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Car just drove by and one of the guys in it made the πŸˆπŸ‘… gesture out the window at me.

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  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

    Car just drove by and one of the guys in it made the πŸˆπŸ‘… gesture out the window at me.

    Not sure if it was an observation based on my aesthetic, or the threat of a 🐰good time🐰, but either way...guys, this is why y'all're still single.

    ginevracat@toot.communityG This user is from outside of this forum
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    @alice Damn right. WTAF πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ

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    • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

      Car just drove by and one of the guys in it made the πŸˆπŸ‘… gesture out the window at me.

      Not sure if it was an observation based on my aesthetic, or the threat of a 🐰good time🐰, but either way...guys, this is why y'all're still single.

      theorangetheme@en.osm.townT This user is from outside of this forum
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      #6

      @alice "Male loneliness epidemic." πŸ™„

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      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

        Car just drove by and one of the guys in it made the πŸˆπŸ‘… gesture out the window at me.

        Not sure if it was an observation based on my aesthetic, or the threat of a 🐰good time🐰, but either way...guys, this is why y'all're still single.

        kwayk42@sechtor.socialK This user is from outside of this forum
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        #7

        @alice and here I thought it was because of all the time I spend at my computer πŸ€”

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        • xavier@infosec.exchangeX xavier@infosec.exchange

          @alice It's crazy to me that there are still men on this planet that think that's a good thing to do. I apology on behalf of people with penises.

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          @Xavier @alice +1

          I find those assholes that act like that to be dishonouring to everyone!

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          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

            Car just drove by and one of the guys in it made the πŸˆπŸ‘… gesture out the window at me.

            Not sure if it was an observation based on my aesthetic, or the threat of a 🐰good time🐰, but either way...guys, this is why y'all're still single.

            gbargoud@masto.nycG This user is from outside of this forum
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            #9

            @alice

            I don't know what it is with drivers in Seattle, most are fine but there is some small contingent who are absolutely unhinged and full to the brim with insecurities about their masculinity.

            One time I was biking back from West Seattle Beach late at night and was in the road because there were 5 Ubers parked in the bike lane and some guy in a Prius pulls up next to me and starts yelling at me "do you want me to kill you, you little n*****r, do you want me to kill you, you little f****t"

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            • gbargoud@masto.nycG gbargoud@masto.nyc

              @alice

              I don't know what it is with drivers in Seattle, most are fine but there is some small contingent who are absolutely unhinged and full to the brim with insecurities about their masculinity.

              One time I was biking back from West Seattle Beach late at night and was in the road because there were 5 Ubers parked in the bike lane and some guy in a Prius pulls up next to me and starts yelling at me "do you want me to kill you, you little n*****r, do you want me to kill you, you little f****t"

              alice@lgbtqia.spaceA This user is from outside of this forum
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              #10

              @gbargoud WTAF?!

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              • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                Car just drove by and one of the guys in it made the πŸˆπŸ‘… gesture out the window at me.

                Not sure if it was an observation based on my aesthetic, or the threat of a 🐰good time🐰, but either way...guys, this is why y'all're still single.

                sebastian@mastodon.sebfox.netS This user is from outside of this forum
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                #11

                @alice Are you addressing *all* "guys"? I'm a "guy", but neither do I drive an insult on four wheels (also called "car"), nor am I single. πŸ™‚

                The shame of being a "human being" is enough already!

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                • sebastian@mastodon.sebfox.netS sebastian@mastodon.sebfox.net

                  @alice Are you addressing *all* "guys"? I'm a "guy", but neither do I drive an insult on four wheels (also called "car"), nor am I single. πŸ™‚

                  The shame of being a "human being" is enough already!

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                  @sebastian if you felt called out, it might have been about you; otherwise, it wasn't.

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                  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                    @sebastian if you felt called out, it might have been about you; otherwise, it wasn't.

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                    @alice I obviously didn't, otherwise I wouldn't have spoken up. I just wanted to point out the word "all" in your posting. I understand your sentiment, please understand mine.

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                    • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                      @gbargoud WTAF?!

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                      #14

                      @alice

                      The bad experiences are rare but *extremely* memorable.

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                      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                        Car just drove by and one of the guys in it made the πŸˆπŸ‘… gesture out the window at me.

                        Not sure if it was an observation based on my aesthetic, or the threat of a 🐰good time🐰, but either way...guys, this is why y'all're still single.

                        dodothedev@front-end.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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                        #15

                        @alice
                        Yuk, I don't get people (sadly, mostly men) like this.
                        Its like the men on dating apps who will start a conversation with a dick pic. Why?! Am I really old, because its just not how you talk to people (of any gender). Even _if_ this is your ultimate goal.

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                        • sebastian@mastodon.sebfox.netS sebastian@mastodon.sebfox.net

                          @alice I obviously didn't, otherwise I wouldn't have spoken up. I just wanted to point out the word "all" in your posting. I understand your sentiment, please understand mine.

