They spend your whole life mocking you for being effeminate, then you tell them you think you might be a girl and suddenly it's all "you can just be an effeminate man"
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They spend your whole life mocking you for being effeminate, then you tell them you think you might be a girl and suddenly it's all "you can just be an effeminate man"
NO ONE tells you you're trans. They tell you the opposite, in fact. Even now, people tell me I should quit HRT and just crossdress if it makes me happy
No, effeminate boys aren’t being ‘transed’ | Xtra Magazine
Hiding my transness nearly killed me. Let’s work to build a world where trans people’s lives aren’t quite so hard
Xtra Magazine (xtramagazine.com)
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They spend your whole life mocking you for being effeminate, then you tell them you think you might be a girl and suddenly it's all "you can just be an effeminate man"
NO ONE tells you you're trans. They tell you the opposite, in fact. Even now, people tell me I should quit HRT and just crossdress if it makes me happy
No, effeminate boys aren’t being ‘transed’ | Xtra Magazine
Hiding my transness nearly killed me. Let’s work to build a world where trans people’s lives aren’t quite so hard
Xtra Magazine (xtramagazine.com)
@truthaddictvt "it's okay to be an effeminate boy" has major "it's okay to be white" energy
nobody needs to be assured that it's okay to be the privileged default
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@truthaddictvt "it's okay to be an effeminate boy" has major "it's okay to be white" energy
nobody needs to be assured that it's okay to be the privileged default
@YKantRachelRead @truthaddictvt but the point here is it's not even okay to be "an effeminate boy". being effeminate as a boy usually gets shit thrown ya. but once ya turn out to be trans, suddenly that "goalpost" shifts.
of course the right course of action is to make the others shift their goalposts further in your direction until they break their necks
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@YKantRachelRead @truthaddictvt but the point here is it's not even okay to be "an effeminate boy". being effeminate as a boy usually gets shit thrown ya. but once ya turn out to be trans, suddenly that "goalpost" shifts.
of course the right course of action is to make the others shift their goalposts further in your direction until they break their necks
@navi @truthaddictvt oh totally, none of the people involved actually support feminine boys either. they'll just end up bullying the feminine boy into performing masculinity.
