@bengesko I got gender affirmation surgery and my easily-visible tattoos after turning 50, and I still write kinky dragon smut fanfic. my hair is finally going grey and I'm not going to shave it this summer in hopes that it'll take green dye to give me green highlights. when I move down to Humboldt, I fully intend to join the local Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence chapter in whatever role they'll take me and paint a huge, wildly colored mural on the wall of whichever room becomes mine.
fuck normal. it's never too late.