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Before you buy that nice hoodie online, ask yourself, "Am I willing to delete one extra email every day for the rest of my life?"

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  • pheonix@hachyderm.ioP pheonix@hachyderm.io

    Before you buy that nice hoodie online, ask yourself, "Am I willing to delete one extra email every day for the rest of my life?"

    rupertreynolds@hachyderm.ioR This user is from outside of this forum
    rupertreynolds@hachyderm.ioR This user is from outside of this forum
    rupertreynolds@hachyderm.io
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    @pheonix When I got a domain, I started giving a new mailbox for each new membership.

    Oddly, the omly one that never got spammed is facebook-sold-me@(my domain) and you could have knocked me down with a feather, when I checked 🙂

    (I was on FB before it went toxic)

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    • pheonix@hachyderm.ioP pheonix@hachyderm.io

      Before you buy that nice hoodie online, ask yourself, "Am I willing to delete one extra email every day for the rest of my life?"

      wavebeam@trash.boutiqueW This user is from outside of this forum
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      wavebeam@trash.boutique
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      @pheonix I have rules set up for abusers of my email. basically:
      If:sent-by-email-abuser
      Then: Move to trash
      do not pass go, do not collect a tracking pixel

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      • pheonix@hachyderm.ioP pheonix@hachyderm.io

        Before you buy that nice hoodie online, ask yourself, "Am I willing to delete one extra email every day for the rest of my life?"

        guslaker@mastodon.socialG This user is from outside of this forum
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        guslaker@mastodon.social
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        #4

        @pheonix hehehe, true. Some email providers let you create aliases, hiding your real address. Once you are done with the shopping, delete the alias...

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        • rupertreynolds@hachyderm.ioR rupertreynolds@hachyderm.io

          @pheonix When I got a domain, I started giving a new mailbox for each new membership.

          Oddly, the omly one that never got spammed is facebook-sold-me@(my domain) and you could have knocked me down with a feather, when I checked 🙂

          (I was on FB before it went toxic)

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          gerardthornley@hachyderm.io
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          @RupertReynolds @pheonix This too. Years ago I would tell smaller orgs if I started getting stuff on an address only they had, but it was dissappointingly ineffective.
          I never got a "that's concerning, we'll look into it" response, always "it can't have come from us, it must be you." In most cases I think they were honest and it was a bad actor on staff or an outside intruder - most likely poor data handling and a single hacked device.

          These days, it's:
          1. Small-to-medium-sized orgs ignoring your "don't spam me" flag. I can't forgive this - there's no excuse for internal mailing services "accidentally" forgetting to filter mailing lists, nor for marketing folk to have direct access to PII.
          2. Mostly larger orgs that have been hacked with data released or sold publically. That's a persistent risk so I'll sometimes accept this, depending how they handle it.

          Unfortunately, the personal address I give to friends and family is longstanding and gets spread to a lot of personal devices, and I don't like to filter it, so I end up getting a load of spam on that one.

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          • pheonix@hachyderm.ioP pheonix@hachyderm.io

            Before you buy that nice hoodie online, ask yourself, "Am I willing to delete one extra email every day for the rest of my life?"

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            @pheonix For this hoodie? Yes. It even has thumbholes.

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            • rupertreynolds@hachyderm.ioR rupertreynolds@hachyderm.io

              @pheonix When I got a domain, I started giving a new mailbox for each new membership.

              Oddly, the omly one that never got spammed is facebook-sold-me@(my domain) and you could have knocked me down with a feather, when I checked 🙂

              (I was on FB before it went toxic)

              pixelscience@mastodon.socialP This user is from outside of this forum
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              pixelscience@mastodon.social
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              @RupertReynolds @pheonix I see your Facebook identified address and raise you ActBlue-sold-you-this-email(at)my-email-domain•com

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              • pheonix@hachyderm.ioP pheonix@hachyderm.io

                Before you buy that nice hoodie online, ask yourself, "Am I willing to delete one extra email every day for the rest of my life?"

                codinghorror@infosec.exchangeC This user is from outside of this forum
                codinghorror@infosec.exchangeC This user is from outside of this forum
                codinghorror@infosec.exchange
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                #8

                @pheonix welllll you can say "am I willing to click one unsubscribe link", it DOES work

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                • codinghorror@infosec.exchangeC codinghorror@infosec.exchange

                  @pheonix welllll you can say "am I willing to click one unsubscribe link", it DOES work

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                  gerardthornley@hachyderm.io
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                  @codinghorror @pheonix until a few months later when they decide to add you back on one of their mailing lists.

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                  • G gerardthornley@hachyderm.io

                    @RupertReynolds @pheonix This too. Years ago I would tell smaller orgs if I started getting stuff on an address only they had, but it was dissappointingly ineffective.
                    I never got a "that's concerning, we'll look into it" response, always "it can't have come from us, it must be you." In most cases I think they were honest and it was a bad actor on staff or an outside intruder - most likely poor data handling and a single hacked device.

                    These days, it's:
                    1. Small-to-medium-sized orgs ignoring your "don't spam me" flag. I can't forgive this - there's no excuse for internal mailing services "accidentally" forgetting to filter mailing lists, nor for marketing folk to have direct access to PII.
                    2. Mostly larger orgs that have been hacked with data released or sold publically. That's a persistent risk so I'll sometimes accept this, depending how they handle it.

                    Unfortunately, the personal address I give to friends and family is longstanding and gets spread to a lot of personal devices, and I don't like to filter it, so I end up getting a load of spam on that one.

                    tubemeister@mstdn.socialT This user is from outside of this forum
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                    tubemeister@mstdn.social
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                    @GerardThornley @RupertReynolds @pheonix For me it was never about telling a company something they either don’t want to hear or aren’t equipped to understand. It’s about killing that address after the transaction is done.

                    Especially nowadays where you don’t even have to wait for them to get hacked but they spam you to death with review requests and other needy bullshit.

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                    • pheonix@hachyderm.ioP pheonix@hachyderm.io

                      Before you buy that nice hoodie online, ask yourself, "Am I willing to delete one extra email every day for the rest of my life?"

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                      #11

                      @pheonix have you heard about plus addressing? if not it's worth a read, IMO. makes it easy to block spam from website, and also to track who gave your contact info out.

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