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  • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

    Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

    #Boost #CallToAction

    rachel@transitory.socialR This user is from outside of this forum
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    @Willow@chaosfem.tw

    ​​ MALE
    ​​ FEMALE
    ​​ WHAT ARE YOU, AN COP?
    ​​ FUCK YOU, ESPECIALLY IF YOU'RE A COP ACTUALLY

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    • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

      Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

      #Boost #CallToAction

      taatm@mathstodon.xyzT This user is from outside of this forum
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      #49

      @Willow @HollyGoDarkly
      Consider writing in ‘woke’ or just ignore it, as apparently the system allows that and it doesn’t even have to have any basis in reality.

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      • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

        Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

        #Boost #CallToAction

        swordgeek@mstdn.caS This user is from outside of this forum
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        #50

        @Willow also, to all of my fellow cis folks, put your prefered pronouns in every work app (outlook, zoom, teams, etc.) you use. Be the person who normalizes being able to declare pronouns.

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        • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

          Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

          #Boost #CallToAction

          isotope239@mastodon.onlineI This user is from outside of this forum
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          @Willow I've been doing this for years. None of their damn bidness.

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          • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

            Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

            #Boost #CallToAction

            geos@toot.communityG This user is from outside of this forum
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            @Willow
            If it says 'Sex at birth,' I usually respond with a note," Gross, I waited until I was a teenager."

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            • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

              Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

              #Boost #CallToAction

              nilajones@zeroes.caN This user is from outside of this forum
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              #53

              @Willow

              What are people doing for online forms, where the form is incomplete until you pick a gender from the dropdown menu, and you can't get into the telemed appointment until the form is complete?

              I feel boxed in

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              • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

                Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

                #Boost #CallToAction

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                #54

                @Willow I always answer «not of your busniess» when possible but I certanly answer more anoyed and offended.

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                • jeffgrigg@mastodon.socialJ jeffgrigg@mastodon.social

                  @iju @x0 @Zumbador @Willow

                  It seems to me that product and service usage that is gender specific would be much better correlated to the gender one is presenting as than some assigned birth gender.

                  Like clothing, makeup, hair care, etc.

                  iju@mastodon.socialI This user is from outside of this forum
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                  @JeffGrigg @x0 @Zumbador @Willow

                  Some considerations:

                  - Product usage might reflect patterns unknown to the makers/users. For example: how we found out that many medicines didn't actually work on women (the testing had only used biological men, and the results were applied to women).

                  - That someone is presenting one gender doesn't mean they don't have needs of their biological one. (Medicine, but also pads, condoms, etc.)

                  - [cont]

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                  • iju@mastodon.socialI iju@mastodon.social

                    @JeffGrigg @x0 @Zumbador @Willow

                    Some considerations:

                    - Product usage might reflect patterns unknown to the makers/users. For example: how we found out that many medicines didn't actually work on women (the testing had only used biological men, and the results were applied to women).

                    - That someone is presenting one gender doesn't mean they don't have needs of their biological one. (Medicine, but also pads, condoms, etc.)

                    - [cont]

                    iju@mastodon.socialI This user is from outside of this forum
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                    @JeffGrigg @x0 @Zumbador @Willow

                    Every time data is asked, the case for which the data is to be used should explained. No "it might come handy" -questions. So if you ask for sex, you must declare why: to find out how the medicine works in a body, or what applications in addition to the obvious you have for condoms.

                    Second, and this is cultural (please don't shoot): binaric gender is a poor way in almost any situation to correlate how a person wants to be treated, and thus not worth asking.

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                    • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

                      Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

                      #Boost #CallToAction

                      lauerhahn@sfba.socialL This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #57

                      @Willow I am cis but have been increasingly losing patience for online forms that require a gendered salutation (Mr or Ms). If they don't have Mx. or 'no response ' as an option I will just say I am a Dr.

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                      • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

                        Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

                        #Boost #CallToAction

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                        #58

                        @Willow this is a GREAT IDEA! I think I will start to do with surveys I complete.
                        I have a female avatar & a male cover image. I could put in my pronouns but now that you have given me the idea I'll stay open.

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                        • processparsnip@mastodon.ieP processparsnip@mastodon.ie

                          @Voline I have some good news, there are a ton of ICE agents and people who do contract work for ICE, just waiting for you to obstruct the fuck out of them

                          DHS Contracts - Distributed Denial of Secrets

                          Details on ICE and DHS contracts with over 6,000 different entities ranging from private businesses to government agencies and even dozens of universities. Some of the notable firms include Anduril, H…

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                          (ddosecrets.org)

                          @Willow

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                          #59

                          @ProcessParsnip Just noting, this is a list of contracts with DHS. Not all of the companies listed in the leak are complicit with ICE's actions; many of these contracts are uncontroversial and relate to DHS' other functions, such as disaster response and cybersecurity.
                          For example, University of California, San Diego got two grants for threat intelligence which expired during the first Trump administration

                          Furthermore, this leak spans decades, and many of the contracts in it expired before the current administration.
                          ICE contractors might have been complicit in human rights violations then, but have nothing to do with current events, or have even broken off ties with the agency.

                          Finally, I don't know if anyone has verified the data is authentic, and hasn't been tampered with by the source.

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                          • geos@toot.communityG geos@toot.community

                            @Willow
                            If it says 'Sex at birth,' I usually respond with a note," Gross, I waited until I was a teenager."

                            secretsloth@mastodon.artS This user is from outside of this forum
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                            @geos @Willow that's a good one but I'd probably get thrown out of my doctors' if I tried it 😅

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                            • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

                              Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

                              #Boost #CallToAction

                              gerken@mastodon.socialG This user is from outside of this forum
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                              @Willow
                              With all this pent up rage at capitalism, ableism, transphobia, and corruption, lord knows I need somewhere to put it without hurting anyone. And you know damn well it's gonna be the hecking stupid gender boxes on every website and form.

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                              • willow@chaosfem.twW willow@chaosfem.tw

                                Call to action to cis people: be assholes anytime you get asked for your sex assigned at birth. Write letters, complain to staff, refuse to answer. Make it impossible to collect sex assigned at birth. Be really offended that anyone would ask you. Make enough noise that if trans people want to quietly not answer or give whatever answer feels correct to them, no one will notice.

                                #Boost #CallToAction

                                agajdosi@witter.czA This user is from outside of this forum
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                                #62

                                @Willow I am trying to do that, even though I am not sure if loudly enough. Thank you for the call, I have more motivation to continue and expand now. ✊

                                My favourite argument is that the state should have no interest in what I have in my pants. Liberal conservative brains have some trouble processing it sometimes.

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