(Posting this to pin to my new profile)When challenging someone's perspective stop and ask yourself these questions...1) What do I understand about the others perspective? 2) What do I understand about my own perspective?3) Could I be wrong?4) What do I want the other to understand about my perspective?5) What do I want the other to understand about their own perspective?If you find yourself skipping the first three, you're not really trying to have a discussion and may want to check your ego.