@lhgmk2 and there we have the flipside of the horror coin. We don't have the ability to leave these questions to out doctors because *they don't know,* even if they do listen. We have to figure this out ourselves, like, in our own bodies and also as a community, because doctors just seem to have thrown up their hands about it. And that. Just. Sucks. Even doctors aren't their own doctors. Nobody would want to be. But here we are. Horror upon horror upon horror.