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If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

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  • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

    If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

    #EvanPoll #poll

    beadsland@beige.partyB This user is from outside of this forum
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    #163

    @evan

    My vote was based on current implementation and explanation of same to users.

    However, if we ask "ought" rather than "should" (principle rather than expectation), then reply visibility would be contingent on the propinquity of followers to both Alice and Bob, which is to say, not all of either interlocutor's followers would see the post, but rather visibility would be a function of relationship weights with each follower across both participants in the exchange.

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    • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

      If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

      #EvanPoll #poll

      miodvallat@hostux.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
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      #164

      @evan It should obviously be visible to Eve.

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      • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

        If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

        #EvanPoll #poll

        jestbill@mastodon.worldJ This user is from outside of this forum
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        #165

        @evan It is Alice's post and conversation. If Bob wants other people to know what was said, he's able to do his own post to his followers.
        I don't even like the idea of 'followers only' posts. Use email or direct messages if it's that 'special'.

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        • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

          @mhoye so, as the conversation goes on, the audience gets smaller and smaller?

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          @evan @mhoye that branch of it, yes.

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          • zenheathen@beige.partyZ zenheathen@beige.party

            @raymaccarthy Alice shouldn't get to choose the privacy of Bob's words. As I said, Bob's followers shouldn't be able to scroll up to see Alice's words, but there's no reason that Alice should be able to ensure that Bob's followers can't see Bob's words. They're not her words, it's not her choice, just as Bob shouldn't get to choose who gets to see Alice's words. @evan

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            #167

            @ZenHeathen @evan
            She should if she started a non-universal conversation.

            Bob can post his replay also to his followers, but that is certainly not cricket.

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            • evan@cosocial.caE This user is from outside of this forum
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              #168

              @jmcclure yes, of course it should be defined by Bob's settings.

              But what settings should be available to him? And what should be the default? Most of all, what should he choose?

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              • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                @maj Dawn's and my answer would be all of Alice's followers. I don't like the intersection answer, because it gets smaller and smaller over time. I think Alice's intent is to have her friends and family have a conversation, like it works on Instagram and Facebook.

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                #169

                @maj @evan yep, my explanation is that Alice started a followers-only conversation. From that perspective the behaviour is natural.

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                • raymaccarthy@mastodon.ieR raymaccarthy@mastodon.ie

                  @ZenHeathen @evan
                  She should if she started a non-universal conversation.

                  Bob can post his replay also to his followers, but that is certainly not cricket.

                  zenheathen@beige.partyZ This user is from outside of this forum
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                  #170

                  @raymaccarthy It's a microblogging platform, not a blog, and not a forum where one can make a post and control who can post under it. Alice can control her post and who sees it, and can control for herself who's posts she sees, but she should not have any control over what anyone else's posts. You cannot convince me on this point. Alice controls Alice's posts, Bob controls Bob's posts, Alice must not be allowed to control Bob's posts and Bob must not be allowed to control Alice's posts. Period. @evan

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                  • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                    @danso @evan

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                    #171

                    @benroyce@mastodon.social @evan@cosocial.ca this idea occurred to me, but in general I think this hardly ever actually matters in practice.

                    If Bob is the kind of person to fake screenshots, then everyone, especially Alice, will presumably block him.

                    I could be wrong on this, but it seems to me like a trick you can only pull once, and not that impressive of one.

                    And if I'm right that fake screenshots isn't an important attack vector, then there isn't much difference between sharing the post and sharing the screenshot of it.

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                    • zenheathen@beige.partyZ zenheathen@beige.party

                      @raymaccarthy It's a microblogging platform, not a blog, and not a forum where one can make a post and control who can post under it. Alice can control her post and who sees it, and can control for herself who's posts she sees, but she should not have any control over what anyone else's posts. You cannot convince me on this point. Alice controls Alice's posts, Bob controls Bob's posts, Alice must not be allowed to control Bob's posts and Bob must not be allowed to control Alice's posts. Period. @evan

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                      #172

                      @ZenHeathen @evan
                      In your opinion.

                      What's the point of starting a Followers only thread if anyone can trivially make it all public. That's not how chat groups or a conversation in the office works.

                      "Followers only" a is pointless feature if all followers of each person replying see it.

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                      • raymaccarthy@mastodon.ieR raymaccarthy@mastodon.ie

                        @ZenHeathen @evan
                        In your opinion.

                        What's the point of starting a Followers only thread if anyone can trivially make it all public. That's not how chat groups or a conversation in the office works.

                        "Followers only" a is pointless feature if all followers of each person replying see it.

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                        #173

                        @raymaccarthy I think we're talking about different things. I'm saying Bob should be able to show Bob's own post to whomever he wishes (short, of course, from anyone who has blocked or muted Bob, or filtered out a word in Bob's post, etc. etc.). Are you saying that, once Bob posts on Alice's thread, that action makes Alice's thread visible to others? That's not my understanding, and it shouldn't be that way. @evan

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                        • danso@mtl.rocksD danso@mtl.rocks

                          @benroyce@mastodon.social @evan@cosocial.ca this idea occurred to me, but in general I think this hardly ever actually matters in practice.

                          If Bob is the kind of person to fake screenshots, then everyone, especially Alice, will presumably block him.

                          I could be wrong on this, but it seems to me like a trick you can only pull once, and not that impressive of one.

                          And if I'm right that fake screenshots isn't an important attack vector, then there isn't much difference between sharing the post and sharing the screenshot of it.

