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  3. A couple of weeks ago I bought a great pair of shorts from a charity shop, then wore them for the first time and immediately realised why someone donated them in the first place.

A couple of weeks ago I bought a great pair of shorts from a charity shop, then wore them for the first time and immediately realised why someone donated them in the first place.

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  • sortius@beige.partyS This user is from outside of this forum
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    sortius@beige.party
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    #58

    @Su_G @afewbugs my daughter is already raging against the lack of pockets for women. It's half the reason she wears Dangerfield and the like 😆

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    • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

      Also it's 2026, women want pockets enough to make them ourselves FFS. Clothing companies take note

      wendinoakland@beige.partyW This user is from outside of this forum
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      wendinoakland@beige.party
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      #59

      @afewbugs @Su_G I’ve sewn them into jackets, and even once paid a tailor to change faux pockets on a vintage blazer into real ones!

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      • gulleko@kind.socialG gulleko@kind.social

        @afewbugs Argh, the fake tiny pockets!

        I have done similar pocket surgery on jeans, and while it sucks that we have to make our own pockets, it's so satisfying when they're done. 😅

        sine_nomine@mstdn.socialS This user is from outside of this forum
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        #60

        @Gulleko @afewbugs
        It seems to be an institutional bias / misogyny! Why wouldn't women (all of them inc trans) want regular sized pockets?
        Is it so, they have to carry things & as such have to be "helped" w doors etc?
        Or is it so, that because they are carrying things they're then "vulnerable" to predators?
        Good Krap almighty! Do we really need a campaign to fix an issue that should not fucking exist? Whats wrong w the clothing mnfrs?
        This form of misogyny is contemptuous.

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        • sortius@beige.partyS This user is from outside of this forum
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          #61

          @Su_G @afewbugs hehehe, yeh, she knows what's good. Picked out some second hand country road the other day at St Mark's 😆

          It sucks, kids "girls" all has pockets, but once you start buying teen shit it's all "hahaha, pockets? You thought!"

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          • sortius@beige.partyS This user is from outside of this forum
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            #62

            @Su_G @afewbugs yeh, doesn't really take much, just using the right materials and seams. Levi Strauss seemed to have figured that one out in the 1800's 😖

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            • sine_nomine@mstdn.socialS sine_nomine@mstdn.social

              @Gulleko @afewbugs
              It seems to be an institutional bias / misogyny! Why wouldn't women (all of them inc trans) want regular sized pockets?
              Is it so, they have to carry things & as such have to be "helped" w doors etc?
              Or is it so, that because they are carrying things they're then "vulnerable" to predators?
              Good Krap almighty! Do we really need a campaign to fix an issue that should not fucking exist? Whats wrong w the clothing mnfrs?
              This form of misogyny is contemptuous.

              gulleko@kind.socialG This user is from outside of this forum
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              @Sine_Nomine If I remember correctly, I think the original culprit was the purse becoming fashionable. Women don't need pockets, they have purses! 🙄
              And then the fashion industry has just stayed in that mindset because of patriarchy bullshit.

              Plus smaller pockets means less fabric used, which means they can save money on fabric, and fast fashion will gladly cut every corner to save a few pennies per garment.

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              • avuko@infosec.exchangeA avuko@infosec.exchange

                @vikki @afewbugs

                On men being creepy: No need to belief, the data proofs it. https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

                And on a more happy note: great work on the pockets! I never got into sewing (or knitting) as the learning curve has always felt quite steep to me.

                But looks like one of those things that is both useful and very satisfying.

                afewbugs@social.coopA This user is from outside of this forum
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                afewbugs@social.coop
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                #64

                @avuko @vikki meanwhile this recent case in the UK shows just how much we value teenage boys vs teenage girls

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                Teenage boys avoid jail after rape and sexual assault of girls in north-east England

                Exclusive: Calls for urgent change after rehabilitation orders and ‘laughable’ £26 in court fees in three separate cases

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                the Guardian (www.theguardian.com)

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                • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

                  A couple of weeks ago I bought a great pair of shorts from a charity shop, then wore them for the first time and immediately realised why someone donated them in the first place.

                  1/🧵

                  #SlowFashion

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                  prl@hachyderm.io
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                  #65

                  @afewbugs

                  Pockets big enough to hold a wine bottle...

