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My father died of cancer October 7, 2025, five months ago tomorrow.

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    My father died of cancer October 7, 2025, five months ago tomorrow. I've been living in his home since, clearing decades of accumulated shi...stuff. I'm the 'responsible one' of my siblings, if you can believe it.

    For reasons yet to be explained, this is the longest I've been alone on a daily basis in my life. It's led to deep introspection and much needed healing. I feel better than I have in a long time, I'm seeing a therapist, and I have a plan.

    I've received a lot of help from friends during a difficult time. Those here know who they are, and most of my local friends would never be on social media other than FB.

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    • mckeay@infosec.exchangeM mckeay@infosec.exchange

      My father died of cancer October 7, 2025, five months ago tomorrow. I've been living in his home since, clearing decades of accumulated shi...stuff. I'm the 'responsible one' of my siblings, if you can believe it.

      For reasons yet to be explained, this is the longest I've been alone on a daily basis in my life. It's led to deep introspection and much needed healing. I feel better than I have in a long time, I'm seeing a therapist, and I have a plan.

      I've received a lot of help from friends during a difficult time. Those here know who they are, and most of my local friends would never be on social media other than FB.

      brianhonan@mastodon.socialB This user is from outside of this forum
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      @mckeay big hugs to you Martin

      Always happy to get on a call to chat or help in whatever way I can

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      • mckeay@infosec.exchangeM mckeay@infosec.exchange

        My father died of cancer October 7, 2025, five months ago tomorrow. I've been living in his home since, clearing decades of accumulated shi...stuff. I'm the 'responsible one' of my siblings, if you can believe it.

        For reasons yet to be explained, this is the longest I've been alone on a daily basis in my life. It's led to deep introspection and much needed healing. I feel better than I have in a long time, I'm seeing a therapist, and I have a plan.

        I've received a lot of help from friends during a difficult time. Those here know who they are, and most of my local friends would never be on social media other than FB.

        darwinwoodka@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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        @mckeay

        I'm so sorry. I know how hard that is, cleaned out my mom's house when she passed away. I've vowed to sell all my stuff and move into a furnished rental before I go!

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        • mckeay@infosec.exchangeM mckeay@infosec.exchange

          My father died of cancer October 7, 2025, five months ago tomorrow. I've been living in his home since, clearing decades of accumulated shi...stuff. I'm the 'responsible one' of my siblings, if you can believe it.

          For reasons yet to be explained, this is the longest I've been alone on a daily basis in my life. It's led to deep introspection and much needed healing. I feel better than I have in a long time, I'm seeing a therapist, and I have a plan.

          I've received a lot of help from friends during a difficult time. Those here know who they are, and most of my local friends would never be on social media other than FB.

          darwinwoodka@mastodon.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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          @mckeay

          Once you get through what you care about it may be worth having an estate sale specialist do the rest. Take off some of the load.

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          • darwinwoodka@mastodon.socialD darwinwoodka@mastodon.social

            @mckeay

            Once you get through what you care about it may be worth having an estate sale specialist do the rest. Take off some of the load.

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            mckeay@infosec.exchangeM This user is from outside of this forum
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            @darwinwoodka There is nothing worth having an estate sale for. I will be having a conversation with the local Mason's lodge about the dress sabers my father had collected.

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