Skip to content
  • Categories
  • Recent
  • Tags
  • Popular
  • World
  • Users
  • Groups
Skins
  • Light
  • Brite
  • Cerulean
  • Cosmo
  • Flatly
  • Journal
  • Litera
  • Lumen
  • Lux
  • Materia
  • Minty
  • Morph
  • Pulse
  • Sandstone
  • Simplex
  • Sketchy
  • Spacelab
  • United
  • Yeti
  • Zephyr
  • Dark
  • Cyborg
  • Darkly
  • Quartz
  • Slate
  • Solar
  • Superhero
  • Vapor

  • Default (Cyborg)
  • No Skin
Collapse
Brand Logo

CIRCLE WITH A DOT

  1. Home
  2. Uncategorized
  3. The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it.

The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it.

Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Uncategorized
27 Posts 24 Posters 0 Views
  • Oldest to Newest
  • Newest to Oldest
  • Most Votes
Reply
  • Reply as topic
Log in to reply
This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
  • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

    The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

    jplebreton@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
    jplebreton@mastodon.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
    jplebreton@mastodon.social
    wrote last edited by
    #6

    @grumpygamer "network effects" are a killer! kinda means an alternative needs to be overwhelmingly better all at once to make a dent, which rarely happens.

    I skylark13@mastodon.gamedev.placeS 2 Replies Last reply
    0
    • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

      The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

      ids1024@mathstodon.xyzI This user is from outside of this forum
      ids1024@mathstodon.xyzI This user is from outside of this forum
      ids1024@mathstodon.xyz
      wrote last edited by
      #7

      @grumpygamer I've been thinking for a while that I should host a Jabber server as soon as I can find anyone who wants to chat on Jabber.

      (It hasn't come up so far. Shockingly.)

      ben@mstdn.gamesB 1 Reply Last reply
      0
      • jplebreton@mastodon.socialJ jplebreton@mastodon.social

        @grumpygamer "network effects" are a killer! kinda means an alternative needs to be overwhelmingly better all at once to make a dent, which rarely happens.

        I This user is from outside of this forum
        I This user is from outside of this forum
        iwoakura@twit.social
        wrote last edited by
        #8

        @grumpygamer @jplebreton well the unsurmountable inevitability of network effects is the lie big social companies are telling you today.

        In reality all that's keeping them from beeing disrupted is a big moat full of aggressive IP laws/lawyers around their business model (e.g. controlling access to "their" users)

        Link Preview Image
        Pluralistic: Threads’ margin is the Eurostack’s opportunity (30 Jan 2026) – Pluralistic: Daily links from Cory Doctorow

        favicon

        (pluralistic.net)

        1 Reply Last reply
        0
        • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

          The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

          imalcolm@mastodon.socialI This user is from outside of this forum
          imalcolm@mastodon.socialI This user is from outside of this forum
          imalcolm@mastodon.social
          wrote last edited by
          #9

          @grumpygamer

          Going to have to start working on my roleplaying group to ditch Discord as our online meetup venue...

          And I'm dreading it cos it took me way too long to get them to stop using FB Messenger for arrangements and between-sessions discussions. 😬

          1 Reply Last reply
          0
          • R relay@relay.an.exchange shared this topic
          • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

            The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

            baronengel@meow.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
            baronengel@meow.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
            baronengel@meow.social
            wrote last edited by
            #10

            @grumpygamer yep. Same here. I have clients who I can’t abandon.

            1 Reply Last reply
            0
            • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

              The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

              nawanp@fe.disroot.orgN This user is from outside of this forum
              nawanp@fe.disroot.orgN This user is from outside of this forum
              nawanp@fe.disroot.org
              wrote last edited by
              #11

              The problem may be that people don't want to create a new account for every service they probably won't use.

              What if we set up Keycloak or LemonLDAP::ng with the option to log in with Google, Facebook, and Apple? 🤔

              nawanp@fe.disroot.orgN 1 Reply Last reply
              0
              • nawanp@fe.disroot.orgN nawanp@fe.disroot.org

                The problem may be that people don't want to create a new account for every service they probably won't use.

