@FinalGirl this reminds me of how @eri likes to wear a little collar with a tag on it
and on one of her trips out to me, we were sitting in the bus when a guy started a conversation with her right off the bat with "so how's the kink community here in Seattle?"
wearing the collar is so natural to her that she didn't even think that it had to do with that so she just froze for a bit while the guy's girlfriend facepalmed at her man 