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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

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  • bazkie@beige.partyB bazkie@beige.party

    @lifewithtrees oh yeah, I was always called weird. and I suppose I was.

    now, I bet I'm still as weird in those people's eyes.. but I consider them shit people tbh so who cares lol

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    @bazkie I get this but not the shit people part.

    I always saw it as weird is normal and it’s therefore normal to be weird.

    My whole family would identify as “weird”. I do wonder if weird is neurodivergent!

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    • lordcaramac@discordian.socialL lordcaramac@discordian.social

      @lifewithtrees I have always been weird, I will always be weird. I like being weird. All my friends are weird.

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      @LordCaramac big fan of weird too. It’s easier to be myself 🙂

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      • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

        @jordgubben i am curious if those perceived as “weird” as a kid see themselves as “weird” as an adult. Even in today’s classrooms kids use weird as a pejorative (something which never really resonated with me as a weird kid by others and weird as an adult of my own admission.

        Also I’ve not heard neurobland. Can you share more on that?

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        @lifewithtrees Oh.

        #neurobland is the opposite of #neurospicy.

        So like #neurodivergent vs. #neurotypical, but without the connotation that the later would be more common (or even "healthier").

        If you have not hear about it before it's because I came upp with it ca 10 minutes ago.

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        • jordgubben@mastodon.gamedev.placeJ jordgubben@mastodon.gamedev.place

          @lifewithtrees Oh.

          #neurobland is the opposite of #neurospicy.

          So like #neurodivergent vs. #neurotypical, but without the connotation that the later would be more common (or even "healthier").

          If you have not hear about it before it's because I came upp with it ca 10 minutes ago.

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          @jordgubben gotcha! That makes sense 🙂 thanks for sharing it!

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          • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

            @bazkie I get this but not the shit people part.

            I always saw it as weird is normal and it’s therefore normal to be weird.

            My whole family would identify as “weird”. I do wonder if weird is neurodivergent!

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            @lifewithtrees ah right, well, for me it was used as a slur. "that kid is weird - don't interact with him". I understand there's also a positive version of weird 🙂

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            • bazkie@beige.partyB bazkie@beige.party

              @lifewithtrees ah right, well, for me it was used as a slur. "that kid is weird - don't interact with him". I understand there's also a positive version of weird 🙂

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              @bazkie it was used that way against me too. I’d shrug and say “thanks!”

              It’s something my parents taught me to be proud of cuz they are weird too 🥰

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              • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                @bazkie it was used that way against me too. I’d shrug and say “thanks!”

                It’s something my parents taught me to be proud of cuz they are weird too 🥰

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                @lifewithtrees good for you!

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                • bazkie@beige.partyB bazkie@beige.party

                  @lifewithtrees good for you!

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                  @bazkie yes I’m lucky that we are all weird enough to flaunt it lol!

                  And also too weird to pretend otherwise ha!

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                  • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                    Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                    #AskFedi

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                    @lifewithtrees@mstdn.social yeeeah this is why fedi is home

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                    • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                      Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                      #AskFedi

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                      @lifewithtrees I even got an award for it. "Ridder av det frie elektron" (Knight of the free electron).

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                      • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                        Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                        #AskFedi

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                        @lifewithtrees Embrase the weird!

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                        • jordgubben@mastodon.gamedev.placeJ jordgubben@mastodon.gamedev.place

                          @lifewithtrees Oh.

                          #neurobland is the opposite of #neurospicy.

                          So like #neurodivergent vs. #neurotypical, but without the connotation that the later would be more common (or even "healthier").

                          If you have not hear about it before it's because I came upp with it ca 10 minutes ago.

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                          @jordgubben @lifewithtrees

                          I like the analogy that some types are simply more stimulating. However I feel that bland has a negative connotation so something else might be better suited

                          But again I absolutely love the approach cause especially the stimulation overdrive is what some days literally feel like.

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                          • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                            Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                            #AskFedi

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                            @lifewithtrees I don't know what they called me. I just know they avoided me like the plague - and throughout my adult life - same.

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                            • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                              Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                              #AskFedi

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                              @lifewithtrees
                              in my childhood weird was seldom used I was just considers odd.

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                              • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                                Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                                #AskFedi

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                                @lifewithtrees
                                It's the fediverse, the results check out

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                                  @NickSchwanck yep that’s my take too as an AuDHDer.

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                                  • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                                    Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                                    #AskFedi

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                                    @lifewithtrees I like to consider us weirdos as outliers. Or as Yogi Bear (not Berra) said, smarter than the average bear.

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                                    • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                                      Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                                      #AskFedi

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                                      @lifewithtrees

                                      It was all in my head. No one cared then and no one cares now. And I sure don't care. I wish I.would have realized that at a much younger age.

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                                      • kmachel@muenchen.socialK kmachel@muenchen.social

                                        @jordgubben @lifewithtrees

                                        I like the analogy that some types are simply more stimulating. However I feel that bland has a negative connotation so something else might be better suited

                                        But again I absolutely love the approach cause especially the stimulation overdrive is what some days literally feel like.

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                                        @Kmachel
                                        neurovanilla and neuropepperoni
                                        @jordgubben @lifewithtrees

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                                        • lifewithtrees@mstdn.socialL lifewithtrees@mstdn.social

                                          Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?

                                          #AskFedi

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                                          @lifewithtrees well the exact terms used were frightening and unsetteling but that counts as weird I'd say.

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