I may have posted on this before.
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I may have posted on this before. Over the course of my marriage, my finger size grew quite a bit, and my wedding ring was extremely tight most of the time. When I got separated and then divorced, taking the ring off showed skin indentation and a compressed finger along the top of where the ring was. This continues well over a year later.
Any suggestions on reducing its visibility? I haven't had luck with lotions. I thought of maybe getting a tattoo there of a barbed wire fence, but it'd be on the ring finger and might give the impression I'm still married.
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I may have posted on this before. Over the course of my marriage, my finger size grew quite a bit, and my wedding ring was extremely tight most of the time. When I got separated and then divorced, taking the ring off showed skin indentation and a compressed finger along the top of where the ring was. This continues well over a year later.
Any suggestions on reducing its visibility? I haven't had luck with lotions. I thought of maybe getting a tattoo there of a barbed wire fence, but it'd be on the ring finger and might give the impression I'm still married.
Phantom Ring (5 of Hearts), by Hallelujah The Hills
Phantom Ring (5 of Hearts) by Hallelujah The Hills, released 13 June 2025
Hallelujah The Hills (hallelujahthehills.bandcamp.com)
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I may have posted on this before. Over the course of my marriage, my finger size grew quite a bit, and my wedding ring was extremely tight most of the time. When I got separated and then divorced, taking the ring off showed skin indentation and a compressed finger along the top of where the ring was. This continues well over a year later.
Any suggestions on reducing its visibility? I haven't had luck with lotions. I thought of maybe getting a tattoo there of a barbed wire fence, but it'd be on the ring finger and might give the impression I'm still married.
@AncTreat5358 Mine did the same thing and eventually my finger returned to normal. I don’t remember how long it took.
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I may have posted on this before. Over the course of my marriage, my finger size grew quite a bit, and my wedding ring was extremely tight most of the time. When I got separated and then divorced, taking the ring off showed skin indentation and a compressed finger along the top of where the ring was. This continues well over a year later.
Any suggestions on reducing its visibility? I haven't had luck with lotions. I thought of maybe getting a tattoo there of a barbed wire fence, but it'd be on the ring finger and might give the impression I'm still married.
@AncTreat5358 It took mine a while, but now you have to look hard to see the scar. And as I've gotten older, the wrinkles on my hands act as camoflague.

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@AncTreat5358 It took mine a while, but now you have to look hard to see the scar. And as I've gotten older, the wrinkles on my hands act as camoflague.

@HumToTable This is encouraging! Guess i just need to keep waiting...for reduction and more wrinkles.

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