@artemis I was bullied as a kid, and the way I fought back was crushing it academically and rubbing my peers’ faces in it. This probably led to a vicious cycle of bullying, but they were going to do it anyway.
I was so insufferable that the school admin/teachers promoted me into middle school a year early, hoping to humble me somewhat. It didn’t work.
I got tall in high school and found a friend group. The bullying tapered off, but not my attitude. I was an angry kid.
Spent the summer after my junior year in and out of the hospital with cancer. The experience changed my life direction for the better and put me on the track I am now. Certainly I needed something radical, but I would not recommend it to others.