Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?
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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?
@lifewithtrees Therelation between the two questions confuse me. One is about public perception, the other as self insight.
I see not reason to consider myself any weirder today as I'd consider myself in my youth, but I can imagine a whole bunch of #neuroblands disagreeing with both assessments.
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@lifewithtrees Therelation between the two questions confuse me. One is about public perception, the other as self insight.
I see not reason to consider myself any weirder today as I'd consider myself in my youth, but I can imagine a whole bunch of #neuroblands disagreeing with both assessments.
@jordgubben i am curious if those perceived as “weird” as a kid see themselves as “weird” as an adult. Even in today’s classrooms kids use weird as a pejorative (something which never really resonated with me as a weird kid by others and weird as an adult of my own admission.
Also I’ve not heard neurobland. Can you share more on that?
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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?
@lifewithtrees oh yeah, I was always called weird. and I suppose I was.
now, I bet I'm still as weird in those people's eyes.. but I consider them shit people tbh so who cares lol
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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?
@lifewithtrees I have always been weird, I will always be weird. I like being weird. All my friends are weird.
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@lifewithtrees oh yeah, I was always called weird. and I suppose I was.
now, I bet I'm still as weird in those people's eyes.. but I consider them shit people tbh so who cares lol
@bazkie I get this but not the shit people part.
I always saw it as weird is normal and it’s therefore normal to be weird.
My whole family would identify as “weird”. I do wonder if weird is neurodivergent!
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@lifewithtrees I have always been weird, I will always be weird. I like being weird. All my friends are weird.
@LordCaramac big fan of weird too. It’s easier to be myself
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@jordgubben i am curious if those perceived as “weird” as a kid see themselves as “weird” as an adult. Even in today’s classrooms kids use weird as a pejorative (something which never really resonated with me as a weird kid by others and weird as an adult of my own admission.
Also I’ve not heard neurobland. Can you share more on that?
@lifewithtrees Oh.
#neurobland is the opposite of #neurospicy.
So like #neurodivergent vs. #neurotypical, but without the connotation that the later would be more common (or even "healthier").
If you have not hear about it before it's because I came upp with it ca 10 minutes ago.
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@lifewithtrees Oh.
#neurobland is the opposite of #neurospicy.
So like #neurodivergent vs. #neurotypical, but without the connotation that the later would be more common (or even "healthier").
If you have not hear about it before it's because I came upp with it ca 10 minutes ago.
@jordgubben gotcha! That makes sense
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@bazkie I get this but not the shit people part.
I always saw it as weird is normal and it’s therefore normal to be weird.
My whole family would identify as “weird”. I do wonder if weird is neurodivergent!
@lifewithtrees ah right, well, for me it was used as a slur. "that kid is weird - don't interact with him". I understand there's also a positive version of weird
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@lifewithtrees ah right, well, for me it was used as a slur. "that kid is weird - don't interact with him". I understand there's also a positive version of weird
@bazkie it was used that way against me too. I’d shrug and say “thanks!”
It’s something my parents taught me to be proud of cuz they are weird too 🥰
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@bazkie it was used that way against me too. I’d shrug and say “thanks!”
It’s something my parents taught me to be proud of cuz they are weird too 🥰
@lifewithtrees good for you!
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@lifewithtrees good for you!
@bazkie yes I’m lucky that we are all weird enough to flaunt it lol!
And also too weird to pretend otherwise ha!
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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?
@lifewithtrees@mstdn.social yeeeah this is why fedi is home
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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?
@lifewithtrees I even got an award for it. "Ridder av det frie elektron" (Knight of the free electron).
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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?
@lifewithtrees Embrase the weird!
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@lifewithtrees Oh.
#neurobland is the opposite of #neurospicy.
So like #neurodivergent vs. #neurotypical, but without the connotation that the later would be more common (or even "healthier").
If you have not hear about it before it's because I came upp with it ca 10 minutes ago.
I like the analogy that some types are simply more stimulating. However I feel that bland has a negative connotation so something else might be better suited
But again I absolutely love the approach cause especially the stimulation overdrive is what some days literally feel like.
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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?
@lifewithtrees I don't know what they called me. I just know they avoided me like the plague - and throughout my adult life - same.
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Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?
@lifewithtrees
in my childhood weird was seldom used I was just considers odd. -
Were you referred to as “the weird kid” growing up / Do you consider yourself to be “weird” as an adult?
@lifewithtrees
It's the fediverse, the results check out -
@NickSchwanck yep that’s my take too as an AuDHDer.
