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@xaetacore @Saorsa You're choosing to turn away everybody in hopes that maybe the leftoid instances don't see the rare nigger word on your instance and don't block you, or the rare leftoid who strays from one of these instances in an attempt to check you out never sees it and stays. I truly do not understand the optics game and I am saddened that you've chosen to play it, because it's not something you can gain with, unless your goal is to remain small and irrelevant and a satellite instance of places that do allow it unabated.It is our belief that there is an on-going crisis with the politicization of online communities across various hobbies and interests. We acknowledge that free speech absolutism can attract an audience that may skew the neutrality of our community in a particular direction that may isolate prospective members and risk becoming an echo chamber.
You may have already experienced the very same as we have with predominantly liberal communities where you may have not felt very welcome due to the discrepancies between the values held. We hope to avoid that outcome by offering an supplementary advisories that can be voluntarily followed alongside our rules.
We wish for our community to be a place where anyone and everyone can feel comfortable to participate without feeling alienated and disenfranchised.
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@xaetacore @Saorsa You're choosing to turn away everybody in hopes that maybe the leftoid instances don't see the rare nigger word on your instance and don't block you, or the rare leftoid who strays from one of these instances in an attempt to check you out never sees it and stays. I truly do not understand the optics game and I am saddened that you've chosen to play it, because it's not something you can gain with, unless your goal is to remain small and irrelevant and a satellite instance of places that do allow it unabated.It is our belief that there is an on-going crisis with the politicization of online communities across various hobbies and interests. We acknowledge that free speech absolutism can attract an audience that may skew the neutrality of our community in a particular direction that may alienate prospective members and risk becoming an echo chamber.
You may have already experienced the very same with predominantly liberal communities where you may have not felt very welcome due to a discrepancy between the values you hold. We hope to avoid that outcome by offering an supplementary advisory that can be voluntarily followed alongside our rules.
We wish for our community to be a place where anyone and everyone can feel comfortable to participate without feeling and disenfranchised as some of us have been in past communities.
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Part of our mission statement for the instance is to allow our users to exercise the full range of their speech and expression with the stipulation that expletives aren't made common place. This is strike a balance between our autonomy and anti-censorship while keeping a good rapport with other instances and their operators.
I'm empathetic to your circumstances however as I have found myself in the same position on numerous occasions. Provided the frequent use of slurs isn't a deal breaker for you, you are more than welcome stick around with us on the instance.
@MacGuffin @xaetacore@Saorsa @xaetacore I haven't broken any of these "supplemental advisories". Again, your complaint here is the fuzzy "tact" (aka optics). Is it tacky to repeatedly say nigger? Sure, I acknowledge that. This desire to be le heckin' wholesome chungus site that only occasionally says the gamer word (because we're just above that, unlike le ebil nazis) will just lead you to being declared "poa.st-lite" and blocked by the same exact people regardless. It's a completely pointless hill to stand on. -
@Saorsa @xaetacore I haven't broken any of these "supplemental advisories". Again, your complaint here is the fuzzy "tact" (aka optics). Is it tacky to repeatedly say nigger? Sure, I acknowledge that. This desire to be le heckin' wholesome chungus site that only occasionally says the gamer word (because we're just above that, unlike le ebil nazis) will just lead you to being declared "poa.st-lite" and blocked by the same exact people regardless. It's a completely pointless hill to stand on.@MacGuffin @Saorsa Your first introduction is to say everything you hate including multiple slurs not long after you proceed to throw around more gamer words https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1b7i53hzi306jo
Causing you to be blocked not even a day in your member ship https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1bsjpjhzi306la
Then we have this pos https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1kvzfuhzi3076w
You are fully in your right to say these things but honestly the volume of which you use them reflects very poorly upon our community and i know plenty of people that even greet me with the word nigger but that would not be using it as much as this.
Like i mentioned before nicecrew or poast would be a better fit because they align more with your needs but in this community this kind of behavior scares away any new members and may cause some of our existing members (who fall in your list of hatred) away and that could cost us our community something we worked hard and long to build, please consider that before you talk about optics again
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@Saorsa @xaetacore I haven't broken any of these "supplemental advisories". Again, your complaint here is the fuzzy "tact" (aka optics). Is it tacky to repeatedly say nigger? Sure, I acknowledge that. This desire to be le heckin' wholesome chungus site that only occasionally says the gamer word (because we're just above that, unlike le ebil nazis) will just lead you to being declared "poa.st-lite" and blocked by the same exact people regardless. It's a completely pointless hill to stand on.We don't expect to placate political radicals on the opposite poles of the political spectrum. We want to occupy a comfortable middle ground where we can have reasonable coverage across most of the Fediverse. If that means we end up getting fediblocked or admonished by either, then so be it.
