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  • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

    Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
    Last night I lost my nephew.
    My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
    My heart is broken.
    In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
    I wish life was easier.
    I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
    I know that he knew I loved him.
    Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

    armandoborgatta@mastodon.socialA This user is from outside of this forum
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    armandoborgatta@mastodon.social
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    #22

    @NorcalGma2 I’m sure he knew you would try and help but at times we have to accept the inevitability of pain and despair. And respect it. May he find the peace and gentleness that life far too often denies.

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    • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

      Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
      Last night I lost my nephew.
      My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
      My heart is broken.
      In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
      I wish life was easier.
      I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
      I know that he knew I loved him.
      Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

      imherzen@kind.socialI This user is from outside of this forum
      imherzen@kind.socialI This user is from outside of this forum
      imherzen@kind.social
      wrote last edited by
      #23

      @NorcalGma2 🖤

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      • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

        Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
        Last night I lost my nephew.
        My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
        My heart is broken.
        In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
        I wish life was easier.
        I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
        I know that he knew I loved him.
        Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

        lisamelton@mastodon.socialL This user is from outside of this forum
        lisamelton@mastodon.socialL This user is from outside of this forum
        lisamelton@mastodon.social
        wrote last edited by
        #24

        @NorcalGma2 😢💔🫂

        Let us know if you or your family need anything. We're all holding you in our hearts.

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        • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

          Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
          Last night I lost my nephew.
          My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
          My heart is broken.
          In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
          I wish life was easier.
          I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
          I know that he knew I loved him.
          Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

          jeridansky@sfba.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
          jeridansky@sfba.socialJ This user is from outside of this forum
          jeridansky@sfba.social
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          #25

          @NorcalGma2 I am so horribly sorry. May his memory be a blessing.

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          • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

            Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
            Last night I lost my nephew.
            My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
            My heart is broken.
            In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
            I wish life was easier.
            I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
            I know that he knew I loved him.
            Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

            minmi@sfba.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
            minmi@sfba.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
            minmi@sfba.social
            wrote last edited by
            #26

            @NorcalGma2 I am so sorry.

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            • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

              Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
              Last night I lost my nephew.
              My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
              My heart is broken.
              In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
              I wish life was easier.
              I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
              I know that he knew I loved him.
              Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

              knownasrose@mstdn.socialK This user is from outside of this forum
              knownasrose@mstdn.socialK This user is from outside of this forum
              knownasrose@mstdn.social
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              #27

              @NorcalGma2 If only love could keep them here 💔

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              • lisamelton@mastodon.socialL lisamelton@mastodon.social

                @NorcalGma2 😢💔🫂

                Let us know if you or your family need anything. We're all holding you in our hearts.

                norcalgma2@sfba.socialN This user is from outside of this forum
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                norcalgma2@sfba.social
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                #28

                @lisamelton
                ♥️

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                • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                  Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                  Last night I lost my nephew.
                  My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                  My heart is broken.
                  In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                  I wish life was easier.
                  I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                  I know that he knew I loved him.
                  Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                  axomamma@mastodon.onlineA This user is from outside of this forum
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                  axomamma@mastodon.online
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                  #29

                  @NorcalGma2 I am so sorry for all the pain. Words fail.

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                  • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                    Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                    Last night I lost my nephew.
                    My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                    My heart is broken.
                    In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                    I wish life was easier.
                    I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                    I know that he knew I loved him.
                    Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                    noondlyt@hellions.cloudN This user is from outside of this forum
                    noondlyt@hellions.cloudN This user is from outside of this forum
                    noondlyt@hellions.cloud
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                    #30

                    @NorcalGma2

                    I am so sorry for your loss and the pain

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                    • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                      Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                      Last night I lost my nephew.
                      My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                      My heart is broken.
                      In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                      I wish life was easier.
                      I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                      I know that he knew I loved him.
                      Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                      carolannie@c.imC This user is from outside of this forum
                      carolannie@c.imC This user is from outside of this forum
                      carolannie@c.im
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                      #31

                      @NorcalGma2 so sad and so sorry💔

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                      • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                        Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                        Last night I lost my nephew.
                        My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                        My heart is broken.
                        In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                        I wish life was easier.
                        I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                        I know that he knew I loved him.
                        Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                        larand@appdot.netL This user is from outside of this forum
                        larand@appdot.netL This user is from outside of this forum
                        larand@appdot.net
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                        #32

                        @NorcalGma2 I lost my brother to his demons in 2019. My heart goes out to you. 💔

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                        • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                          Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                          Last night I lost my nephew.
                          My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                          My heart is broken.
                          In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                          I wish life was easier.
                          I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                          I know that he knew I loved him.
                          Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                          ted_duffield@mastodon.socialT This user is from outside of this forum
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                          ted_duffield@mastodon.social
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                          #33

                          @NorcalGma2 Very sorry for your loss.

