@LeslieBurns This is an amazing and heartwarming story that shows the value of you remaining you. I remember your breakup, and if I didn't say something kind, I hope I at least sent an internet hug. I had a terrible breakup of a poison relationship where he actually succeeded in breaking me down into a cowering mouse; I am delighted that you were able to remain yourself despite everything. You are an inspiration, and not just because of your fabulous hair.