Patriarchy hurts everyone.

[flesh@transfem.social]

@alice@lgbtqia.space I hear you, but consider: ska

[angelicaura@transfem.social]

@alice@lgbtqia.space Are you sure?
Because if there are feminizing/transing colors or clothes I would like to know so I can equip myself properly

[mathieup@mastodon.gougere.fr]

@alice You mean this guy wasn't turned gay by wearing a pink armor?

[mpc3032at@mastodon.social]

@alice was thinking about the very loud shirts and socks and dresses i often see bro-types wearing, that look playful and fun, but when you talk to them, super unpleasant vibes

to me the darkfunny/tragedy is the overall cultural situation that doesn't give consistent validation / attention and space for peeps to be themselves... instead e.g. locked-down business drone some of the time, and then wiiiild and waaacky golf shirt Fun Guy gets smushed out

but without that framing, tho, nothing wrong

[alice@lgbtqia.space]

@pecet if you like black, it's okay to wear black too; my girlfriend wears a lot of black (but also a lot of purple ).

[alice@lgbtqia.space]

@Sobex only if it's bright blue. Navy blue is tactical grey for seamen ‍️

[alice@lgbtqia.space]

@flesh I don't get that reference

[flesh@transfem.social]

@alice@lgbtqia.space Checkerboards!

[alice@lgbtqia.space]

@AngelicAura I've discovered that pink or black lingerie under an oversized black bear onesie feels pretty femme ‍️

[alice@lgbtqia.space]

@MathieuP nah. Pretty sure it was the beard.

[alice@lgbtqia.space]

@flesh ah.

[davey_cakes@mastodon.ie]

@jrbe @alice I get so interested in cool prints on dresses and stuff that I start worrying I might look like I'm just staring at the owners body.

Must have a good look for shirts