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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

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  • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

    @jordgubben i am curious if those perceived as “weird” as a kid see themselves as “weird” as an adult. Even in today’s classrooms kids use weird as a pejorative (something which never really resonated with me as a weird kid by others and weird as an adult of my own admission.

    Also I’ve not heard neurobland. Can you share more on that?

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    @lifewithtrees Oh.

    #neurobland is the opposite of #neurospicy.

    So like #neurodivergent vs. #neurotypical, but without the connotation that the later would be more common (or even "healthier").

    If you have not hear about it before it's because I came upp with it ca 10 minutes ago.

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    • jordgubben@mastodon.gamedev.placeJ jordgubben@mastodon.gamedev.place

      @lifewithtrees Oh.

      #neurobland is the opposite of #neurospicy.

      So like #neurodivergent vs. #neurotypical, but without the connotation that the later would be more common (or even "healthier").

      If you have not hear about it before it's because I came upp with it ca 10 minutes ago.

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      @jordgubben gotcha! That makes sense 🙂 thanks for sharing it!

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      • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

        @bazkie I get this but not the shit people part.

        I always saw it as weird is normal and it’s therefore normal to be weird.

        My whole family would identify as “weird”. I do wonder if weird is neurodivergent!

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        #10

        @lifewithtrees ah right, well, for me it was used as a slur. "that kid is weird - don't interact with him". I understand there's also a positive version of weird 🙂

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        • bazkie@beige.partyB bazkie@beige.party

          @lifewithtrees ah right, well, for me it was used as a slur. "that kid is weird - don't interact with him". I understand there's also a positive version of weird 🙂

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          @bazkie it was used that way against me too. I’d shrug and say “thanks!”

          It’s something my parents taught me to be proud of cuz they are weird too 🥰

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          • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

            @bazkie it was used that way against me too. I’d shrug and say “thanks!”

            It’s something my parents taught me to be proud of cuz they are weird too 🥰

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            @lifewithtrees good for you!

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            • bazkie@beige.partyB bazkie@beige.party

              @lifewithtrees good for you!

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              @bazkie yes I’m lucky that we are all weird enough to flaunt it lol!

              And also too weird to pretend otherwise ha!

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              • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                #AskFedi

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                @lifewithtrees@mstdn.social yeeeah this is why fedi is home

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                • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                  Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                  #AskFedi

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                  @lifewithtrees I even got an award for it. "Ridder av det frie elektron" (Knight of the free electron).

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                  • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                    Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                    #AskFedi

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                    @lifewithtrees Embrase the weird!

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                    • jordgubben@mastodon.gamedev.placeJ jordgubben@mastodon.gamedev.place

                      @lifewithtrees Oh.

                      #neurobland is the opposite of #neurospicy.

                      So like #neurodivergent vs. #neurotypical, but without the connotation that the later would be more common (or even "healthier").

                      If you have not hear about it before it's because I came upp with it ca 10 minutes ago.

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                      @jordgubben @lifewithtrees

                      I like the analogy that some types are simply more stimulating. However I feel that bland has a negative connotation so something else might be better suited

                      But again I absolutely love the approach cause especially the stimulation overdrive is what some days literally feel like.

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                      • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                        Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                        #AskFedi

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                        @lifewithtrees I don't know what they called me. I just know they avoided me like the plague - and throughout my adult life - same.

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                        • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                          Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                          #AskFedi

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                          @lifewithtrees
                          in my childhood weird was seldom used I was just considers odd.

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                          • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                            Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                            #AskFedi

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                            @lifewithtrees
                            It's the fediverse, the results check out

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                              @NickSchwanck yep that’s my take too as an AuDHDer.

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                              • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                                Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                                #AskFedi

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                                @lifewithtrees I like to consider us weirdos as outliers. Or as Yogi Bear (not Berra) said, smarter than the average bear.

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                                • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                                  Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                                  #AskFedi

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                                  @lifewithtrees

                                  It was all in my head. No one cared then and no one cares now. And I sure don't care. I wish I.would have realized that at a much younger age.

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                                  • kmachel@muenchen.socialK kmachel@muenchen.social

                                    @jordgubben @lifewithtrees

                                    I like the analogy that some types are simply more stimulating. However I feel that bland has a negative connotation so something else might be better suited

                                    But again I absolutely love the approach cause especially the stimulation overdrive is what some days literally feel like.

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                                    @Kmachel
                                    neurovanilla and neuropepperoni
                                    @jordgubben @lifewithtrees

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                                    • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                                      Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                                      #AskFedi

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                                      @lifewithtrees well the exact terms used were frightening and unsetteling but that counts as weird I'd say.

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                                      • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                                        Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                                        #AskFedi

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                                        @lifewithtrees

                                        I call myself "the eccentric uncle."

                                        Is that weird enough for you?

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                                        • jeffgrigg@mastodon.socialJ jeffgrigg@mastodon.social

                                          @lifewithtrees

                                          I call myself "the eccentric uncle."

                                          Is that weird enough for you?

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                                          @JeffGrigg entirely up to you what is weird I think

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