@thatfrisiangirlish @faithisleaping yeah, for me, it was actually learning what estrogen could do to change my body and my mind and realizing that had been the thing I was longing for my whole life that gave me the confidence to say "I am a woman" even if it wasn't exactly right because that was what I had to say to get what I needed. Nowadays, I don't even worry much about what exactly my gender is. "Woman" is close enough for the world at large, especially since I know most people aren't going to bother about subtle distinctions. In trans spaces and with people I'm close to, I'll get into more details because they don't necessarily need a simple singular answer.
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