Her: I am not sure if you're trying to present as a man or as a butch lesbian Me: I'm presenting as a human being. Her: that isn't enough for me to figure it outMe: figure out what? Her: Me: Her: are you a boy or a girl? Me: oh I'm an adult but if you're really curious gender isn't one of the social constructs I really vibe withHer: what social constructs do you vibe with? Me: pretty cool with North, South, East, West, but I'm kinda not going to participate in Up and Down or Left and Right in socially acceptable ways sometimesHer: the cardinal directions aren't a social construct Me: they are