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Lots to think about and some grieving to do.

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  • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

    Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
    Last night I lost my nephew.
    My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
    My heart is broken.
    In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
    I wish life was easier.
    I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
    I know that he knew I loved him.
    Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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    cliftonr@wandering.shop
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    #38

    @NorcalGma2

    I am so sorry. I lost one of my nephews, my sister's son, in a similar way.

    I loved him and had high hopes for him. He was an extremely bright, engaged kid as a teenager. He should have gone to college, and gotten away from his small town for a bit

    But he owned a gun, very proudly - the result of idolizing his step-father and his step-father's attitudes. After the breakup of his marriage - too early, too young for both of them - it just took one extra bad day.

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    • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

      Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
      Last night I lost my nephew.
      My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
      My heart is broken.
      In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
      I wish life was easier.
      I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
      I know that he knew I loved him.
      Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

      kmmich@mas.toK This user is from outside of this forum
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      kmmich@mas.to
      wrote last edited by
      #39

      @NorcalGma2 warm hugs, wet snoots, some screaming, some crying... Do whatever helps you (it's a really soothing poem by Stijn De Paepe in Dutch, but I couldn't begin translating it...)
      I'm sure he knew you love him, would miss him dearly but also remember him fondly.

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      • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

        Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
        Last night I lost my nephew.
        My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
        My heart is broken.
        In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
        I wish life was easier.
        I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
        I know that he knew I loved him.
        Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

        julianlawson@beige.partyJ This user is from outside of this forum
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        julianlawson@beige.party
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        #40

        @NorcalGma2 so sorry. I understand some of what you are going through.

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        • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

          Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
          Last night I lost my nephew.
          My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
          My heart is broken.
          In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
          I wish life was easier.
          I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
          I know that he knew I loved him.
          Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

          antoniogs71@mastodon.socialA This user is from outside of this forum
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          #41

          @NorcalGma2 So sorry. 😢 🫂

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          • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

            Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
            Last night I lost my nephew.
            My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
            My heart is broken.
            In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
            I wish life was easier.
            I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
            I know that he knew I loved him.
            Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

            nomdeb@mstdn.socialN This user is from outside of this forum
            nomdeb@mstdn.socialN This user is from outside of this forum
            nomdeb@mstdn.social
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            #42

            @NorcalGma2 Oh I am heart broken for you. What a tragedy. What a loss, and too many wonderful humans are lost to us in this way. Heart hugs to all of you.

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            • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

              Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
              Last night I lost my nephew.
              My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
              My heart is broken.
              In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
              I wish life was easier.
              I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
              I know that he knew I loved him.
              Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

              lydiaschoch@mastodon.socialL This user is from outside of this forum
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              lydiaschoch@mastodon.social
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              #43

              @NorcalGma2 I am so sorry.

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              • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                Last night I lost my nephew.
                My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                My heart is broken.
                In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                I wish life was easier.
                I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                I know that he knew I loved him.
                Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                #44

                @NorcalGma2

                I’m so very sorry to hear of your loss. Sending lots of kindness your way.
                💟🌟💟

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                • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                  Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                  Last night I lost my nephew.
                  My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                  My heart is broken.
                  In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                  I wish life was easier.
                  I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                  I know that he knew I loved him.
                  Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                  #45

                  @NorcalGma2

                  Oh, no.

                  Oh, I am so sorry. My heart hurts for you.

                  The only thing that's ever helped me at a time like this is to think, at least they're not in pain any more.

                  You poor thing. I wish I could hug you.

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                  • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                    Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                    Last night I lost my nephew.
                    My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                    My heart is broken.
                    In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                    I wish life was easier.
                    I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                    I know that he knew I loved him.
                    Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                    #46

                    @NorcalGma2 so very sorry for your loss. 🫂

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                    • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                      Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                      Last night I lost my nephew.
                      My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                      My heart is broken.
                      In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                      I wish life was easier.
                      I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                      I know that he knew I loved him.
                      Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                      #47

                      @NorcalGma2

                      So very sorry for your loss. I lost my brother 2 years ago.

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                      • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                        Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                        Last night I lost my nephew.
                        My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                        My heart is broken.
                        In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                        I wish life was easier.
                        I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                        I know that he knew I loved him.
                        Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                        #48

                        @NorcalGma2
                        That's so sad. I'm sorry you're going through this. 🫂

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                        • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                          Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                          Last night I lost my nephew.
                          My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                          My heart is broken.
                          In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                          I wish life was easier.
                          I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                          I know that he knew I loved him.
                          Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                          bikil@mastoart.social
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                          #49

                          @NorcalGma2 I'm so sorry, sending hugs and love to you and and your family 💜

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                          • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                            Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                            Last night I lost my nephew.
                            My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                            My heart is broken.
                            In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                            I wish life was easier.
                            I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                            I know that he knew I loved him.
                            Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                            #50

                            @NorcalGma2 i'm so, so sorry. 🤍
                            and even from all over here, just from the way you speak about your loved ones, i know it would be impossible for them not to know that you love them. he definitely knew it. 🌸

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                            • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                              Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                              Last night I lost my nephew.
                              My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                              My heart is broken.
                              In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                              I wish life was easier.
                              I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                              I know that he knew I loved him.
                              Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                              @NorcalGma2

                              I'm so sorry. I hope you and your family can find the space you need to grieve, and some comfort in each other.

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                              • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                Last night I lost my nephew.
                                My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                My heart is broken.
                                In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                I wish life was easier.
                                I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                I know that he knew I loved him.
                                Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                                cafechatnoir@mastodon.social
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                                #52

                                @NorcalGma2

                                I am so very sorry. Everything is just...so hard anymore. Knowing that you loved him was a wonderful gift.

                                Big gentle hugs to you.

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                                • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                  Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                  Last night I lost my nephew.
                                  My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                  My heart is broken.
                                  In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                  I wish life was easier.
                                  I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                  I know that he knew I loved him.
                                  Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                                  #53

                                  @NorcalGma2

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                                  • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                    Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                    Last night I lost my nephew.
                                    My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                    My heart is broken.
                                    In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                    I wish life was easier.
                                    I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                    I know that he knew I loved him.
                                    Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                                    apbblue@thepit.socialA This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    #54

                                    @NorcalGma2 I am so sorry. ❤️

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                                    • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                      Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                      Last night I lost my nephew.
                                      My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                      My heart is broken.
                                      In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                      I wish life was easier.
                                      I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                      I know that he knew I loved him.
                                      Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                                      #55

                                      @NorcalGma2 💔 I am so sorry for your loss - may his memory always be a blessing to you and yours ❤️‍🩹

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                                      • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                        Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                        Last night I lost my nephew.
                                        My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                        My heart is broken.
                                        In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                        I wish life was easier.
                                        I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                        I know that he knew I loved him.
                                        Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                                        #56

                                        @NorcalGma2 hugs and love to all of you.

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                                        • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                          Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                          Last night I lost my nephew.
                                          My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                          My heart is broken.
                                          In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                          I wish life was easier.
                                          I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                          I know that he knew I loved him.
                                          Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                                          #57

                                          @NorcalGma2 I’m so sorry for your loss.

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