@gatesvp Thanks for the thoughtful reply! 
Agreed there is no simple resolution to this because this is complicated.
I do like she is still very aware it is an AI (i have seen other interviews where other people in love with their AI partners are convinced they are sentient or conscious).
The key is connection: she has family and friends surely but they are not able to fill the need in her that feels validated by being in this relationship.
I too expect these relationships will be more widespread, hence the conversations around what defines a partner is a big part of it.