hey nonbinary and trans friends!

[hex@dads.cool]

hey nonbinary and trans friends!

one of my kids is looking for a binder as they try to find a more gender neutral appearance. any suggestions of reputable places to look for appropriate stuff?

and apologies in advance for clumsiness in asking. just a cis dad trying to not fail his kid

boosts are welcome and encouraged

[courtney@dads.cool]

@hex these are the GOAT, and I have to search for them every time because the company name is terribly difficult to remember: https://gc2b.co/

[hex@dads.cool]

@lapis lmao @ both the mothman binder and having it called your naruto binder

the kid is definitely on the thinner side but this is a great resource. thanks!!

[hex@dads.cool]

@courtney dang this is great! and yeah, there's no way i would have found this by randomly internet searching. thank you!!

[hex@dads.cool]

@ruemaleficent thanks! i will keep that in mind and suggest to the kiddo if they don't end up liking the binder approach

[hex@dads.cool]

@ruemaleficent noted! i've passed the info on to my spouse, since the kiddo seems to open up more to her about this than the clumsy dad lol

[hex@dads.cool]

@lapis ooh noted. currently kiddo's wardrobe is basically "wear this ONE hoodie constantly" so that might not be an issue, but i'll relay the advice along nonetheless! thank you

[coral@kind.social]

@hex your kid is so relatable I'm 45 and also wear the same hoodie every day I can.

TomboyX has binders and gender-neutral-ish swimwear. https://tomboyx.com/collections/gender-affirming

[geniodiabolico@mastodon.geniodiabolico.synology.me]

@hex https://transtape.life/
Trans people I know have found this satisfactory

[hex@dads.cool]

@coral oh wonderful!! i was actually worried about swimwear for them. we have a pool we're currently opening up and they love swimming. i def want that to not be an issue for them. thank you!!

[hex@dads.cool]

@geniodiabolico nice! thanks! yeah someone else mentioned trans tape and i found this. glad to see it organically get suggested too

[quyetpawz@tech.lgbt]

@hex hi there's a non binary person on IG that does reviews of binders and stuff.

Here's the profile: https://www.instagram.com/robynholdaway?igsh=MXd2OTl1dGR5d2MxYg==

Hope it helps.

[hex@dads.cool]

@QuyetPawz hi! thanks that should be some help!! thanks!

[t54r4n1@mspsocial.net]

@hex binders only work for a couple hours at a time and come with significant tradeoffs for breathing. well-fitting sports bras are ok for all-day wear.
based on the only-hoodie outfit maybe consider talking to your kid about pausing puberty a little while after you get them. that sounds like what we call a dysphoria hoodie

[quyetpawz@tech.lgbt]

@hex no problem!

[hex@dads.cool]

@t54r4n1 that actually is a good idea. hadn't considered puberty blockers. will discuss

also they loves this hoodie lol. its an old Girr from Invader Zimm throwback with a massive zipper. hoping they don't consider it dysphoric

[t54r4n1@mspsocial.net]

@hex it can be two things, honestly. but good luck and thanks for asking for advice!!

[caetfood@plush.city]

@hex theFluxion makes very comfy binders made by and for people with sensory issues, especially autism. They're stretchy, comfy, dry fast and are also suitable for swimming, they don't restrict as much as the binders I tried before.

[hex@dads.cool]

@CAETFOOD oooh! yeah the kiddo was recently diagnosed with autism so this might be greatly appreciated. thank you very much!

[irina@wandering.shop]

@hex boosted! I don't have any answers, being cis myself, but you're a splendid dad!