                What if we set up Keycloak or LemonLDAP::ng with the option to log in with Google, Facebook, and Apple? 🤔

                nawanp@fe.disroot.orgN This user is from outside of this forum
                nawanp@fe.disroot.orgN This user is from outside of this forum
                nawanp@fe.disroot.org
                wrote last edited by
                #12

                If you have shared/family computer, you can also configure it to authenticate against Keycloak/LemonLDAP::NG.

                One password to rule them all~~

                1 Reply Last reply
                0
                • ids1024@mathstodon.xyzI ids1024@mathstodon.xyz

                  @grumpygamer I've been thinking for a while that I should host a Jabber server as soon as I can find anyone who wants to chat on Jabber.

                  (It hasn't come up so far. Shockingly.)

                  ben@mstdn.gamesB This user is from outside of this forum
                  ben@mstdn.gamesB This user is from outside of this forum
                  ben@mstdn.games
                  wrote last edited by
                  #13

                  @ids1024 I did set one up for my family way back when, we're now using that for all our family comms. Also setup NextCloud with a calendar shared across all family members. The last one was kind of a killer feature that got everyone around.
                  If you want to start with Jabber, but not make an account, Quicksy is a super-simple start for everyone.

                  1 Reply Last reply
                  0
                  • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

                    The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

                    P This user is from outside of this forum
                    P This user is from outside of this forum
                    puretaste@mastodon.world
                    wrote last edited by
                    #14

                    @grumpygamer Aw, I'll join your self-hosted service, Ron.

                    1 Reply Last reply
                    0
                    • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

                      The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

                      garydesnake@retro.pizzaG This user is from outside of this forum
                      garydesnake@retro.pizzaG This user is from outside of this forum
                      garydesnake@retro.pizza
                      wrote last edited by
                      #15

                      @grumpygamer This is the exact issue I have because due to being jobless and having bad luck in school I have zero IRL friends and my entire social life depends on the friends I got online so it's crucial I stick to wherever they all are 😭 best I've been able to do is add one of my friends on Signal

                      1 Reply Last reply
                      0
                      • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

                        The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

                        matt2@mastodon.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
                        matt2@mastodon.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
                        matt2@mastodon.social
                        wrote last edited by
                        #16

                        @grumpygamer 100% this. I have a similar losing battle with WhatsApp.

                        1 Reply Last reply
                        0
                        • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

                          The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

                          thanius@mastodon.chuggybumba.comT This user is from outside of this forum
                          thanius@mastodon.chuggybumba.comT This user is from outside of this forum
                          thanius@mastodon.chuggybumba.com
                          wrote last edited by
                          #17

                          @grumpygamer I know the feeling. It's also quite hurtful when I explain that the selfhosted server is own by me and they still don't want to join. It's like they trust evil corpos more than me 😞

                          ninjadodo@mastodon.gamedev.placeN 1 Reply Last reply
                          0
                          • thanius@mastodon.chuggybumba.comT thanius@mastodon.chuggybumba.com

                            @grumpygamer I know the feeling. It's also quite hurtful when I explain that the selfhosted server is own by me and they still don't want to join. It's like they trust evil corpos more than me 😞

                            ninjadodo@mastodon.gamedev.placeN This user is from outside of this forum
                            ninjadodo@mastodon.gamedev.placeN This user is from outside of this forum
                            ninjadodo@mastodon.gamedev.place
                            wrote last edited by
                            #18

                            @thanius That's not about trust though, it's about convenience and how many tech hoops you have the energy to jump through on top of all the other ones and how much extra hassle you want to deal with. Same reason everyone hasn't switched to Linux even though Windows sucks. It's just inertia. I wouldn't take it personally.