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                          • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                            Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                            Last night I lost my nephew.
                            My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                            My heart is broken.
                            In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                            I wish life was easier.
                            I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                            I know that he knew I loved him.
                            Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                            sbourne@mastodon.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
                            sbourne@mastodon.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
                            sbourne@mastodon.social
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                            #34

                            @NorcalGma2 I'm so sorry 😢

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                            • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                              Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                              Last night I lost my nephew.
                              My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                              My heart is broken.
                              In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                              I wish life was easier.
                              I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                              I know that he knew I loved him.
                              Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                              meznor@mstdn.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
                              meznor@mstdn.socialM This user is from outside of this forum
                              meznor@mstdn.social
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                              #35

                              @NorcalGma2 I’m so very sorry for your loss. ❤️

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                              • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                Last night I lost my nephew.
                                My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                My heart is broken.
                                In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                I wish life was easier.
                                I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                I know that he knew I loved him.
                                Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                                drahardja@sfba.socialD This user is from outside of this forum
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                                drahardja@sfba.social
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                                #36

                                @NorcalGma2 I’m so sorry to hear that. Hugs to you and to those he left behind.

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                                • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                  Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                  Last night I lost my nephew.
                                  My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                  My heart is broken.
                                  In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                  I wish life was easier.
                                  I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                  I know that he knew I loved him.
                                  Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                                  harriettmb@toot.walesH This user is from outside of this forum
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                                  harriettmb@toot.wales
                                  wrote last edited by
                                  #37

                                  @NorcalGma2 🫂💖

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                                  • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                    Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                    Last night I lost my nephew.
                                    My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                    My heart is broken.
                                    In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                    I wish life was easier.
                                    I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                    I know that he knew I loved him.
                                    Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                                    cliftonr@wandering.shopC This user is from outside of this forum
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                                    cliftonr@wandering.shop
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                                    #38

                                    @NorcalGma2

                                    I am so sorry. I lost one of my nephews, my sister's son, in a similar way.

                                    I loved him and had high hopes for him. He was an extremely bright, engaged kid as a teenager. He should have gone to college, and gotten away from his small town for a bit

                                    But he owned a gun, very proudly - the result of idolizing his step-father and his step-father's attitudes. After the breakup of his marriage - too early, too young for both of them - it just took one extra bad day.

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                                    • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                      Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                      Last night I lost my nephew.
                                      My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                      My heart is broken.
                                      In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                      I wish life was easier.
                                      I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                      I know that he knew I loved him.
                                      Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                                      kmmich@mas.toK This user is from outside of this forum
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                                      kmmich@mas.to
                                      wrote last edited by
                                      #39

                                      @NorcalGma2 warm hugs, wet snoots, some screaming, some crying... Do whatever helps you (it's a really soothing poem by Stijn De Paepe in Dutch, but I couldn't begin translating it...)
                                      I'm sure he knew you love him, would miss him dearly but also remember him fondly.

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                                      • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                        Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                        Last night I lost my nephew.
                                        My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                        My heart is broken.
                                        In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                        I wish life was easier.
                                        I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                        I know that he knew I loved him.
                                        Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

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                                        julianlawson@beige.party
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                                        #40

                                        @NorcalGma2 so sorry. I understand some of what you are going through.

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                                        • norcalgma2@sfba.socialN norcalgma2@sfba.social

                                          Lots to think about and some grieving to do.
                                          Last night I lost my nephew.
                                          My two sisters and I each gave birth to a daughter followed by a son. Now only one of the three sons is left.
                                          My heart is broken.
                                          In the end he didn't reach out to me. I expect he already knew what I would tell him. His mother, my oldest sister, has been gone for years, and he never stopped missing her. She was not replaceable even when I tried.
                                          I wish life was easier.
                                          I do believe that my belief system and certainty that circumstances can be turned around and that I never give up works for me but not for everyone.
                                          I know that he knew I loved him.
                                          Our world is short one kind human and we do need more kind humans not less.

                                          antoniogs71@mastodon.socialA This user is from outside of this forum
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                                          antoniogs71@mastodon.social
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                                          #41

                                          @NorcalGma2 So sorry. 😢 🫂

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