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Most autistic people, despite everything, actually like being autistic.

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  • katyelphinstone@mas.toK katyelphinstone@mas.to

    @lispi314

    Indeed it is! My daughter's geography teacher told her yesterday that humans aren't animals. Er... 🤷‍♀️

    @jens

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    @KatyElphinstone @lispi314 It's weird, yes, but also easily explained. At least in the West, people have believed for two thousand years that they were meant to rule over the animal kingdom, not be part of it. Says so in the bible!

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    • katyelphinstone@mas.toK katyelphinstone@mas.to

      Most autistic people, despite everything, actually like being autistic.

      Not all, of course. But most of us.
      And I don’t just mean ‘making peace with it’.

      I mean: it's bound up with who we are.

      A thread 🧵

      1/11

      (refs at the end)
      #Autism #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodivergent

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      @KatyElphinstone I would give away my ADHD but I'm clinging onto my Autism and would defend it with my life.

      I really like being autistic.

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      • shinybat@zeroes.caS shinybat@zeroes.ca

        @jmcclure @KatyElphinstone Similarly, I wouldn't want to change my general brain operating system - or perhaps more accurately can't imagine what it'd be like to have a different one! - but wish I didn't get so easily overloaded by light and sound 😭🦇😭

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        @shinybat Same for the overloaded part + for my specific situation, my risks of having 7 different kinds of cancerS (already got the same two times) as everything is linked to my rare genetic mutation.

        @jmcclure @KatyElphinstone

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        • adelinej@piaille.frA adelinej@piaille.fr

          @shinybat Same for the overloaded part + for my specific situation, my risks of having 7 different kinds of cancerS (already got the same two times) as everything is linked to my rare genetic mutation.

          @jmcclure @KatyElphinstone

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          @adelinej

          Woah. That is such a lot to be carrying 😵‍💫❤️🫂

          @shinybat @jmcclure

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          • katzenmann@c3d2.socialK katzenmann@c3d2.social

            @KatyElphinstone I would give away my ADHD but I'm clinging onto my Autism and would defend it with my life.

            I really like being autistic.

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            @katzenmann @KatyElphinstone

            Autism without ADHD is like lemon ice cream without chocolate sauce.

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            • katyelphinstone@mas.toK katyelphinstone@mas.to

              @adelinej

              Woah. That is such a lot to be carrying 😵‍💫❤️🫂

              @shinybat @jmcclure

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              @KatyElphinstone As I was mentioning in my answer yesterday autism is my DNA…

              The rare mutation genetic I have probably inherited from my dad, as I have like him macrocephaly, can also be linked to autism amid others things like the cancerS risks. 🫣🫠

              —-

              PTEN Gene and Autism: Genetic Underpinnings and Neurodevelopmental Impacts

              Access Denied

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              @shinybat @jmcclure

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              • katyelphinstone@mas.toK katyelphinstone@mas.to

                If autistic people are saying ‘this is part of who I am’ and the response is to continue to fund ways to reduce and eliminate autism, while making very sure our voices are not heard.

                That isn’t neutral.
                It's chilling. 😨

                11/11

                End of 🧵

                Refs in link below 👇

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                @KatyElphinstone
                I've never heard from to an autistic person who wanted a "cure" who didn't seem to lack self-awareness or at least a nuanced view on autism.

                It's one thing to suffere from a sensory experience so much, that you'd rather be a different person than to continue suffering, the same goes for loneliness, but some people act, like between autistic and allistic, there is a secret third option, or worse, they'd rather be the kind of person they complain about for others.

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                • hauchvonstaub@nrw.socialH hauchvonstaub@nrw.social

                  @KatyElphinstone
                  I've never heard from to an autistic person who wanted a "cure" who didn't seem to lack self-awareness or at least a nuanced view on autism.

                  It's one thing to suffere from a sensory experience so much, that you'd rather be a different person than to continue suffering, the same goes for loneliness, but some people act, like between autistic and allistic, there is a secret third option, or worse, they'd rather be the kind of person they complain about for others.