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@MacGuffin @Saorsa Your first introduction is to say everything you hate including multiple slurs not long after you proceed to throw around more gamer words https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1b7i53hzi306jo
Causing you to be blocked not even a day in your member ship https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1bsjpjhzi306la
Then we have this pos https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1kvzfuhzi3076w
You are fully in your right to say these things but honestly the volume of which you use them reflects very poorly upon our community and i know plenty of people that even greet me with the word nigger but that would not be using it as much as this.
Like i mentioned before nicecrew or poast would be a better fit because they align more with your needs but in this community this kind of behavior scares away any new members and may cause some of our existing members (who fall in your list of hatred) away and that could cost us our community something we worked hard and long to build, please consider that before you talk about optics again
RE: https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1275g0hzi305rd@xaetacore @MacGuffin @Saorsa I think you should simply add a rule to not use slurs and be done with it. This concern trolling and tone policing is incredibly gay and a waste of both your time and the time of those you are policing. You have accepted the leftist definition of what is acceptable and therefore you are, for every intent and purpose, a leftist yourself. You're just an unwilling dhimmy leftist rather than a zealous and enthusiastic true believer leftist. -
We don't expect to placate political radicals on the opposite poles of the political spectrum. We want to occupy a comfortable middle ground where we can have reasonable coverage across most of the Fediverse. If that means we end up getting fediblocked or admonished by either, then so be it.
@MacGuffin @xaetacore@Saorsa @xaetacore this is nothing more than wishful thinking. I get why you want that, but by being any further right (see: "middle") than the common leftoid instance on the fedi, you are seen as
Exactly
The
Same
as an instance like poa.st.
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@Saorsa @xaetacore this is nothing more than wishful thinking. I get why you want that, but by being any further right (see: "middle") than the common leftoid instance on the fedi, you are seen as
Exactly
The
Same
as an instance like poa.st.
You are naïve. This desire is pure naivety.@MacGuffin @Saorsa Im not as obsessed with politics as most people on fedi that puts me in a unique position where i can look past those things -
@MacGuffin @Saorsa Im not as obsessed with politics as most people on fedi that puts me in a unique position where i can look past those things@xaetacore @Saorsa I couldn't give a fuck less about politics, ask @deadlift, he's known me for 12 years. All I'm here for is exactly what's in the mission statement (and well within your instance's rules), the only discrepancy here is frequency. How many times am I allowed to use the gamer word per day? Once? 2.3 times? 0.4 times?
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@xaetacore @MacGuffin @Saorsa I think you should simply add a rule to not use slurs and be done with it. This concern trolling and tone policing is incredibly gay and a waste of both your time and the time of those you are policing. You have accepted the leftist definition of what is acceptable and therefore you are, for every intent and purpose, a leftist yourself. You're just an unwilling dhimmy leftist rather than a zealous and enthusiastic true believer leftist.@deadlift @MacGuffin @Saorsa we have been very patient with this and have explained our position in great depth and our wishes for this community. And if you don't think you fit in this picture, then, please find a place that better fits your definition of a proper community. Because clearly, by your definition, we are not.
There are other things in life than politics. Not every thing is about politics. I get sick of people that are overly obsessed with politics. Because they can only think one certain way -
@deadlift @MacGuffin @Saorsa we have been very patient with this and have explained our position in great depth and our wishes for this community. And if you don't think you fit in this picture, then, please find a place that better fits your definition of a proper community. Because clearly, by your definition, we are not.
There are other things in life than politics. Not every thing is about politics. I get sick of people that are overly obsessed with politics. Because they can only think one certain way@xaetacore @MacGuffin @Saorsa What do I care how 'patient' you have been? That's just another way of saying how much of your time and my time you have wasted. Stop wasting time both now and in the future and add the rule. If I follow the rules I don't want to get a homosexual spiel about how my tone is wrong. That's the purpose of having rules. -
@MacGuffin @Saorsa Your first introduction is to say everything you hate including multiple slurs not long after you proceed to throw around more gamer words https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1b7i53hzi306jo
Causing you to be blocked not even a day in your member ship https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1bsjpjhzi306la
Then we have this pos https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1kvzfuhzi3076w
You are fully in your right to say these things but honestly the volume of which you use them reflects very poorly upon our community and i know plenty of people that even greet me with the word nigger but that would not be using it as much as this.
