Non-binary people do not owe you androgyny.
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@Nausipoule @babe You're doing lateral transphobia, though. Being trans doesn't absolve you of exorsexism. But ok, nonbinary doesn't exist in our (mainstream) culture, making passing as nonbinary impossible. How is that "on us"? Nonbinary people don't choose the cultures we're born into.
@Nausipoule Also, I'd like to point out that @babe has their pronouns in their bio. They're signaling how you should refer to them about as clearly as they can, unless you expect them to make it their display name.
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@Nausipoule Are you, a trans girl, pretending that you don't know what the word "transphobia" means?
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And if you come at me with shit like "but I see you as..." you'll very quickly not be seeing me at all.
@babe I see you as an infosec blogger and lawyer
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@Nausipoule Also, I'd like to point out that @babe has their pronouns in their bio. They're signaling how you should refer to them about as clearly as they can, unless you expect them to make it their display name.
@babe @BathysphereHat I’m just here to instantly smack follow on anybody who uses “Rabbit Cohen” cause that’s peak Jewish humor.
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@Nausipoule Again, how do you pass as nonbinary?
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@babe @BathysphereHat I’m just here to instantly smack follow on anybody who uses “Rabbit Cohen” cause that’s peak Jewish humor.
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@Nausipoule Ohh, so you're a radfem. Got it. Cool. Cool cool cool.
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@babe @BathysphereHat In that case it is possibly the coolest name ever.
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@babe @BathysphereHat In that case it is possibly the coolest name ever.
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@Nausipoule @babe this is bot-level flamebait. Just devoid of mind. Imagine being like this and not doing anything about it (ideally the this but maybe the being).
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I don't give a shit how much it confuses people that my aesthetic is feminine, it doesn't in any way invalidate my internal sense about who and what I am.
@babe the replies to this by that one person are fucking wild, what the fuck. This doesn’t seem particularly controversial but
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@babe the replies to this by that one person are fucking wild, what the fuck. This doesn’t seem particularly controversial but
@jason Honestly it's not anything I haven't heard a thousand times.
Any post about being non-binary taking off is bound to catch the odd rad fem theory. Credit to @BathysphereHat for countering it so calmly, I'd have just said fuck off -
@jason Honestly it's not anything I haven't heard a thousand times.
Any post about being non-binary taking off is bound to catch the odd rad fem theory. Credit to @BathysphereHat for countering it so calmly, I'd have just said fuck off -
I don't give a shit how much it confuses people that my aesthetic is feminine, it doesn't in any way invalidate my internal sense about who and what I am.
@babe heck yes sing it
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I don't give a shit how much it confuses people that my aesthetic is feminine, it doesn't in any way invalidate my internal sense about who and what I am.
@babe
Not that it matters.... Ricky Gervais self identifies as a comedian. AND Nigel Farage self identifies as a human.
If you identify as a woman then I can believe and validate that.
Farage on the other hand??? Seriously, is he even an organism? I can't imagine anything alive willingly associating with the warm, orange lump in the underwear of life. -
Non-binary people do not owe you androgyny.
@babe A friend sharing this quote with me last year unlocked a lot for me… both in my writing and in seeing myself.
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@babe
Not that it matters.... Ricky Gervais self identifies as a comedian. AND Nigel Farage self identifies as a human.
If you identify as a woman then I can believe and validate that.
Farage on the other hand??? Seriously, is he even an organism? I can't imagine anything alive willingly associating with the warm, orange lump in the underwear of life.@ballista11 non binary, not a woman
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I don't give a shit how much it confuses people that my aesthetic is feminine, it doesn't in any way invalidate my internal sense about who and what I am.
@babe absolutely right! Louder for the people in the back!
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And if you come at me with shit like "but I see you as..." you'll very quickly not be seeing me at all.
@babe Eye sea ewe as an ambiguous amalgamation of pixels arranged into symbols.
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Non-binary people do not owe you androgyny.
@babe they owe me $20
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