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Patriarchy hurts everyone.

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  • heathen_cat@furs.socialH heathen_cat@furs.social

    @alice
    I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

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    @heathen_cat 🫂

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    • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

      Patriarchy hurts everyone.

      Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

      pecet@f3d1.euP This user is from outside of this forum
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      @alice Black is the best color though 😞

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      • divverent@misskey.deD divverent@misskey.de
        @alice@lgbtqia.space Kings once wore pink.
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        @divVerent
        And they're all dead, coincidence?

        @alice

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        • joykill@mastodon.socialJ joykill@mastodon.social

          @alice NO! The only hererosexual colours are beige, brown, khaki, white and black, everything else is GAY! 😡

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          @joykill
          Oh, then my favourite colour, morally gray, is gay also!

          @alice

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          • heathen_cat@furs.socialH heathen_cat@furs.social

            @alice
            I am desperate for colorful Big & Tall wear for husband. The man just wants to dress like a living crayon box, and all the affordable stuff is black, charcoal, and navy. 😭

            dzwiedziu@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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            @heathen_cat
            Maybe some colour accessories would help?

            @alice

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            • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

              Patriarchy hurts everyone.

              Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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              @alice
              I found a violently pink button-up shirt at a thrift store.

              I've never really been worried about whether my clothes were masculine or feminine, unless I was going to a party and wanted to look cute, but with this shirt I'm a bit worried about causing vision damage.

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              • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                klegdixal@social.vivaldi.netK This user is from outside of this forum
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                @alice unless you're a witch. Then you shall wear midnight.

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                • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                  Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                  Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

                  maswan@mastodon.acc.sunet.seM This user is from outside of this forum
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                  @alice
                  This was an epiphany in my late 20s/ early 30s. I'm still as cishet as I was, but I can just discard performative stuff if I don't enjoy them.

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                  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                    @alice

                    Can confirm that this still works when a man's in his sixties. 😄

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                    • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                      Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                      Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                      @alice My son works at a deli, and he says the number of angry white people that come in is through the roof now. 🎻 They may have woke to the fact colors, weren't really their problem.

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                      • lyrial@transfem.socialL lyrial@transfem.social

                        @alice@lgbtqia.spac

                        > No! I must wear a spectrum of beige with vague US constitutional quotes surrounding a Punisher logo in order to make sure that my masculinity is on display!

                        -Idiots

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                        @lyrial @alice

                        How else will people know I can't get an erecting without the help of internet porn? - same idiots.

                        It's okay to see a doctor if this pertains to you.

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                        • jrbe@scholar.socialJ jrbe@scholar.social

                          @alice patterns and novel styles, too.

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                          @jrbe @alice woah woah woah, let's not get ahead of ourselves here. 🤣

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                          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                            Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                            Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                            @alice Is blue a colour ?

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                            • mpc3032at@mastodon.socialM mpc3032at@mastodon.social

                              @alice LOL i forget where i read it the other day but the like "desperation to be *noticed*"... funny and tragic

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                              @mpc3032at what's funny and tragic about wanting to be noticed?

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                              • iscarlosmolero@raccoonisland.socialI iscarlosmolero@raccoonisland.social

                                @alice *Sigh*

                                I’ve been called gay on LinkedIn just because my brand/website uses a colorful muted palette.

                                Let’s leave aside the fact that “gay” is being used as an insult.

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                                @iscarlosmolero 🫂

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                                • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                  Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                  Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                                  @alice
                                  It's the ones that can leave cishet behind, but not the binary that bother me. Still trapped by dominance and power.

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                                  • iscarlosmolero@raccoonisland.socialI iscarlosmolero@raccoonisland.social

                                    @alice *Sigh*

                                    I’ve been called gay on LinkedIn just because my brand/website uses a colorful muted palette.

                                    Let’s leave aside the fact that “gay” is being used as an insult.

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                                    @iscarlosmolero @alice I was called gay once because I had a red phone

                                    still the prettiest phone i ever had. have a boring "green" (it's grey except under very specific light) pixel 8 now
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                                    • klegdixal@social.vivaldi.netK klegdixal@social.vivaldi.net

                                      @alice unless you're a witch. Then you shall wear midnight.

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                                      @klegdixal @alice what if you're a gay witch?
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                                      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                        Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                        Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                                        @alice Some people with a time machine would try to avert some catastrophe or another. I’d just make sure nobody pays attention to Beau Brummell 😬

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                                        • klegdixal@social.vivaldi.netK klegdixal@social.vivaldi.net

                                          @alice unless you're a witch. Then you shall wear midnight.

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                                          @klegdixal@social.vivaldi.net

                                          gestures at Glinda

                                          @alice@lgbtqia.space

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