                            1 Reply Last reply
                            0
                            • mcc@mastodon.socialM mcc@mastodon.social

                              @grumpygamer I've had luck getting people to collaborate via shared links over cryptpad.fr, but somehow I can't get them to make accounts there…

                              S This user is from outside of this forum
                              S This user is from outside of this forum
                              steppl@mastodon.social
                              wrote last edited by
                              #19

                              @mcc

                              @grumpygamer

                              ... And they have this 'registered' initial tier where you not even give much more info than user + pass 🤔

                              1 Reply Last reply
                              0
                              • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

                                The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

                                andreasdavour@dice.campA This user is from outside of this forum
                                andreasdavour@dice.campA This user is from outside of this forum
                                andreasdavour@dice.camp
                                wrote last edited by
                                #20

                                @grumpygamer either you manage to convince them to switch with the same reasons you decided, or you have to use some kind of incentive. It has to be super easy, and preferably get some killer feature that trigger the want to do it.

                                I have been there myself, and know the intellectual arguments wont cut it on some individuals.

                                1 Reply Last reply
                                0
                                • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

                                  The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

                                  mlabowicz@hachyderm.ioM This user is from outside of this forum
                                  mlabowicz@hachyderm.ioM This user is from outside of this forum
                                  mlabowicz@hachyderm.io
                                  wrote last edited by
                                  #21

                                  @grumpygamer my strategy is to use the popular tools to communicate and collaborate with normies, but to keep my personal data in places I trust. For example, use Google drive to collaborate on a shared spreadsheet, but use Libreoffice for any sensitive spreadsheets that only you use

                                  1 Reply Last reply
                                  0
                                  • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

                                    The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

                                    jcolomb@nerdculture.deJ This user is from outside of this forum
                                    jcolomb@nerdculture.deJ This user is from outside of this forum
                                    jcolomb@nerdculture.de
                                    wrote last edited by
                                    #22

                                    @grumpygamer

                                    sole argument that really worked for me so far (on the job):
                                    "Sorry, it is illegal for me to use googledoc/dropbox/... I am fine with cryptpad or can provide you access to our GDPR compliant collabora/nextcloud/... tool.

                                    1 Reply Last reply
                                    0
                                    • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

                                      The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

                                      vamp898@mastodon.ikaros.spaceV This user is from outside of this forum
                                      vamp898@mastodon.ikaros.spaceV This user is from outside of this forum
                                      vamp898@mastodon.ikaros.space
                                      wrote last edited by
                                      #23

                                      @grumpygamer Thats the wrong approach.

                                      You create an account for them and say "Here, there you go, log in and change your password after first login".

                                      On the other hand, i never had any company ever that used Discord.

                                      1 Reply Last reply
                                      0
                                      • jplebreton@mastodon.socialJ jplebreton@mastodon.social

                                        @grumpygamer "network effects" are a killer! kinda means an alternative needs to be overwhelmingly better all at once to make a dent, which rarely happens.

                                        skylark13@mastodon.gamedev.placeS This user is from outside of this forum
                                        skylark13@mastodon.gamedev.placeS This user is from outside of this forum
                                        skylark13@mastodon.gamedev.place
                                        wrote last edited by
                                        #24

                                        @jplebreton @grumpygamer Isn't this the same argument people use to stay on Twitter?

                                        jplebreton@mastodon.socialJ 1 Reply Last reply
                                        0
                                        • grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.placeG grumpygamer@mastodon.gamedev.place

                                          The problem with ditching services like Discord or Google Docs or Dropbox isn't me, I'm happy to do it. It's everyones I need to work with. They aren't going to join my self-hosted service just to exchange work files or chat, etc. I've tried.

                                          jenskutilek@typo.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
                                          jenskutilek@typo.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
                                          jenskutilek@typo.social
                                          wrote last edited by
                                          #25

                                          @grumpygamer Does anyone still know how to upload to an FTP server, perhaps? 🤔

                                          1 Reply Last reply
                                          0
                                          Reply
                                          • Reply as topic
                                          Log in to reply
                                          • Oldest to Newest
                                          • Newest to Oldest
                                          • Most Votes


                                          • Login

                                          • Login or register to search.
                                          • First post
                                            Last post
                                          0
                                          • Categories
                                          • Recent
                                          • Tags
                                          • Popular
                                          • World
                                          • Users
                                          • Groups