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                  @KatyElphinstone
                  Complaining about how allistic people act, but then wishing to become one of them means wanting to just be on the other side of mistreatment and opression.
                  Just wanting to be the perpetrator instead of the victim.

                  It's likely partially that lack of self-awareness, that makes people like this so "unpopular" and to many unlikable, not just the autism.

                  People like that would probably still be miserable and self-hating, if they could become allistic.

                  2/

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                    @lispi314 of course humans are animals.

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                    • hauchvonstaub@nrw.socialH hauchvonstaub@nrw.social

                      @KatyElphinstone
                      Complaining about how allistic people act, but then wishing to become one of them means wanting to just be on the other side of mistreatment and opression.
                      Just wanting to be the perpetrator instead of the victim.

                      It's likely partially that lack of self-awareness, that makes people like this so "unpopular" and to many unlikable, not just the autism.

                      People like that would probably still be miserable and self-hating, if they could become allistic.

                      2/

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                      @KatyElphinstone
                      If you could "change your neurotype", people like that could become the equivalent of people who become addicted to plastic surgery, because it's never enough and the problem lies somewhere else (at least until they could change the part of their brain that makes them lack self-awareness and makes them narrow minded).

                      But it is this lack of self-awareness, that makes a productive discussion impossible, so I usually don't try to change their view on the matter.

                      3/3

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                      • katyelphinstone@mas.toK katyelphinstone@mas.to

                        If autistic people are saying ‘this is part of who I am’ and the response is to continue to fund ways to reduce and eliminate autism, while making very sure our voices are not heard.

                        That isn’t neutral.
                        It's chilling. 😨

                        11/11

                        End of 🧵

                        Refs in link below 👇

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                        @KatyElphinstone You have once again nailed the subtext of the research. Unfortunately.

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                        • katyelphinstone@mas.toK katyelphinstone@mas.to

                          Because a ‘world without autism’ isn't abstract.
                          It's a world without autistic people. 🙎🏽‍♀️🙎🏾🙎🏻‍♀️

                          There’s also a deeper issue here.

                          Autistic people aren't believed about our own experiences. Or we don't get asked at all.

                          #UtaFrith said it would be unscientific to do so. More on her views here: https://mas.to/@KatyElphinstone/116206483353899881

                          5/11

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                          @KatyElphinstone Have you seen this response to that whole line of thought? "Anti-ableism and scientific accuracy in autism research: a false dichotomy" (Morton Ann #Gernsbacher is one of the authors):

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                          Anti-ableism and scientific accuracy in autism research: a false dichotomy - PubMed

                          It was recently argued that autism researchers committed to rejecting ableist frameworks in their research may sacrifice "scientifically accurate" conceptualizations of autism. In this perspective piece, we argue that: (a) anti-ableism vs. scientific accuracy is a false dichotomy, (b) there is no id …

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                          • orb2069@mastodon.onlineO orb2069@mastodon.online

                            @KatyElphinstone

                            Looking into the origin of the phrase 'high functioning autistic' really opened my eyes. They want what they can use.

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                            @Orb2069 @KatyElphinstone what was the origin? When I'm told that phrase I feel so deflated.

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                            • seconduniverse@autistics.lifeS seconduniverse@autistics.life

                              @Orb2069 @KatyElphinstone what was the origin? When I'm told that phrase I feel so deflated.

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                              @SecondUniverse

                              This fig plucker:

                              "Asperger did not belong to the Nazi Party, but he referred disabled children to the Am Spiegelgrund clinic in Vienna’s Am Steinhof psychiatric hospital, where almost 800 children were murdered between 1940 and 1945 as part of the regime’s euthanasia program. "
                              https://blogs.uoregon.edu/autismhistoryproject/people/hans-asperger/#:~:text=Asperger%20did%20not%20belong%20to%20the%20Nazi%20Party%2C%20but%20he%20referred%20disabled%20children%20to%20the%20Am%20Spiegelgrund%20clinic%20in%20Vienna%E2%80%99s%20Am%20Steinhof%20psychiatric%20hospital%2C%20where%20almost%20800%20children%20were%20murdered%20between%201940%20and%201945%20as%20part%20of%20the%20regime%E2%80%99s%20euthanasia%20program.

