Patriarchy hurts everyone.
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Patriarchy hurts everyone.
Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.
@alice Plus for those who don't like bright solid colors (perhaps due to trauma with toxic positivity), multi-color plaids exist (this is what I do when not at home) (I am a plaid enjoyer).
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Patriarchy hurts everyone.
Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.
@alice@lgbtqia.spac
> No! I must wear a spectrum of beige with vague US constitutional quotes surrounding a Punisher logo in order to make sure that my masculinity is on display!
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@alice@lgbtqia.space Kings once wore pink.
@divVerent @alice It's a whole thing - the Great Male Renunciation. Suddenly in the 18th century men switched from dressing colorfully and flamboyantly to wearing almost nothing but suits.
Thought to be because dressing flamboyantly was associated with aristocracy, which became unpopular after the American and French Revolutions.
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@luxliquida indeed
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@alice
I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy.
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Patriarchy hurts everyone.
Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.
@alice Black is the best color though
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@alice@lgbtqia.space Kings once wore pink.
@divVerent
And they're all dead, coincidence?
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@alice NO! The only hererosexual colours are beige, brown, khaki, white and black, everything else is GAY!
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@alice
I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy.@heathen_cat
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Patriarchy hurts everyone.
Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.
@alice
I found a violently pink button-up shirt at a thrift store.I've never really been worried about whether my clothes were masculine or feminine, unless I was going to a party and wanted to look cute, but with this shirt I'm a bit worried about causing vision damage.
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Patriarchy hurts everyone.
Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.
@alice unless you're a witch. Then you shall wear midnight.
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Patriarchy hurts everyone.
Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.
@alice
This was an epiphany in my late 20s/ early 30s. I'm still as cishet as I was, but I can just discard performative stuff if I don't enjoy them. -
Patriarchy hurts everyone.
Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.
Can confirm that this still works when a man's in his sixties.
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Patriarchy hurts everyone.
Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.
@alice My son works at a deli, and he says the number of angry white people that come in is through the roof now.
They may have woke to the fact colors, weren't really their problem. -
@alice@lgbtqia.spac
> No! I must wear a spectrum of beige with vague US constitutional quotes surrounding a Punisher logo in order to make sure that my masculinity is on display!
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@alice patterns and novel styles, too.
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Patriarchy hurts everyone.
Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.
@alice Is blue a colour ?
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@alice LOL i forget where i read it the other day but the like "desperation to be *noticed*"... funny and tragic
@mpc3032at what's funny and tragic about wanting to be noticed?
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@alice *Sigh*
I’ve been called gay on LinkedIn just because my brand/website uses a colorful muted palette.
Let’s leave aside the fact that “gay” is being used as an insult.
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Patriarchy hurts everyone.
Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.
@alice
It's the ones that can leave cishet behind, but not the binary that bother me. Still trapped by dominance and power.
