Her: I am not sure if you're trying to present as a man or as a butch lesbian
Me: I'm presenting as a human being.
Her: that isn't enough for me to figure it out
Me: figure out what?
Her:
Me:
Her: are you a boy or a girl?
Me: oh I'm an adult but if you're really curious gender isn't one of the social constructs I really vibe with
Her: what social constructs do you vibe with?
Me: pretty cool with North, South, East, West, but I'm kinda not going to participate in Up and Down or Left and Right in socially acceptable ways sometimes
Her: the cardinal directions aren't a social construct
Me: they are