                              @KatyElphinstone

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                              • panda@assemblag.esP panda@assemblag.es

                                @KatyElphinstone Thank you for this thread

                                Such a code is ambitious but has more potential than just campaigning for better ethics in the autism research industry.

                                If this were to go ahead I see several phases:
                                1) Development of the code primarily by Autistic researchers
                                2) Inviting as many Autistic researchers and some potential allies, especially funders, to subscribe to it
                                3) Look for wide adoption… (1/3)

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                                4) If/when a critical mass is reached, it could be used by researchers to make it easier to refuse to participate in unethical projects and for (enlightened and/or looking for a good PR story) funders to make it a requirement in grant agreements… (2/3)
                                @KatyElphinstone

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                                • katyelphinstone@mas.toK katyelphinstone@mas.to

                                  So what could ethical research look like, instead?

                                  Here's the proposed researchers’ code of ethics:

                                  1. Co-participation,
                                  2. Respectful language,
                                  3. Autistic differences not always as deficits,
                                  4. No alignment with those promoting ABA, eugenics, and similar harms.

                                  Far from today's reality.

                                  7/11

                                  Thanks @panda for this! And your work is in the references.

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                                  @KatyElphinstone Thank you for this thread

                                  Such a code is ambitious but has more potential than just campaigning for better ethics in the autism research industry.

                                  If this were to go ahead I see several phases:
                                  1) Development of the code primarily by Autistic researchers
                                  2) Inviting as many Autistic researchers and some potential allies, especially funders, to subscribe to it
                                  3) Look for wide adoption… (1/3)

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                                  • panda@assemblag.esP panda@assemblag.es

                                    4) If/when a critical mass is reached, it could be used by researchers to make it easier to refuse to participate in unethical projects and for (enlightened and/or looking for a good PR story) funders to make it a requirement in grant agreements… (2/3)
                                    @KatyElphinstone

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                                    A much simpler endeavour could be run in parallel: a campaign to have all grant agreements of large projects (say 1+ million UKP/USD?) published in a public register before the project starts. This would enable early scrutiny which could help kill the most unethical projects. If that happens a few times (as it eventually did, but late in the game, with Spectrum 10K) it should also influence funders to support more ethical research. (3/3)
                                    @KatyElphinstone

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                                    • adelinej@piaille.frA adelinej@piaille.fr

                                      @KatyElphinstone As I was mentioning in my answer yesterday autism is my DNA…

                                      The rare mutation genetic I have probably inherited from my dad, as I have like him macrocephaly, can also be linked to autism amid others things like the cancerS risks. 🫣🫠

                                      —-

                                      PTEN Gene and Autism: Genetic Underpinnings and Neurodevelopmental Impacts

                                      Access Denied

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                                      (www.mdpi.com)

                                      @shinybat @jmcclure

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                                      @adelinej

                                      Interesting, thank you for this. I'll read the paper.

                                      @shinybat @jmcclure

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                                      • hauchvonstaub@nrw.socialH hauchvonstaub@nrw.social

                                        @KatyElphinstone
                                        Complaining about how allistic people act, but then wishing to become one of them means wanting to just be on the other side of mistreatment and opression.
                                        Just wanting to be the perpetrator instead of the victim.

                                        It's likely partially that lack of self-awareness, that makes people like this so "unpopular" and to many unlikable, not just the autism.

                                        People like that would probably still be miserable and self-hating, if they could become allistic.

                                        2/

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                                        @hauchvonstaub

                                        Yes, I'd agree there, I think - very interesting avenues of thought 🤔

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                                        • ginevracat@toot.communityG ginevracat@toot.community

                                          @KatyElphinstone You have once again nailed the subtext of the research. Unfortunately.

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                                          @GinevraCat

                                          🙏💟 And 😥

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