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My son is 11,autistic, and obsessed with Minecraft.

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  • lizzard@social.tchncs.deL lizzard@social.tchncs.de

    @fiend_unpleasant @crazyeddie @fesshole yeah, I meant them. I got what you were trying to say, and totally agree: the IT world has more than the average proportion of autistic people.

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    @lizzard @fiend_unpleasant @crazyeddie @fesshole IT department where i work is majority neurospicy. not all diagnosed, but some of them are kind of obvious? (i'm an autist myself.)

    personal take: hire us for IT! we're good at it!

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    • starkrg@myside-yourside.netS starkrg@myside-yourside.net

      @jonm Most of all, give people the time to complete their tasks in the way that best works for them. Deadlines are an unfortunate fact of life, but don't create unnecessary deadlines that just stress people out, and try to plan for both people to be slower and more meticulous and for unforseen delays. You don't need to go all Scotty and quadruple any time estimate, but at least increase it by half if not doubling it.
      (2/2)

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      @StarkRG @jonm

      Yeah, I'm not seeing anything there that's specific to autism. That's sage advice for dealing with just about anybody.

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      • walsonde@antifa.styleW walsonde@antifa.style

        @StarkRG @jonm addendum: it's easier in German culture because we don't need to tiptoe around allegedly hurtful things like saying no. we just say no, when we mean no. I have English relatives and spent a lot of time in England. For me, that's very exhausting because noone says what they mean.

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        @walsonde

        This must be why all those people fled from England to America back in the day. 😜

        @StarkRG @jonm

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        • crazyeddie@mastodon.socialC crazyeddie@mastodon.social

          @fiend_unpleasant @fesshole That's actually a really unkind thing to say.

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          @crazyeddie @fiend_unpleasant @fesshole something wrong with being autistic?

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          • lizzard@social.tchncs.deL lizzard@social.tchncs.de

            @walsonde @StarkRG @jonm this test is for you then: https://german.millermanschool.com/ πŸ˜‰
            Greetings from a fellow German autistic.

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            @lizzard Yes. πŸ˜„ @walsonde @StarkRG @jonm

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            • starkrg@myside-yourside.netS starkrg@myside-yourside.net

              @sldrant "Now you're just arguing semantics." Yeah, no shit, I'm arguing semantics, because the meaning of the words being used to communicate directly influences what's actually being communicated. If we don't make sure we're all using approximately the same meanings, then you get the issue where the term "inflammable" was assumed to mean "not flammable".

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              @StarkRG @sldrant Highly recommend "The Tyranny Of Words" by Stuart Chase (1938)
              https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2343374.The_Tyranny_of_Words
              This is exactly the premise you are defending.

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              • fesshole@mastodon.socialF fesshole@mastodon.social

                My son is 11,autistic, and obsessed with Minecraft. I manage a team of 4 Database Engineers. At some point I started to talk to them like how the parenting courses told me to communicate with my son and the team morale and overall performance has shot up so much we got an award

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                @fesshole
                Your parenting course is good. πŸ‘

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                • argv_minus_one@mastodon.sdf.orgA argv_minus_one@mastodon.sdf.org

                  @walsonde

                  This must be why all those people fled from England to America back in the day. 😜

                  @StarkRG @jonm

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                  @argv_minus_one @StarkRG @jonm funny enough, today I wouldn't flee from Germany to England, but I'm genuinely considering emigrating to Scotland.

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                  • walsonde@antifa.styleW walsonde@antifa.style

                    @argv_minus_one @StarkRG @jonm funny enough, today I wouldn't flee from Germany to England, but I'm genuinely considering emigrating to Scotland.

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                    @walsonde

                    Why, what's going on in Scotland?

                    @StarkRG @jonm

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                    • sldrant@mastodon.socialS sldrant@mastodon.social

                      @StarkRG @fesshole I've been told off by a past manager for being particular with the words I'm using, but in a technical field those words have proper meanings, so being unambiguous is important

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                      @sldrant

                      Outside of the arts, I can't think of many fields where clear and unambiguous communication *isn't* important.

