"Late‑diagnosed adults describe finally learning they are autistic as both relief and grief: relief at having a name and community that fit, and grief for all the years spent fighting the unnecessary battles."
Yes!!! But not so much "grief" as RESENTMENT, for how unnecessary it all was and is.
Epistemic Injustice: The Great Gaslighting of Autistic Lives
Epistemic injustice is the assumption that people, usually those with less power, are unable to correctly understand their own lives. It takes a tragic toll on autistic lives.
Psychology Today (www.psychologytoday.com)
) Instead of being given the care and treatment he needs/needed, 100,000,000s of Americans voted to place him in a position of great power, where he could do great harm.