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Patriarchy hurts everyone.

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  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

    joykill@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
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    joykill@mastodon.social
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    #17

    @alice NO! The only hererosexual colours are beige, brown, khaki, white and black, everything else is GAY! 😡

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    • heathen_cat@furs.socialH heathen_cat@furs.social

      @alice
      I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

      davey_cakes@mastodon.ieD This user is from outside of this forum
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      #18

      @heathen_cat @alice
      It's a bit fucked up how my daughter is 9 and my son is 6 but it's my son that isn't allowed wear bright colors any more according to supermarket clothes retailers.

      There's an expectation for if the colors are from a computer game.

      (Online seems to be the way to go though, we've got him stuff he loves)

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      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

        Patriarchy hurts everyone.

        Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

        bribear@blahaj.zoneB This user is from outside of this forum
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        #19

        @alice@lgbtqia.space omg I was just thinking this yesterday as I walked into the office to see a sea of plain. I've got my summer wardrobe full of colour lined up and ready. People generally compliment it if they say anything at all.

        It's really too bad it's not easier to find the colourful clothes. I've built my collection over years and about half are "Hawaiian" style shirts.

        Unlock the colour!

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        • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

          Patriarchy hurts everyone.

          Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

          drewnaylor@mastodon.onlineD This user is from outside of this forum
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          #20

          @alice Plus for those who don't like bright solid colors (perhaps due to trauma with toxic positivity), multi-color plaids exist (this is what I do when not at home) (I am a plaid enjoyer).

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          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

            Patriarchy hurts everyone.

            Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

            lyrial@transfem.socialL This user is from outside of this forum
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            #21

            @alice@lgbtqia.spac

            > No! I must wear a spectrum of beige with vague US constitutional quotes surrounding a Punisher logo in order to make sure that my masculinity is on display!

            -Idiots

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            • divverent@misskey.deD divverent@misskey.de
              @alice@lgbtqia.space Kings once wore pink.
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              #22

              @divVerent @alice It's a whole thing - the Great Male Renunciation. Suddenly in the 18th century men switched from dressing colorfully and flamboyantly to wearing almost nothing but suits.

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              Thought to be because dressing flamboyantly was associated with aristocracy, which became unpopular after the American and French Revolutions.

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              • luxliquida@critter.cafeL luxliquida@critter.cafe

                @raaahbin @eruonna @alice This is beautiful.

                alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
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                #23

                @luxliquida indeed 💕

                @raaahbin @eruonna

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                • heathen_cat@furs.socialH heathen_cat@furs.social

                  @alice
                  I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

                  alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #24

                  @heathen_cat 🫂

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                  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                    pecet@f3d1.euP This user is from outside of this forum
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                    #25

                    @alice Black is the best color though 😞

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                    • divverent@misskey.deD divverent@misskey.de
                      @alice@lgbtqia.space Kings once wore pink.
                      dzwiedziu@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #26

                      @divVerent
                      And they're all dead, coincidence?

                      @alice

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                      • joykill@mastodon.socialJ joykill@mastodon.social

                        @alice NO! The only hererosexual colours are beige, brown, khaki, white and black, everything else is GAY! 😡

                        dzwiedziu@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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                        #27

                        @joykill
                        Oh, then my favourite colour, morally gray, is gay also!

                        @alice

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                        • heathen_cat@furs.socialH heathen_cat@furs.social

                          @alice
                          I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

                          dzwiedziu@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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                          #28

                          @heathen_cat
                          Maybe some colour accessories would help?

                          @alice

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                          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                            Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                            Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                            #29

                            @alice
                            I found a violently pink button-up shirt at a thrift store.

                            I've never really been worried about whether my clothes were masculine or feminine, unless I was going to a party and wanted to look cute, but with this shirt I'm a bit worried about causing vision damage.

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                            • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                              Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                              Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                              klegdixal@social.vivaldi.netK This user is from outside of this forum
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                              #30

                              @alice unless you're a witch. Then you shall wear midnight.

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                              • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                                maswan@mastodon.acc.sunet.seM This user is from outside of this forum
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                                #31

                                @alice
                                This was an epiphany in my late 20s/ early 30s. I'm still as cishet as I was, but I can just discard performative stuff if I don't enjoy them.

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                                • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                  Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                  Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                                  cppguy@infosec.spaceC This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  #32

                                  @alice

                                  Can confirm that this still works when a man's in his sixties. 😄

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                                  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                                    sasyecat@mstdn.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    #33

                                    @alice My son works at a deli, and he says the number of angry white people that come in is through the roof now. 🎻 They may have woke to the fact colors, weren't really their problem.

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                                    • lyrial@transfem.socialL lyrial@transfem.social

                                      @alice@lgbtqia.spac

                                      > No! I must wear a spectrum of beige with vague US constitutional quotes surrounding a Punisher logo in order to make sure that my masculinity is on display!

                                      -Idiots

                                      sasyecat@mstdn.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      #34

                                      @lyrial @alice

                                      How else will people know I can't get an erecting without the help of internet porn? - same idiots.

                                      It's okay to see a doctor if this pertains to you.

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                                      • jrbe@scholar.socialJ jrbe@scholar.social

                                        @alice patterns and novel styles, too.

                                        dave@alvarado.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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                                        #35

                                        @jrbe @alice woah woah woah, let's not get ahead of ourselves here. 🤣

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                                        • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                          Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                          Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                                          sobex@social.sciences.reS This user is from outside of this forum
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                                          #36

                                          @alice Is blue a colour ?

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