Reminder for everyone:
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Reminder for everyone:
If a woman tells you to not DM because you are a total stranger man, the right thing to do is to respect that personal boundary. The wrong thing to do is to keep sending DMs, trying to convince any woman to drop her online safety boundaries.
This disrespectful crap happens to me & many other women I know here, at least once/month. It's not cool. It will get you blocked by many women(plus blocked by folks who do respect women).
Respect safety boundaries. It is not that difficult.
#OnlineSafety #WomensSafety #NoStrangerMenDMs #RespectPersonalBoundaries
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Reminder for everyone:
If a woman tells you to not DM because you are a total stranger man, the right thing to do is to respect that personal boundary. The wrong thing to do is to keep sending DMs, trying to convince any woman to drop her online safety boundaries.
This disrespectful crap happens to me & many other women I know here, at least once/month. It's not cool. It will get you blocked by many women(plus blocked by folks who do respect women).
Respect safety boundaries. It is not that difficult.
#OnlineSafety #WomensSafety #NoStrangerMenDMs #RespectPersonalBoundaries
Complete strangers who try to tone police my personal experience post will also be blocked.
Strangers do not get to dictate how I handle my personal safety concerns/boundaries. That's fucked up behaviour. -
Reminder for everyone:
If a woman tells you to not DM because you are a total stranger man, the right thing to do is to respect that personal boundary. The wrong thing to do is to keep sending DMs, trying to convince any woman to drop her online safety boundaries.
This disrespectful crap happens to me & many other women I know here, at least once/month. It's not cool. It will get you blocked by many women(plus blocked by folks who do respect women).
Respect safety boundaries. It is not that difficult.
#OnlineSafety #WomensSafety #NoStrangerMenDMs #RespectPersonalBoundaries
@PhoenixSerenity I'm open to DMs from strangers under a few circumstances—randomly chatting me up isn't one of them.
Folx in need of emotional support? Always welcome (but please use Signal for anything private).
Folx informing me about potential admin-related stuff (i.e. someone sending you unsolicited DMs)? Always welcome.
Other personal or private matters that need my attention? Go for it, just remember that Fedi isn't encrypted.
Things that could've been said publicly? Please just say them publicly. If it feels too creepy to say on main, it's probably too creepy to say in an unsolicited DM too.
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Reminder for everyone:
If a woman tells you to not DM because you are a total stranger man, the right thing to do is to respect that personal boundary. The wrong thing to do is to keep sending DMs, trying to convince any woman to drop her online safety boundaries.
This disrespectful crap happens to me & many other women I know here, at least once/month. It's not cool. It will get you blocked by many women(plus blocked by folks who do respect women).
Respect safety boundaries. It is not that difficult.
#OnlineSafety #WomensSafety #NoStrangerMenDMs #RespectPersonalBoundaries
@PhoenixSerenity This reminds me of the time someone on Masto decided to go stalk me to find my personal email address (which is not public!!) and message me directly via email about something they wanted.
Yeah no.
Fastest way to get personally blocked and banned from my entire instance.
Absolutely not.
