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@lorepozo As a parent of 2 I have learned: Whatever you want your children to call you - they will use whatever they feel fit in different ages and situations.
So maybe the more interesting question might be: What term I don't want my child to refer to me (and why)?
As soon as your child gets old enough to understand your concerns it will most likely respect your feelings.
Until then it might be easier to use the existing terms according to their context e.g.:
the person = your name or nickname
gender = nonbinary
legally = parent
biologically = mother (if this sounds reasonable for you)
...
In the end I think it's hard to have expectations to a child as long as society is still struggling with diversity.