Went to a cocktail bar last night fully intending to order a cocktail.

[cppguy@infosec.space]

@rootschange @NudelnAlDente

My phone is configured to block all Meta hosts, so Instagram is a 404 for me. If I can't buy from you or work with you without disabling Blokada, I'm walking away.

[courtcan@mastodon.social]

@NudelnAlDente That would be enough to make me turn around and walk out -- after telling them exactly why I'm doing so.

[vgoller@nrw.social]

@NudelnAlDente don’t worry. They either go bust or are a good place NOT to be, a honeypot for influencer and wannabe insta-fames. You don’t want to hang out with these anyway

[jranft@mastodon.social]

@NudelnAlDente Yes. So stupid. They should just show you a screenshot of the menu on their phone at least.

[vrtxd@piipitin.fi]

@NudelnAlDente
– Oh okay, but the account is free and very easy to create!
– Cool, in that case please create a throwaway account so I can throw money at you.

[heckinchonker@mastodon.social]

@NudelnAlDente There was an ice cream place that sold ice cream shakes near me. The menu was animated, and would only show the shake ingredients for a couple seconds before cycling. The server explained that I could just ask and she could tell me what was in each, and I really tried but my brain just could not process what the options were.

[kimlockhartga@beige.party]

@NudelnAlDente holy hell! I would have been fired for correcting a guest's pronunciation! We actually saw a guy get fired for just that. Great way to ruin your biz and your tip.

It was so ingrained in me that when someone asked for a Cabernet Sauvignon Blanc, I asked if they wanted the red or the white one, because there was no way I was correcting anyone, even if they ordered the karaoke (keoke) coffee, trout ala mode (almondine), or Ryesling (Riesling).

[galacticstone@mastodon.social]

@NudelnAlDente I lost count of the number of times I have refused to use a business because they have a Facebook, Instagram, or X/Twitter presence.

[dmtomas@mastodon.social]

@heafnerj @raganwald @NudelnAlDente I always have a thought, to replice some of them to lemonparty, goatsee or some other “internet safety basics visual learning tool” from the older ages - I never will, but I fantasise about it almost every time I’m in a place that pushes me to use qr codes….

[utf_7@mastodon.social]

@webidebi @NudelnAlDente sad thing is, too many people dont give a fuck to not use meta shit

[progo@boop.city]

@NudelnAlDente the proper response to this nonsense is a decisive and not quiet

"I cannot order from your menu that won't stay still on the TV." or
"I do not use Instagram."

and walk out without looking back.

[jschauma@mstdn.social]

@NudelnAlDente New coffee place opened up around the corner. Went in there, nobody pays me any attention, no obvious line to order, no cash register. I’m told I can scan a QR code to download an app to place an order. Walked across the street to next place instead.

[florapis@toot.wales]

@NudelnAlDente we currently want to buy several fruit trees. Our nearest supplier is only on facebook‍️

[kaito02@mastodon.social]

@kinsey @NudelnAlDente normies who don't know they could just make a website instead of relying on big social media to host for them

[doomstrike@metalhead.club]

@NudelnAlDente
Yeah those businesses can f**k right off. I don't have an insta or facebook account and have noticed recently neither will allow me view anything, which I'm happy with. I don't mind telling people I can't open their link.
I very very rarely would click on a tik tok and never anything x. I have x blocked in browser so often see news stories with loads of blocked panel. It tends to be the "news" not worth reading in that case.
Youtube I still tolerate

[artharg@mastodon.nl]

@epicdemiologist @NudelnAlDente I can understand the restaurant. There’s inconsiderate types who make advance reservations at five or six places and then see what their mood is come dinner. They don’t bother to cancel the other restaurants. Result is that those may have turned away other customers. Asking for a phone number allows them at least to call like “Hey, you’re 30 mins late, should we still hold the table?”. Also, not being anonymous is a bit of a deterrent from being a selfish prick.

[raganwald@social.bau-ha.us]

@heafnerj “I tried it and somewhere in the process a hidden app (forgot the name at the moment) was silently downloaded and installed on my iPhone without my knowledge or consent.”

That is incredibly bad.

@NudelnAlDente

[bwaz@mastodon.online]

@NudelnAlDente
Ditto.
And also, for me, if your only store is on Amazon, I'll be going to one of your competitors. Even if more expensive.

[oldclumsy_nowmad@mastodon.social]

@NudelnAlDente

Ah, the Internet. Savior of businesses. Wonderful, magical entity that communicates for us, so we don't have to get headaches from thinking too much or wasting time talking to people. Transformative shepherd, on the verge of an AI "singularity" which will mean we don't have to think at all.

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[nicolasconstant@cosocial.ca]

@NudelnAlDente I've experienced the same lately... Fancy Cocktail bar also, with some "speakeasy gamification" to enter. At some point we had to find a "hint" on their Instagram and went into the same issue than you.

The issue is... youngsters do consider not having an Instagram account as completely absurd. It's totally possible that this way of forcing you to check their IG helps the business.