@paninid We have three kids. One is truly not great at math. But she works her ass off and crushed her math SAT and AP Calc exam. Middle kid is good at math but doesn’t love it and doesn’t try too hard at it. Our youngest is a no doubt math genius who can’t do basic arithmetic unless he’s focused on a different, more difficult problem. All I’m saying is that it’s a spectrum and you have to meet people where they are.
One thing I also know to be true is that too many math teachers in K-12 hate math and are bad at teaching it. I tutored my kids in math from algebra through calculus and maybe one teacher in each of their five years did a decent job or even seemed to care. She quit mid-way through middle kid’s final year calculus class. The replacement was awful. We’re home-schooling our youngest for his last two years of high school.