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                          @danso @evan

                          sure but caveat emptor

                          since we're already assuming malicious actors, we shouldn't assume a floor on their behavior. and since malicious actors implies people blocking them, anyone who might come around to correct the lie might never see the lie. thus the liar can effectively seed and propagate lies about people in a silo, and manufacture enough false impressions to create anger and distrust of the liar's target

                          thus, i never trust screenshots

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                          • benroyce@mastodon.socialB benroyce@mastodon.social

                            @danso @evan

                            sure but caveat emptor

                            since we're already assuming malicious actors, we shouldn't assume a floor on their behavior. and since malicious actors implies people blocking them, anyone who might come around to correct the lie might never see the lie. thus the liar can effectively seed and propagate lies about people in a silo, and manufacture enough false impressions to create anger and distrust of the liar's target

                            thus, i never trust screenshots

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                            #175

                            @benroyce@mastodon.social @evan@cosocial.ca that sounds reasonable to me. We all have some level of duty to be skeptical, especially of claims about people

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                            • zenheathen@beige.partyZ zenheathen@beige.party

                              @raymaccarthy I think we're talking about different things. I'm saying Bob should be able to show Bob's own post to whomever he wishes (short, of course, from anyone who has blocked or muted Bob, or filtered out a word in Bob's post, etc. etc.). Are you saying that, once Bob posts on Alice's thread, that action makes Alice's thread visible to others? That's not my understanding, and it shouldn't be that way. @evan

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                              @ZenHeathen @evan
                              Bob ethically shouldn't be showing his reply to a limited audience thread to all his followers. He can trivially do it by simply a copy / paste anyway.

                              In the real world in Mastodon all privacy features are flawed. Assume everyone sees everything.

                              "Private" is misnamed on Mastodon. There are no private or limited messages.

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                              • raymaccarthy@mastodon.ieR raymaccarthy@mastodon.ie

                                @ZenHeathen @evan
                                Bob ethically shouldn't be showing his reply to a limited audience thread to all his followers. He can trivially do it by simply a copy / paste anyway.

                                In the real world in Mastodon all privacy features are flawed. Assume everyone sees everything.

                                "Private" is misnamed on Mastodon. There are no private or limited messages.

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                                @raymaccarthy I'm sure I've replied to "followers only" things from time to time, *guaranteed* without knowing that they were, because unless I'm digging, and reminded for some reason to do so, I don't even remember where in the interface that I would find that. And I've never posted anything to my followers only.

                                But if what you describe is how it works, then... No one should ever reply to anything posts "followers only", ever. Because as soon as they do, it moves beyond what the original posted intended. Like, there's no way to even participate in good faith in that conversation, you can't possibly say anything at all. If anything, the setting should be between Normal and Read-Only. @evan

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                                • zenheathen@beige.partyZ zenheathen@beige.party

                                  @raymaccarthy I'm sure I've replied to "followers only" things from time to time, *guaranteed* without knowing that they were, because unless I'm digging, and reminded for some reason to do so, I don't even remember where in the interface that I would find that. And I've never posted anything to my followers only.

                                  But if what you describe is how it works, then... No one should ever reply to anything posts "followers only", ever. Because as soon as they do, it moves beyond what the original posted intended. Like, there's no way to even participate in good faith in that conversation, you can't possibly say anything at all. If anything, the setting should be between Normal and Read-Only. @evan

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                                  @ZenHeathen @evan
                                  I don't know what the "correct" answer should be for here, nor do I quite understand it.
                                  I do know that if either party puts the actual mastodon ID of someone anywhere in the supposed private 1:1 message, that person gets it too. Is that by design or a mistake?
                                  Certainly the actual real Mastodon isn't remotely like using groups on Viber (A Japanese owned app like Skype used to be before MS broke it, except better). Viber is on all platforms as a program or app & is encrypted.

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                                  • raymaccarthy@mastodon.ieR raymaccarthy@mastodon.ie

                                    @ZenHeathen @evan
                                    I don't know what the "correct" answer should be for here, nor do I quite understand it.
                                    I do know that if either party puts the actual mastodon ID of someone anywhere in the supposed private 1:1 message, that person gets it too. Is that by design or a mistake?
                                    Certainly the actual real Mastodon isn't remotely like using groups on Viber (A Japanese owned app like Skype used to be before MS broke it, except better). Viber is on all platforms as a program or app & is encrypted.

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                                    @raymaccarthy Whoa, "private messages" is a completely different animal, though I agree, they're crap here, and misleadingly named. But I thought we were talking about a regular post, but with the selector moved to "followers only" instead of "public". That's not the same thing. Maybe we should let it lie, before further misunderstandings. @evan

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                                    • zenheathen@beige.partyZ zenheathen@beige.party

                                      @raymaccarthy Whoa, "private messages" is a completely different animal, though I agree, they're crap here, and misleadingly named. But I thought we were talking about a regular post, but with the selector moved to "followers only" instead of "public". That's not the same thing. Maybe we should let it lie, before further misunderstandings. @evan

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                                      @ZenHeathen @evan
                                      Yes.
                                      I think what is illustrated is that people might misunderstand what any of the filters do and have different opinions on what they think ought to happen.

                                      Still, it's far better than Facebook, X-Twitter, LinkedIn, TikTok or even Bluesky.

                                      If someone wants a private group they should set it up on Viber. "Followers only" here is almost pointless.

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                                      • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                                        If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                        #EvanPoll #poll

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                                        #181

                                        @evan
                                        Either Alice's only or intersection of Bob and Alice. There's a reason it wasn't visible to all of Bob's at the start so audience shouldn't be enlarged without Alice giving permission.

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                                        • evan@cosocial.caE evan@cosocial.ca

                                          If Alice makes a followers-only post, and Bob replies to it, to whom should Bob's reply be visible?

                                          #EvanPoll #poll

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                                          #182
                                          The intersection of Alice and Bob's followers.
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