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@mekkaokereke I work in tech with a lot of Indian folk.
The women that talk (and talk over) people the way the men do get a lot of crap. And, sadly, that's what it's taken many of them to get ahead in their careers.
People on TRT often are no more "aggressive" than other men, but sometimes it's not as "regulated". It seems to come out more unexpectedly.
But, as women regularly experience, it's always there and often too much.
@wesgeorge I'm deeply sympathetic with this viewpoint. I'm running on antique mail server builds with a new one 95% ready to deploy that's been waiting on the 5% and cutover for months due to lack of "copious free time".
Annoyingly the last prior hiccup was because my chosen provider had put me on a subnet that the secret mail police had decided was "bad".
I'd happily buy service these days. However, no one would sanely sell me the filtering I do.
@evacide I've been running my own server for years. (I used to operate the mail for a tier-3 ISP.)
I can't recommend the practice lightly.
The main reason I can't recommend it has nothing to do with security - that's much easier to do these days than it's ever been.
It's exactly as you say: Gmail and the other secret email police don't want you to run your own stuff. Nevermind that the majority of my spam is coming in from G and O365 validated domains these days.