                      @StarkRG @fesshole

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                      • argv_minus_one@mastodon.sdf.orgA argv_minus_one@mastodon.sdf.org

                        @walsonde

                        Why, what's going on in Scotland?

                        @StarkRG @jonm

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                        @argv_minus_one @StarkRG @jonm nothing special really. It's just that fascists have taken over Germany and it's no longer a matter of "if" but "when" people like me will be put in KZs again.
                        Never in all my travels across europe have I encountered nicer and kinder people than in Scotland (by a very great margin). So I was hoping that I could find a small village somewhere in the outback where I would be left alone and in peace.

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                        • fesshole@mastodon.socialF fesshole@mastodon.social

                          My son is 11,autistic, and obsessed with Minecraft. I manage a team of 4 Database Engineers. At some point I started to talk to them like how the parenting courses told me to communicate with my son and the team morale and overall performance has shot up so much we got an award

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                          @fesshole πŸ‘

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                            @murodegrizeco

                            Any idea what went wrong at the workplace? In theory, updating one library shouldn't be hard…

                            @masek

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                            • argv_minus_one@mastodon.sdf.orgA argv_minus_one@mastodon.sdf.org

                              @murodegrizeco

                              Any idea what went wrong at the workplace? In theory, updating one library shouldn't be hard…

                              @masek

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                              @murodegrizeco

                              Although to be fair, Minecraft isn't exactly mission-critical. Nobody's going to die or lose a million bucks if it crashes. One kid will be temporarily annoyed, and that's it.

                              @masek

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                              • crazyeddie@mastodon.socialC crazyeddie@mastodon.social

                                @fiend_unpleasant @fesshole That's actually a really unkind thing to say.

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                                @crazyeddie @fiend_unpleasant @fesshole i'm autistic and i must respectfully disagree

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                                • argv_minus_one@mastodon.sdf.orgA argv_minus_one@mastodon.sdf.org

                                  @murodegrizeco

                                  Although to be fair, Minecraft isn't exactly mission-critical. Nobody's going to die or lose a million bucks if it crashes. One kid will be temporarily annoyed, and that's it.

                                  @masek

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                                  @argv_minus_one @murodegrizeco Tell that to a community of hundreds of kids for whom the Minecraft server is the center of their social life 😁.

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                                  • argv_minus_one@mastodon.sdf.orgA argv_minus_one@mastodon.sdf.org

                                    @murodegrizeco

                                    Any idea what went wrong at the workplace? In theory, updating one library shouldn't be hard…

                                    @masek

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                                    @argv_minus_one @murodegrizeco The bad guys were already on the server. Minecraft was, where log4j was first discovered.

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                                    • fesshole@mastodon.socialF fesshole@mastodon.social

                                      My son is 11,autistic, and obsessed with Minecraft. I manage a team of 4 Database Engineers. At some point I started to talk to them like how the parenting courses told me to communicate with my son and the team morale and overall performance has shot up so much we got an award

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                                      @fesshole Probably also responsible for at least one of those engineers getting an adult-autism diagnosis and finally receiving care. πŸ˜‚β€‹πŸ‘β€‹

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                                        @murodegrizeco @argv_minus_one Container mess is especially strange thing, as a lot of those containers are essentially 3rd party "managed". So it might take a while before 3rd parties fix anything on the container images. 😞

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                                        • fesshole@mastodon.socialF fesshole@mastodon.social

                                          My son is 11,autistic, and obsessed with Minecraft. I manage a team of 4 Database Engineers. At some point I started to talk to them like how the parenting courses told me to communicate with my son and the team morale and overall performance has shot up so much we got an award

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                                          @fesshole "Treat your coworkers like you love them and support their growth and success"

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