This is a poll for people over 40.
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OK last one. I realized that "nostalgia" might not be a pleasant thing for everyone. How have you experienced it?
It's complex — the very definition of bittersweet.
Right now, my youngest kid is finishing her first year of college and will be back here soon for what's probably her last few months as, really, part of our household. So, I'm full of these feelings.
What's more, I can see them in her, and that's its own complexity. When's she's come home for breaks and long weekends, I can see she feels a little of the sadness of it. That cliché — _you can't go home again_ — has a lot of truth.
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OK last one. I realized that "nostalgia" might not be a pleasant thing for everyone. How have you experienced it?
@futurebird I wish there was “all of the above.” I’ve found bostalgia both compelling and repellent at all ages.
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OK last one. I realized that "nostalgia" might not be a pleasant thing for everyone. How have you experienced it?
@futurebird I experience nostalgia primarily as a marketing technique: you remember this thing, we're doing a thing that's a bit like it only much worse, give us money.
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OK last one. I realized that "nostalgia" might not be a pleasant thing for everyone. How have you experienced it?
@futurebird All three. I get nostalgic, but I nudge my feelings back to "here and now". Sometimes it's good, sometimes it's bad, and people work/cope very differently?
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@futurebird I feel like boomers cornered the market on nostalgia, everything in media was already saturated in nostalgia when I was young. Happy Days.
That was so exhausting. And my memories of boomers getting all sappy and obsessed with 50s crap really put me off ever doing anything similar since it always seemed so sad to me.
But IDK if you show me an MTV bumper animation I still might like it.
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This is a poll for people over 40. At what age did you find nostalgic content most compelling and appealing?
@futurebird FWIW there is a different kind of nostalgia, not related to age, when you migrate out of your country and culture.
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OK now a question for everyone.
As you have gotten older have you found that nostalgic content has gotten more appealing? Less appealing?
@futurebird When I was younger, nostalgia occurred "organically". As I've gotten older, it's more and more often obvious manipulation.
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This is a poll for people over 40. At what age did you find nostalgic content most compelling and appealing?
@futurebird I had that at 40. 72 now.
In my ´20 's ( 1970' s) , being away from Holland living in the UK, I found out those ¨Roaring 60' s & 70's " had a dark side too. Holland/ Amsterdam was on the same Pop-page with US/Canada at hat time: Hippy. Coming back several I knew from highschool had taken overdose and died. I drew a line with The Band's ¨Last Waltz¨.
Many Pop-Idols on that farewell concert. Started to go back much further after that: Classic West & East. Still there, no nostalgia. -
I'm just talking about the feeling where a smell or seeing something kind of warps you back in time. That realization that the past is gone. The sadness and sense of relief that comes with knowing that time is gone forever.
It will never be just like that ever again.
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OK last one. I realized that "nostalgia" might not be a pleasant thing for everyone. How have you experienced it?
@futurebird It can be all of those things.
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OK last one. I realized that "nostalgia" might not be a pleasant thing for everyone. How have you experienced it?
@futurebird I'm interpreting 'nostalgia' as personal memories of one's past (as opposed to watching something like the 90's Gargoyles television series again in my forties)
That can be very bittersweet for me. Remembering old friends I'll never see again (because they are different people now) or places I'll never go back to (because they don't exist anymore) I cherish the memories and even the pain of missing them because that makes the experience even more meaningful.
Ay me. Parting is such sweet sorrow.
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@futurebird It can be all of those things.
That's why I made it a multi poll.
But I'm still grouchy about having so few poll options by default on here. It's horrible.
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@futurebird FWIW there is a different kind of nostalgia, not related to age, when you migrate out of your country and culture.
@blogdiva @futurebird saudade, or in my case, nostalgia for what my country could have been, when seen from very far.
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This is a poll for people over 40. At what age did you find nostalgic content most compelling and appealing?
@futurebird
I have never found nostalgia appealing. Of course, I often wish people whom I have lost were back in my life, but material objects or pining for the way we used to do things isn't part of the way I'm built.
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@futurebird less. The whole catering to my generation (people born in the eighties or around) got old faster than I did.
@adriano @futurebird didn't it just?
We were reaching that age where we wanted to start sharing things from our childhood with our kids and there were so many reboots of 80s and 90s TV shows and it was awesome until actually they were all just... bad.* I went from excited to avoidant in a very short time.
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This is a poll for people over 40. At what age did you find nostalgic content most compelling and appealing?
@futurebird i answered "see results" because there was no "never" option.
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This is a poll for people over 40. At what age did you find nostalgic content most compelling and appealing?
@futurebird
I have never found nostalgia appealing. Of course, I often wish people whom I have lost were back in my life, but material objects or pining for the way we used to do things isn't part of the way I'm built.
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This is a poll for people over 40. At what age did you find nostalgic content most compelling and appealing?
@futurebird i’m not super nostalgic. More i want to run away from here
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OK last one. I realized that "nostalgia" might not be a pleasant thing for everyone. How have you experienced it?
nothing quite like driving my teenaged daughter somewhere and listening to the radio, a song comes on, and she flawlessly belts out all the lyrics to Tears for Fears "Everybody Wants To The Rule The World"
that happened last week
that's a fucking trip man
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That was so exhausting. And my memories of boomers getting all sappy and obsessed with 50s crap really put me off ever doing anything similar since it always seemed so sad to me.
But IDK if you show me an MTV bumper animation I still might like it.
@futurebird sure looking back there were neat bits to appreciate as charming. But like I have nostalgic feelings about the original Battlestar Galactica, and then I remember the Christmas special where the Cylons came to earth and fought 1950s nostalgia DJ Wolfman Jack and *lost*, and we just can’t have nice things.