Like i mentioned before nicecrew or poast would be a better fit because they align more with your needs but in this community this kind of behavior scares away any new members and may cause some of our existing members (who fall in your list of hatred) away and that could cost us our community something we worked hard and long to build, please consider that before you talk about optics again
RE: https://neondystopia.world/notes/al1275g0hzi305rd@xaetacore @Saorsa I don't care about being blocked. I'm also completely unashamed. -
@xaetacore @Saorsa I couldn't give a fuck less about politics, ask @deadlift, he's known me for 12 years. All I'm here for is exactly what's in the mission statement (and well within your instance's rules), the only discrepancy here is frequency. How many times am I allowed to use the gamer word per day? Once? 2.3 times? 0.4 times?@xaetacore @Saorsa Are there any Misskey sharties you can recommend where being a low-class nigger disrespector and low-IQ anti-semite is allowed? cc: @MacGuffin
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@xaetacore @Saorsa Are there any Misskey sharties you can recommend where being a low-class nigger disrespector and low-IQ anti-semite is allowed? cc: @MacGuffin@deadlift @xaetacore @Saorsa I already asked, he doesn't know. He doesn't even know about the other misskey server list since he didn't bother linking it. https://the-federation.info/misskey
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@xaetacore @MacGuffin @Saorsa What do I care how 'patient' you have been? That's just another way of saying how much of your time and my time you have wasted. Stop wasting time both now and in the future and add the rule. If I follow the rules I don't want to get a homosexual spiel about how my tone is wrong. That's the purpose of having rules.@deadlift @MacGuffin @Saorsa Fair point, based on this thread and your pointers we have taken the time to revise our policy and rules to take your points into account, we are still a new community our policy and rules warrant revision which takes time and some things only come to light when testing in "production".
https://policy.neondystopia.world/
We have done our best to revise it in a way that would make people regardless of their stance understand our goals. and i personally hope this clears any misunderstanding, and my apologies that if after reading this you perhaps feel misled, that is not our intention -
@deadlift @MacGuffin @Saorsa Fair point, based on this thread and your pointers we have taken the time to revise our policy and rules to take your points into account, we are still a new community our policy and rules warrant revision which takes time and some things only come to light when testing in "production".
https://policy.neondystopia.world/
We have done our best to revise it in a way that would make people regardless of their stance understand our goals. and i personally hope this clears any misunderstanding, and my apologies that if after reading this you perhaps feel misled, that is not our intention@xaetacore @deadlift @Saorsa This is nebulous and completely pointless. Banning people at "your discretion" will only make anybody who wants to use your instance walk on invisible eggshells, for no gain to you whatsoever. This is fucking sad. -
@xaetacore @deadlift @Saorsa This is nebulous and completely pointless. Banning people at "your discretion" will only make anybody who wants to use your instance walk on invisible eggshells, for no gain to you whatsoever. This is fucking sad.@MacGuffin @deadlift @Saorsa We are not banning anyone nor banning you, we have nowhere insinuated that we would ban you, any other instance would have done so already
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@MacGuffin @deadlift @Saorsa We are not banning anyone nor banning you, we have nowhere insinuated that we would ban you, any other instance would have done so already@xaetacore @deadlift @Saorsa but that's effectively what the rule is. That's what tone-policing and optics is. A nebulous "uhhhhh only use it sparingly okay? teehee" results in what is happening right now: a pointless waste of time debate over what is and is not acceptable, even though you've repeatedly reassured me that I've not broken any rules (I know) and I'm not being banned.
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@xaetacore @deadlift @Saorsa but that's effectively what the rule is. That's what tone-policing and optics is. A nebulous "uhhhhh only use it sparingly okay? teehee" results in what is happening right now: a pointless waste of time debate over what is and is not acceptable, even though you've repeatedly reassured me that I've not broken any rules (I know) and I'm not being banned.@MacGuffin @deadlift @Saorsa if you're not going to respect what we are trying to build here then this is not the place for you
We have made our point pretty clearly and have given leniency. As long as you adhere to these rules, there is no problem. It is that simple. If you have a problem with that, I urge you to seek another place. -
@xaetacore @deadlift @Saorsa but that's effectively what the rule is. That's what tone-policing and optics is. A nebulous "uhhhhh only use it sparingly okay? teehee" results in what is happening right now: a pointless waste of time debate over what is and is not acceptable, even though you've repeatedly reassured me that I've not broken any rules (I know) and I'm not being banned.You are still free to communicate the same message, all we ask is that you use different vocabulary to do so. I don't think not using slurs and other expletives is a very tall task.
You can say still say you hate jews without calling them kikes. If your vocabulary is that stunted you feel the need to resort to slurs and expletives then that is more of a reflection on you than it is us.
@xaetacore @deadlift @Saorsa