hi cis white guys
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@tillybridges weird how no one wants to listen to what you're saying and want to change your words; but they seemed pretty straightforward and clear.
@old_angry_queer THANK YOU
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hi cis white guys
it is never okay to comment on a photo of a trans woman with “i’d do you”
stop it forever
@tillybridges oh gross!
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hi cis white guys
it is never okay to comment on a photo of a trans woman with “i’d do you”
stop it forever
@tillybridges Or any woman for that matter. That just sucks bad.
Also, I love how they think that's supposed to be a compliment but you just want to hurl and then hurl things in their general direction.
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@tillybridges Or any woman for that matter. That just sucks bad.
Also, I love how they think that's supposed to be a compliment but you just want to hurl and then hurl things in their general direction.
@raindrops_and_roses not about other women here
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@raindrops_and_roses not about other women here
@tillybridges I get it.
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@tillybridges oh gross!
@Bikil it’s so bad
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hi cis white guys
it is never okay to comment on a photo of a trans woman with “i’d do you”
stop it forever
@tillybridges ewwwww. I need a shower just from reading that. You're right.
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@tillybridges Wait, you mean that all women, trans or cis, don’t immediately crave me when I flippantly sexualize them? This can’t be right, for I am a desirable sex god.
Yes, I mean that too, perhaps a bit ironically than you did.
Some women, trans or cis, actually might like that sort of comment.
Please don't speak for all people of a category that you belong to.
Nobody appointed you official spokesperson for all.Your comment is best taken as advice under consideration, not as a commandment.
Leave individuals to be individuals.
It would be a bit silly if I started speaking for all Indians/Americans/bald people etc.
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hi cis white guys
it is never okay to comment on a photo of a trans woman with “i’d do you”
stop it forever
@tillybridges@mastodon.social
It's not acceptable for any women trans or cis! -
hi cis white guys
it is never okay to comment on a photo of a trans woman with “i’d do you”
stop it forever
There are some disgusting folk out there.
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hi cis white guys
it is never okay to comment on a photo of a trans woman with “i’d do you”
stop it forever
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hi cis white guys
it is never okay to comment on a photo of a trans woman with “i’d do you”
stop it forever
@tillybridges the white dudes…the white dudes are not ok.
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Yes, I mean that too, perhaps a bit ironically than you did.
Some women, trans or cis, actually might like that sort of comment.
Please don't speak for all people of a category that you belong to.
Nobody appointed you official spokesperson for all.Your comment is best taken as advice under consideration, not as a commandment.
Leave individuals to be individuals.
It would be a bit silly if I started speaking for all Indians/Americans/bald people etc.
@purrperl @adhdeanasl hey bud
when a person from a marginalized community speaks on the gross sexual harassment she continually experiences
your job
is to listen and believe her
and not say that some trans women might like being sexually harassed by cis white men
do better
do SO much better
WHAT THE FUCK
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@tillybridges@mastodon.social
It's not acceptable for any women trans or cis!@lemonlolita this is not the point
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@tillybridges the white dudes…the white dudes are not ok.
@minmi *cis
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@tillybridges yes sorry white cis dudes. They are extremely not ok.
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Yes, I mean that too, perhaps a bit ironically than you did.
Some women, trans or cis, actually might like that sort of comment.
Please don't speak for all people of a category that you belong to.
Nobody appointed you official spokesperson for all.Your comment is best taken as advice under consideration, not as a commandment.
Leave individuals to be individuals.
It would be a bit silly if I started speaking for all Indians/Americans/bald people etc.
@purrperl @adhdeanasl @tillybridges the fact that many cis men so frequently take the gamble of "but *some* women like it" explains much of (if not most of) the unsolicited sexual comments, otherwise known as sexual harassment.
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hi cis white guys
it is never okay to comment on a photo of a trans woman with “i’d do you”
stop it forever
@tillybridges pro tip for cis straight guys: if cis women would find your "compliments" gross, so will trans women. Sexual harassment isn't allyship.
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hi cis white guys
it is never okay to comment on a photo of a trans woman with “i’d do you”
stop it forever
@tillybridges or a gender fluid or non-conforming.... IJS
No one wants that from a stranger or someone impersonating others on the internet to gain your affection or private stuff.
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@purrperl @cyberwitch @adhdeanasl @tillybridges what you seem to be missing in all your comparisons is the implied threat of violence, power imbalance- and whether women actually want that kind of comment or are just trying to appease you because they are scared.
Or in an online context can you tell the difference between a porn account and someone who is just trans?
