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If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

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  • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

    @mhoye that's a great way to shut down conversations.

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    @evan I think the default presumption that everyone is welcome to become part of any conversation is only that: an unconsidered default assumption inherited from Twitter and specifically from early Twitter's growth-at-any-cost corporate goals. At the very least we should be considering counterbalancing options.

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    • mayintoronto@beige.partyM mayintoronto@beige.party

      @evan if "mutuals only" were a visibility option, then I'd be okay with reconsidering "followers only" visibility.

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      @mayintoronto @evan Friendica has a system that allows you to define lists comparable to reading lists for posts (or custom-add viewers to posts as you go) - that would resolve this whole situation, and allow people to have more contextual human-shaped discussions (like taking discussion in which you’re trying to find common ground with someone outside your political sphere to the kitchen at a party rather than having your most strident friends come to chew them out for not being already correct, or being able to plan the surprise party or tabletop twist without the whole world and the targets of said surprise hearing about it.) I really want it to get some renewed developmental interest for that reason - mastodon, akin to twitter before it, is sort of a public broadcasting system….

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      • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

        @maj does this help?

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        Attached: 1 image @evan@cosocial.ca It should be visible to the original set as Alice shared the post with her followers, not followers of followers (light blue segment of set diagram). Any of Bob’s followers that also follow Alice will see the post and replies anyway. See comments on set diagram and post about the set theory maths/model - https://mastodon.social/@dahukanna/116030140984675453

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        @evan EXACTLY what I imagined.
        So, the answer would be visible to the intersect between them.
        Of course, how that scales as *those* people reply... there lies the rub.

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        • mhoye@cosocial.caM mhoye@cosocial.ca

          @evan I think the default presumption that everyone is welcome to become part of any conversation is only that: an unconsidered default assumption inherited from Twitter and specifically from early Twitter's growth-at-any-cost corporate goals. At the very least we should be considering counterbalancing options.

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          @mhoye it's not about everyone having access to every conversation. When I make a friend's-only post on Instagram or Facebook, I expect my friends and family to be able to talk to each other. These conversations are really precious and intimate to me. I would hate to have them attenuate to nothing because no one could see each other's replies.

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          • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

            @mhoye that's a great way to shut down conversations.

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            #135

            @evan @mhoye If someone goes followers-only, I think we can assume they're here to talk to their friends and nobody else.

            I feel like I'm violating their trust if my replies leak out of their containment. Especially when that could potentially drive harassment.

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            • maj@cosocial.caM maj@cosocial.ca

              @evan EXACTLY what I imagined.
              So, the answer would be visible to the intersect between them.
              Of course, how that scales as *those* people reply... there lies the rub.

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              @maj Dawn's and my answer would be all of Alice's followers. I don't like the intersection answer, because it gets smaller and smaller over time. I think Alice's intent is to have her friends and family have a conversation, like it works on Instagram and Facebook.

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              • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                @mhoye it's not about everyone having access to every conversation. When I make a friend's-only post on Instagram or Facebook, I expect my friends and family to be able to talk to each other. These conversations are really precious and intimate to me. I would hate to have them attenuate to nothing because no one could see each other's replies.

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                @evan In that context, I would expect that the venn overlap I'm describing would be quite large, but it certainly seems like something we could actually measure and experiment with if it were presented as an option.

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                • flyingsquirrel@mastodon.socialF flyingsquirrel@mastodon.social

                  @evan @mhoye If someone goes followers-only, I think we can assume they're here to talk to their friends and nobody else.

                  I feel like I'm violating their trust if my replies leak out of their containment. Especially when that could potentially drive harassment.

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                  #138

                  @flyingsquirrel @evan I think this is a fair assessment. If the default setting - particularly for somebody with a large number of followers - is that a reply causes a friends-only post to immediately break containment, that makes any reply from anyone who does numbers on here an act of bad faith, intended or not.

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                  • mhoye@cosocial.caM mhoye@cosocial.ca

                    @flyingsquirrel @evan I think this is a fair assessment. If the default setting - particularly for somebody with a large number of followers - is that a reply causes a friends-only post to immediately break containment, that makes any reply from anyone who does numbers on here an act of bad faith, intended or not.

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                    #139

                    @flyingsquirrel @evan Possibly worse: I've got almost 6k followers on here, because I guess I bring some funny now and then.

