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Patriarchy hurts everyone.

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  • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

    Patriarchy hurts everyone.

    Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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    @alice

    Can confirm that this still works when a man's in his sixties. 😄

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    • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

      Patriarchy hurts everyone.

      Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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      @alice My son works at a deli, and he says the number of angry white people that come in is through the roof now. 🎻 They may have woke to the fact colors, weren't really their problem.

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      • lyrial@transfem.socialL lyrial@transfem.social

        @alice@lgbtqia.spac

        > No! I must wear a spectrum of beige with vague US constitutional quotes surrounding a Punisher logo in order to make sure that my masculinity is on display!

        -Idiots

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        @lyrial @alice

        How else will people know I can't get an erecting without the help of internet porn? - same idiots.

        It's okay to see a doctor if this pertains to you.

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        • jrbe@scholar.socialJ jrbe@scholar.social

          @alice patterns and novel styles, too.

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          @jrbe @alice woah woah woah, let's not get ahead of ourselves here. 🤣

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          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

            Patriarchy hurts everyone.

            Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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            @alice Is blue a colour ?

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            • mpc3032at@mastodon.socialM mpc3032at@mastodon.social

              @alice LOL i forget where i read it the other day but the like "desperation to be *noticed*"... funny and tragic

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              @mpc3032at what's funny and tragic about wanting to be noticed?

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              • iscarlosmolero@raccoonisland.socialI iscarlosmolero@raccoonisland.social

                @alice *Sigh*

                I’ve been called gay on LinkedIn just because my brand/website uses a colorful muted palette.

                Let’s leave aside the fact that “gay” is being used as an insult.

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                @iscarlosmolero 🫂

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                • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                  Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                  Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                  @alice
                  It's the ones that can leave cishet behind, but not the binary that bother me. Still trapped by dominance and power.

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                  • iscarlosmolero@raccoonisland.socialI iscarlosmolero@raccoonisland.social

                    @alice *Sigh*

                    I’ve been called gay on LinkedIn just because my brand/website uses a colorful muted palette.

                    Let’s leave aside the fact that “gay” is being used as an insult.

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                    @iscarlosmolero @alice I was called gay once because I had a red phone

                    still the prettiest phone i ever had. have a boring "green" (it's grey except under very specific light) pixel 8 now
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                    • klegdixal@social.vivaldi.netK klegdixal@social.vivaldi.net

                      @alice unless you're a witch. Then you shall wear midnight.

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                      @klegdixal @alice what if you're a gay witch?
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                      • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                        Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                        Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                        @alice Some people with a time machine would try to avert some catastrophe or another. I’d just make sure nobody pays attention to Beau Brummell 😬

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                        • klegdixal@social.vivaldi.netK klegdixal@social.vivaldi.net

                          @alice unless you're a witch. Then you shall wear midnight.

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                          @klegdixal@social.vivaldi.net

                          gestures at Glinda

                          @alice@lgbtqia.space

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                          • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                            Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                            Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                            @alice@lgbtqia.space I hear you, but consider: ska

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                            • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                              Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                              Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                              @alice@lgbtqia.space Are you sure?
                              Because if there are feminizing/transing colors or clothes I would like to know so I can equip myself properly

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                              • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                Patriarchy hurts everyone.

                                Like, bruh, you can wear colors—you'll still be just as cishet as you were yesterday.

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                                @alice You mean this guy wasn't turned gay by wearing a pink armor?

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                                • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                  @mpc3032at what's funny and tragic about wanting to be noticed?

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                                  @alice was thinking about the very loud shirts and socks and dresses i often see bro-types wearing, that look playful and fun, but when you talk to them, super unpleasant vibes

                                  to me the darkfunny/tragedy is the overall cultural situation that doesn't give consistent validation / attention and space for peeps to be themselves... instead e.g. locked-down business drone some of the time, and then wiiiild and waaacky golf shirt Fun Guy gets smushed out

                                  but without that framing, tho, nothing wrong

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                                  • pecet@f3d1.euP pecet@f3d1.eu

                                    @alice Black is the best color though 😞

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                                    @pecet if you like black, it's okay to wear black too; my girlfriend wears a lot of black (but also a lot of purple 💜).

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                                    • sobex@social.sciences.reS sobex@social.sciences.re

                                      @alice Is blue a colour ?

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                                      @Sobex only if it's bright blue. Navy blue is tactical grey for seamen 💁🏼‍♀️

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                                      • flesh@transfem.socialF flesh@transfem.social

                                        @alice@lgbtqia.space I hear you, but consider: ska

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                                        @flesh I don't get that reference 😞

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                                        • alice@lgbtqia.spaceA alice@lgbtqia.space

                                          @flesh I don't get that reference 😞

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                                          @alice@lgbtqia.space Checkerboards!

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