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If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

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  • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

    @stephaniepixie @mayintoronto I think "followers only" only makes sense if you manually approve followers.

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    @stephaniepixie @mayintoronto @evan followers only mostly acts as a "can't be boosted" technique imo. the audience limitation is secondary.

    side note: why are boost controls and audience controls the same thing! bothers me to no end

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    • flippac@types.plF flippac@types.pl

      @evan this is what happens when people want to have a moderately private conversation, yeah: think of it like the pub/bar/café table filling up for a given subthread

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      #114

      @flippac it's not how most other social networks work. If Alice posted a private photo on Instagram, and Bob commented, Alice's other followers could see Bob's comment, but Bob's followers could not.

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      • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

        If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

        #EvanPoll #poll

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        #115

        @evan@cosocial.ca if Bob is malicious, he could simply screenshot Alice's post and share it with his followers.

        With that in mind, it seems reasonable for his reply to be sent to his followers, with an off-by-default checkbox to also forward Alice's message to his followers.

        People who don't follow Bob probably shouldn't see Bob's reply. But if Alice appreciates it, she could have an option to forward it to her followers (except any who have blocked Bob). Or maybe if she gives it a 👍/⭐ (and it's a non-private message) then it's automatically sent to her followers?

        It would also make sense for Charlie to have a profile-wide option to not see replies to posts that he can't see. Even if I'm interested in Bob, I don't need to see his reply to an invisible post by Alice.

        I realise that has some uncomfortable implications, but as you describe, all of the options seem to. That's what makes it a tough question 🤔

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        • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

          @flippac it's not how most other social networks work. If Alice posted a private photo on Instagram, and Bob commented, Alice's other followers could see Bob's comment, but Bob's followers could not.

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          #116

          @evan yeah, but we actually have an opportunity to have at least one mode work that way whereas the current effect of "followers only" is for everybody to have to ask themselves if someone is following them who shouldn't be party to the conversation

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          • flippac@types.plF flippac@types.pl

            @evan yeah, but we actually have an opportunity to have at least one mode work that way whereas the current effect of "followers only" is for everybody to have to ask themselves if someone is following them who shouldn't be party to the conversation

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            #117

            @evan ("private" here being the DM analogue, ofc)

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            • stephaniepixie@fandom.gardenS stephaniepixie@fandom.garden

              @mayintoronto @evan Yes, this! I know many people would love “mutuals only” posts. I would definitely use that more than “followers only”

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              #118

              @stephaniepixie @mayintoronto @evan
              Yes! Mutuals Only would be a great feature. I don't think it's possible to express in current ActivityPub, but that could be solved by introducing a Mutuals Collection, or set arithmetic for existing Collections (to: (Followers AND Follows)).

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              • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                #EvanPoll #poll

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                #119

                @evan I chose Alice's followers on the understanding that "should" means "what I would expect to happen as a user and how I would want to strive to make it work as an implementor, even though I think that's not now it works now"

                This is on the basis that I believe the replies to a standalone post belong "in the space" of that user's posts, and so they should "live" on their instance, and they should have ability to moderate within that space.

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                • inherentlee@flipping.rocksI inherentlee@flipping.rocks

                  @stephaniepixie @mayintoronto @evan followers only mostly acts as a "can't be boosted" technique imo. the audience limitation is secondary.

                  side note: why are boost controls and audience controls the same thing! bothers me to no end

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                  #120

                  @inherentlee @mayintoronto @evan Yes, I mainly only use “followers only so it can’t be boosted”.
                  It never occurred to me to think of boost control as a potentially separate thing. That would be a good feature even in public posts.

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                  • flippac@types.plF flippac@types.pl

                    @evan ("private" here being the DM analogue, ofc)

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                    #121

                    @evan xitter not working that way was also the source of some easy social faux pas if you so much as forgot that one of the people in a thread had their account locked while you were looking at an individual post (in which case in practice you should stay out of it)

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                    • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                      If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                      #EvanPoll #poll

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                      #122

                      @evan The venn intersection of Alice and Bob's followers.

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                      • mhoye@cosocial.caM mhoye@cosocial.ca

                        @evan The venn intersection of Alice and Bob's followers.

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                        #123

                        @mhoye so, as the conversation goes on, the audience gets smaller and smaller?

