Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

        divverent@misskey.deD This user is from outside of this forum
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        #11
        @alice@lgbtqia.space Kings once wore pink.
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        • catraxx@tech.lgbtC catraxx@tech.lgbt

          @alice Can i be gay and wear black?

          sillycoelophysis@hachyderm.ioS This user is from outside of this forum
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          sillycoelophysis@hachyderm.io
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          #12

          @catraxx @alice only whenever you want to

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          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

            Patriarchy hurts everyone.

            Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

            mpc3032at@mastodon.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
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            #13

            @alice LOL i forget where i read it the other day but the like "desperation to be *noticed*"... funny and tragic

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            • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

              Patriarchy hurts everyone.

              Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

              iscarlosmolero@raccoonisland.socialI This user is from outside of this forum
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              #14

              @alice *Sigh*

              I’ve been called gay on LinkedIn just because my brand/website uses a colorful muted palette.

              Let’s leave aside the fact that “gay” is being used as an insult.

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              • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                theorangetheme@en.osm.townT This user is from outside of this forum
                theorangetheme@en.osm.townT This user is from outside of this forum
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                #15

                @alice Desperately begging insecure fathers to stop ruining their sons.

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                • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                  Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                  Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                  boojum@hachyderm.io
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                  @alice I was in a sweater shop in Ireland. The woman at the counter showed me the men's section, with the color choices being dark green, dark blue, grey, and greyer. I gestured towards the women's section and said, "what about those?"

                  She looked at me, startled, and said, "Surely you wouldn't be seen in public wearing those!" It was all I could do to keep a straight face.

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                  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                    joykill@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
                    joykill@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                    #17

                    @alice NO! The only hererosexual colours are beige, brown, khaki, white and black, everything else is GAY! 😡

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                    • heathen_cat@furs.socialH heathen_cat@furs.social

                      @alice
                      I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

                      davey_cakes@mastodon.ieD This user is from outside of this forum
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                      davey_cakes@mastodon.ie
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                      #18

                      @heathen_cat @alice
                      It's a bit fucked up how my daughter is 9 and my son is 6 but it's my son that isn't allowed wear bright colors any more according to supermarket clothes retailers.

                      There's an expectation for if the colors are from a computer game.

                      (Online seems to be the way to go though, we've got him stuff he loves)

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                      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                        Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                        Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                        bribear@blahaj.zoneB This user is from outside of this forum
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                        @alice@lgbtqia.space omg I was just thinking this yesterday as I walked into the office to see a sea of plain. I've got my summer wardrobe full of colour lined up and ready. People generally compliment it if they say anything at all.

                        It's really too bad it's not easier to find the colourful clothes. I've built my collection over years and about half are "Hawaiian" style shirts.

                        Unlock the colour!

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                        • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                          Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                          Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                          drewnaylor@mastodon.onlineD This user is from outside of this forum
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                          @alice Plus for those who don't like bright solid colors (perhaps due to trauma with toxic positivity), multi-color plaids exist (this is what I do when not at home) (I am a plaid enjoyer).

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                          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                            Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                            Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                            lyrial@transfem.socialL This user is from outside of this forum
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                            @alice@lgbtqia.spac

                            > No! I must wear a spectrum of beige with vague US constitutional quotes surrounding a Punisher logo in order to make sure that my masculinity is on display!

                            -Idiots

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                            • divverent@misskey.deD divverent@misskey.de
                              @alice@lgbtqia.space Kings once wore pink.
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                              @divVerent @alice It's a whole thing - the Great Male Renunciation. Suddenly in the 18th century men switched from dressing colorfully and flamboyantly to wearing almost nothing but suits.

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                              Thought to be because dressing flamboyantly was associated with aristocracy, which became unpopular after the American and French Revolutions.

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                              • luxliquida@critter.cafeL luxliquida@critter.cafe

                                @raaahbin @eruonna @alice This is beautiful.

                                alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
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                                @luxliquida indeed 💕

                                @raaahbin @eruonna

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                                • heathen_cat@furs.socialH heathen_cat@furs.social

                                  @alice
                                  I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

                                  alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  #24

                                  @heathen_cat 🫂

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                                  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                                    pecet@f3d1.euP This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    #25

                                    @alice Black is the best color though 😞

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                                    • divverent@misskey.deD divverent@misskey.de
                                      @alice@lgbtqia.space Kings once wore pink.
                                      dzwiedziu@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      #26

                                      @divVerent
                                      And they're all dead, coincidence?

                                      @alice

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                                      • joykill@mastodon.socialJ joykill@mastodon.social

                                        @alice NO! The only hererosexual colours are beige, brown, khaki, white and black, everything else is GAY! 😡

                                        dzwiedziu@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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                                        dzwiedziu@mastodon.social
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                                        #27

                                        @joykill
                                        Oh, then my favourite colour, morally gray, is gay also!

                                        @alice

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                                        • heathen_cat@furs.socialH heathen_cat@furs.social

                                          @alice
                                          I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

                                          dzwiedziu@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
                                          dzwiedziu@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
                                          dzwiedziu@mastodon.social
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                                          #28

                                          @heathen_cat
                                          Maybe some colour accessories would help?

                                          @alice

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