As I enter my 30th year of being very happily married to a woman way out of my league, I have a message to young men: there is a secret to a successful relationship, it's being best friends with another couple where the man is a useless buffoon

[dodo_sipping@cupoftea.social]

@Funkydrummer @fesshole

[independentpen@mas.to]

@Eetschrijver @queenofnewyork @fesshole you're assuming he correctly identified bufoonery in the other man

[queenofnewyork@newsie.social]

@independentpen @Eetschrijver @fesshole It's true that I am taking his word for that.

[crazyeddie@mastodon.social]

@fesshole Well, whatever you do, don't let her hang out with her single friends.

That was funny until I realized/remembered that in fact men do this exactly for that reason.

[crazyeddie@mastodon.social]

@mherbert @fesshole Both. Both men are using the same strategy.

[w_b@mastodon.world]

@Eetschrijver @fesshole

And communication

[caveknoll@infosec.exchange]

@fesshole You didn’t specify where the buffoon resides

[scottearle@poorlyrendered.com]

@fesshole so you’ve seen The Good Life, then

[masp@wandering.shop]

@scottearle @fesshole the secret to a successful relationship is to marry Felicity Kendal.

[passwordsarehard4@mastodon.social]

@womble @fesshole after the wedding, right? Some problems start creeping up when things are too related before that.

[kendal857@mindly.social]

@masp Or be a Kendal! My husband and I have been together happily for over 3 decades