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                        • brooke@bikeshed.vibber.netB brooke@bikeshed.vibber.net

                          @evan I chose Alice's followers on the understanding that "should" means "what I would expect to happen as a user and how I would want to strive to make it work as an implementor, even though I think that's not now it works now"

                          This is on the basis that I believe the replies to a standalone post belong "in the space" of that user's posts, and so they should "live" on their instance, and they should have ability to moderate within that space.

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                          #124

                          @evan (in general i'm a big fan of making "spaces" with clear scope and privacy rules that, once you're in them, you're in a little community.

                          on the small scale: people who can see a post and engage with replies to it

                          on the medium scale: private and public groups/forums with moderatable membership

                          on the large scale: instance-level communities

                          vs just stringing together a graph of connected individual posts)

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                          • brooke@bikeshed.vibber.netB brooke@bikeshed.vibber.net

                            @evan (in general i'm a big fan of making "spaces" with clear scope and privacy rules that, once you're in them, you're in a little community.

                            on the small scale: people who can see a post and engage with replies to it

                            on the medium scale: private and public groups/forums with moderatable membership

                            on the large scale: instance-level communities

                            vs just stringing together a graph of connected individual posts)

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                            #125

                            @evan (this is something i'd love to bring to wikis/mediawiki/wikipedia too, but i don't have the time or headspace to deal with that and it would really need more community-management input than i could provide alone. something to think about down the road!)

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                            • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                              @mhoye so, as the conversation goes on, the audience gets smaller and smaller?

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                              #126

                              @evan Absolutely. People can still seek out threads of conversation, but the set of people automatically tagged in get narrowed quickly.

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                              • brooke@bikeshed.vibber.netB brooke@bikeshed.vibber.net

                                @evan (in general i'm a big fan of making "spaces" with clear scope and privacy rules that, once you're in them, you're in a little community.

                                on the small scale: people who can see a post and engage with replies to it

                                on the medium scale: private and public groups/forums with moderatable membership

                                on the large scale: instance-level communities

                                vs just stringing together a graph of connected individual posts)

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                                #127

                                @brooke I like how conversations happen when I make friends-only posts on Facebook.

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                                • mhoye@cosocial.caM mhoye@cosocial.ca

                                  @evan Absolutely. People can still seek out threads of conversation, but the set of people automatically tagged in get narrowed quickly.

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                                  #128

                                  @mhoye that's a great way to shut down conversations.

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                                  • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                                    @brooke I like how conversations happen when I make friends-only posts on Facebook.

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                                    #129

                                    @evan yeah my experience in FB with friends-only posts is pretty great. my friends can post in my replies and see each other even if they're not friends themselves, and I believe I can nuke individual replies if I feel they're disruptive.

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                                    • brooke@bikeshed.vibber.netB brooke@bikeshed.vibber.net

                                      @evan yeah my experience in FB with friends-only posts is pretty great. my friends can post in my replies and see each other even if they're not friends themselves, and I believe I can nuke individual replies if I feel they're disruptive.

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                                      #130

                                      @evan (though there are threat models to think about, like 'is one of alice's friends bob's stalker and they might see bob's reply and glean information from it?', which you just kind of have to bake in to the world-weary hellhole that is planet earth)

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                                      • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                                        @mhoye that's a great way to shut down conversations.

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                                        #131

                                        @evan I think the default presumption that everyone is welcome to become part of any conversation is only that: an unconsidered default assumption inherited from Twitter and specifically from early Twitter's growth-at-any-cost corporate goals. At the very least we should be considering counterbalancing options.

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                                        • mayintoronto@beige.partyM mayintoronto@beige.party

                                          @evan if "mutuals only" were a visibility option, then I'd be okay with reconsidering "followers only" visibility.

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                                          @mayintoronto @evan Friendica has a system that allows you to define lists comparable to reading lists for posts (or custom-add viewers to posts as you go) - that would resolve this whole situation, and allow people to have more contextual human-shaped discussions (like taking discussion in which you’re trying to find common ground with someone outside your political sphere to the kitchen at a party rather than having your most strident friends come to chew them out for not being already correct, or being able to plan the surprise party or tabletop twist without the whole world and the targets of said surprise hearing about it.) I really want it to get some renewed developmental interest for that reason - mastodon, akin to twitter before it, is sort of a public broadcasting system….

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