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                          @sebastian

                          Opposed to calling out the behavior of the male individual, or expressing support for the original poster, you felt the need to state that you disagree with the addition of the word "all",while agreeing that you weren't mentioned or targeted by said word?

                          Does that about cover it? I am trying to make sure I understand this correctly.

                          @alice

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                          • aprazeth@mstdn.socialA aprazeth@mstdn.social

                            @sebastian

                            Opposed to calling out the behavior of the male individual, or expressing support for the original poster, you felt the need to state that you disagree with the addition of the word "all",while agreeing that you weren't mentioned or targeted by said word?

                            Does that about cover it? I am trying to make sure I understand this correctly.

                            @alice

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                            @Aprazeth Not quite. Not being targeted was my personal opinion. I didn't say, all men are single. That wasn't me.

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                            • aprazeth@mstdn.socialA aprazeth@mstdn.social

                              @sebastian

                              Opposed to calling out the behavior of the male individual, or expressing support for the original poster, you felt the need to state that you disagree with the addition of the word "all",while agreeing that you weren't mentioned or targeted by said word?

                              Does that about cover it? I am trying to make sure I understand this correctly.

                              @alice

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                              @Aprazeth @alice Because I'm seeking distance to my fellow human-beings, that's why I take offence in the word "all". TBH: I'm ashamed to be one of us.

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                              • gbargoud@masto.nycG gbargoud@masto.nyc

                                @alice

                                The bad experiences are rare but *extremely* memorable.

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                                @gbargoud πŸ«‚

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                                • aprazeth@mstdn.socialA aprazeth@mstdn.social

                                  @sebastian

                                  Someone is the victim of sexual harassment and you are offended by their use of the term "all", even if you again admitted to not identifying as being addressed.

                                  And you express that by negging the victim. Not by expressing any kind of sympathy, not by distancing yourself from the sexual harassment, but by publicly declaring that it isn't all men doing that.

                                  @alice

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                                  @sebastian

                                  Not sexually harassing someone isn't an achievement worthy of praise. Its being a decent person. Kind of like showing sympathy towards a victim.

                                  Well, unless apparently the victim doesn't conform to the criteria of being all proper and trim with their wording. Let's ignore the fact that they experienced a traumatic event - because they used the wrong words.

                                  What's next? Asking what they were wearing? Because they might have provoked it and called it upon themselves?

                                  @alice

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                                  • sebastian@mastodon.sebfox.netS sebastian@mastodon.sebfox.net

                                    @Aprazeth @alice Because I'm seeking distance to my fellow human-beings, that's why I take offence in the word "all". TBH: I'm ashamed to be one of us.

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                                    @sebastian

                                    Someone is the victim of sexual harassment and you are offended by their use of the term "all", even if you again admitted to not identifying as being addressed.

                                    And you express that by negging the victim. Not by expressing any kind of sympathy, not by distancing yourself from the sexual harassment, but by publicly declaring that it isn't all men doing that.

                                    @alice

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                                    • aprazeth@mstdn.socialA aprazeth@mstdn.social

                                      @sebastian

                                      Not sexually harassing someone isn't an achievement worthy of praise. Its being a decent person. Kind of like showing sympathy towards a victim.

                                      Well, unless apparently the victim doesn't conform to the criteria of being all proper and trim with their wording. Let's ignore the fact that they experienced a traumatic event - because they used the wrong words.

                                      What's next? Asking what they were wearing? Because they might have provoked it and called it upon themselves?

                                      @alice

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                                      @sebastian

                                      You have very clearly distanced yourself.

                                      Not from the sexual harassment
                                      Not from the perpetrator

                                      But from any form of decency towards an actual victim.

                                      I wanted to believe that there was a misunderstanding, yet it is clear there is not.

                                      I bid you adieu.

                                      @alice

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                                      • aprazeth@mstdn.socialA aprazeth@mstdn.social

                                        @sebastian

                                        Not sexually harassing someone isn't an achievement worthy of praise. Its being a decent person. Kind of like showing sympathy towards a victim.

                                        Well, unless apparently the victim doesn't conform to the criteria of being all proper and trim with their wording. Let's ignore the fact that they experienced a traumatic event - because they used the wrong words.

                                        What's next? Asking what they were wearing? Because they might have provoked it and called it upon themselves?

                                        @alice

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                                        @Aprazeth @alice I've been harassed and called out myself, back then, when I was still young and handsome. It happens to men too, you know? I know how it is.

                                        Just don't associate me with "them", or "all" and all is good.

                                        Chill out!

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                                        • aprazeth@mstdn.socialA aprazeth@mstdn.social

                                          @sebastian

                                          You have very clearly distanced yourself.

                                          Not from the sexual harassment
                                          Not from the perpetrator

                                          But from any form of decency towards an actual victim.

                                          I wanted to believe that there was a misunderstanding, yet it is clear there is not.

                                          I bid you adieu.

                                          @alice

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                                          @Aprazeth @alice Adieu! πŸ™‚

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