                    But if I have a vulnerable friend On Here, who maybe feels safe with a small number of curated mutuals and posts something friends only, and my reply brings _six thousand randos_ into the mix? Then I ... can't be that person's friend anymore; not on here at least, not responsibly. I can't talk to them at all.

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                    • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                      @maj Dawn's and my answer would be all of Alice's followers. I don't like the intersection answer, because it gets smaller and smaller over time. I think Alice's intent is to have her friends and family have a conversation, like it works on Instagram and Facebook.

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                      #140

                      @evan @maj I voted for the broader answer, but I have to admit they the intersectional approach is closer to what happens in real life.

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                        #141

                        @twobiscuits @evan
                        You can make posts that are only visible to those mentioned.

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                        • kariboka@mastodon.socialK kariboka@mastodon.social

                          @evan Alices followers only. I am tired of fragmented discussions

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                          @kariboka @evan oh is THAT why that happens??

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                            @twobiscuits no.

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                            Posting to your profile - Mastodon documentation

                            Sharing your thoughts has never been more convenient.

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                            • danso@mtl.rocksD danso@mtl.rocks

                              @evan@cosocial.ca if Bob is malicious, he could simply screenshot Alice's post and share it with his followers.

                              With that in mind, it seems reasonable for his reply to be sent to his followers, with an off-by-default checkbox to also forward Alice's message to his followers.

                              People who don't follow Bob probably shouldn't see Bob's reply. But if Alice appreciates it, she could have an option to forward it to her followers (except any who have blocked Bob). Or maybe if she gives it a 👍/⭐ (and it's a non-private message) then it's automatically sent to her followers?

                              It would also make sense for Charlie to have a profile-wide option to not see replies to posts that he can't see. Even if I'm interested in Bob, I don't need to see his reply to an invisible post by Alice.

                              I realise that has some uncomfortable implications, but as you describe, all of the options seem to. That's what makes it a tough question 🤔

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                              @danso @evan

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                              • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                                If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                #EvanPoll #poll

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                                @evan Hm. I chose "other" but now I think what I meant to select was
                                "both Alice's and Bob's followers"

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                                • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                                  If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                  #EvanPoll #poll

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                                  #146

                                  @evan

                                  it's about principals

                                  i chose "Alice's followers"

                                  to me the imperative here is:

                                  Alice "owns" their top level post and all replies to it

                                  thus Alice's communication style overwhelms the style of anyone who responds to them, in that context

                                  this has much further architecture implications than just your question. but for the matter here, all replies to a top level post defer on all communication style questions to style of the author of the top level post

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                                  • mhoye@cosocial.caM mhoye@cosocial.ca

                                    @evan In that context, I would expect that the venn overlap I'm describing would be quite large, but it certainly seems like something we could actually measure and experiment with if it were presented as an option.

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                                    @mhoye @evan

                                    if Bob replies to a post by Alice, they are implictily relinquishing their communication style to the style of Alice, because it is Alice's top level post. Alice "owns" the conversation as top level poster

                                    Bob must consider the implications of that before replying

                                    that solves the problem

                                    the structure of a conversation is beholden to the imperatives of the starter of that conversation. it should not be hijacked

                                    your other concerns are valid

                                    but are overruled in this context

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                                    • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                                      If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                      #EvanPoll #poll

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                                      #148

                                      @evan

                                      Ideally visibility should be thread scoped with replies able to restrict it but not expand it

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                                      • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                                        If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                        #EvanPoll #poll

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                                        @evan It should be visible only to people who are followers of both, Alice and Bob. Being a follower of just one of them shouldn't be enough.

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                                        • dahukanna@mastodon.socialD dahukanna@mastodon.social

                                          @evan
                                          It should be visible to the original set as Alice shared the post with her followers, not followers of followers (light blue segment of set diagram). Any of Bob’s followers that also follow Alice will see the post and replies anyway. See comments on set diagram and post about the set theory maths/model - https://mastodon.social/@dahukanna/116030140984675453

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                                          @dahukanna @evan

                                          ✅

                                          Alice is the top level poster. it is their conversation. the communication style should flow from that, not be hijacked by someone else's communication style

                                          other people's communication styles matter, but not in this context

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