@frank I think it may be due to security and productivity.
Switched to Bluesky to communicate with my hubby, but otherwise, like Discord, Messenger will now be relegated to my phone. So I might miss important messages.
When my brother passed, I had not turned on wifi or data that morning when I walked to the doctor appointment I had (a block over). He lived across the province. When I finally turned on data while waiting to see the doctor, that's when I got the messages and called one of the higher ups who told me their number.
So I try to keep it on where I can see a name flash.