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                  A moment that changed me: I began wearing skirts with pockets big enough to hold a wine bottle

                  Sick of impractical or nonexistent pockets on women’s clothes, I started making my own historical garments. Now I feel liberated, chat to strangers – and never lose my belongings

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                  the Guardian (www.theguardian.com)

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                  • avuko@infosec.exchangeA avuko@infosec.exchange

                    @vikki @afewbugs

                    On men being creepy: No need to belief, the data proofs it. https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

                    And on a more happy note: great work on the pockets! I never got into sewing (or knitting) as the learning curve has always felt quite steep to me.

                    But looks like one of those things that is both useful and very satisfying.

                    jimmyb@mas.toJ This user is from outside of this forum
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                    @avuko @afewbugs @vikki and still blokes turn up to make it about them.

                    It’s a good article and really well argued. But always…always there will be a massive cohort of insulted, small men who cannot accept the truths stated and evidenced so clearly here

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                    • avuko@infosec.exchangeA avuko@infosec.exchange

                      @vikki @afewbugs

                      On men being creepy: No need to belief, the data proofs it. https://www.qasimrashid.com/p/women-are-not-safe-around-men

                      And on a more happy note: great work on the pockets! I never got into sewing (or knitting) as the learning curve has always felt quite steep to me.

                      But looks like one of those things that is both useful and very satisfying.

                      vikki@know.me.ukV This user is from outside of this forum
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                      #67

                      @avuko @afewbugs as I’ve repeatedly pointed out. In the time the government sits on the terrible guidance - the so called trans toilet ban - 80,000* rapes will happen. Overwhelmingly by men. Overwhelmingly not in toilets. Not by trans people.

                      Women won’t be any safer. Men remain the problem in the absolute majority and overwhelmingly so. Creepy is the “better” end of the horror of an alarming number of men.

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                      • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

                        The only part of the experience that wasn't great was when a man interrupted me in the middle of the first pocket and asked me to teach him how to use a sewing machine, which is the sort of thing that unfortunately happens all too frequently while Being A Woman In Public. I waved the threading instruction sheet at him, told him he was in a library and suggested he get a book, told him to look for YouTube videos and suggested he ask any older female relatives he might have because there was a good chance they might know. He responded by asking if I would come back next Saturday and he would pay me to teach him.

                        5/🧵

                        baoigheallain@mastodon.ieB This user is from outside of this forum
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                        @afewbugs @CiaraNi Yeah sewing and stereotypes, I never got it. I've been sewing my own tents, sleeping bags, rucksacks, bike bags since I was a school kid unable to afford new.

                        I worked a summer (as a designer) in a outdoor goods factory. When the machinists went home in the evening I would make my own stuff. Industrial machines for the win: knee-operated foot-lifts and some had foot-operated reverse; you never had to take your hand away from the material.

                        Excellent results Jules. 👍

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                        • baoigheallain@mastodon.ieB baoigheallain@mastodon.ie

                          @afewbugs @CiaraNi Yeah sewing and stereotypes, I never got it. I've been sewing my own tents, sleeping bags, rucksacks, bike bags since I was a school kid unable to afford new.

                          I worked a summer (as a designer) in a outdoor goods factory. When the machinists went home in the evening I would make my own stuff. Industrial machines for the win: knee-operated foot-lifts and some had foot-operated reverse; you never had to take your hand away from the material.

                          Excellent results Jules. 👍

                          afewbugs@social.coopA This user is from outside of this forum
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                          @baoigheallain @CiaraNi I briefly worked in a hospital that had a prosthetics manufacturing workshop in the basement with some extremely cool custom sewing machines for weird materials like foam and silicone, and am still disappointed I never got a proper chance to get a look at them.

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                          • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

                            @baoigheallain @CiaraNi I briefly worked in a hospital that had a prosthetics manufacturing workshop in the basement with some extremely cool custom sewing machines for weird materials like foam and silicone, and am still disappointed I never got a proper chance to get a look at them.

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                            @afewbugs @CiaraNi Someone I once knew in the climbing scene did that. He made all sorts of little gadgets for us in their workshop. I still have one of his chock tockers (like this: https://www.alpinetrek.co.uk/dmm-nutbuster-nut-removal-tool/ )

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                            • afewbugs@social.coopA afewbugs@social.coop

                              The only part of the experience that wasn't great was when a man interrupted me in the middle of the first pocket and asked me to teach him how to use a sewing machine, which is the sort of thing that unfortunately happens all too frequently while Being A Woman In Public. I waved the threading instruction sheet at him, told him he was in a library and suggested he get a book, told him to look for YouTube videos and suggested he ask any older female relatives he might have because there was a good chance they might know. He responded by asking if I would come back next Saturday and he would pay me to teach him.

                              5/🧵

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                              @afewbugs oh, interesting. I always ask my dad for sewing advices 😂

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