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  3. Basically we either use PINCH and run HEALTHILY on dopamine and noradrenaline by making every boring task interesting

Basically we either use PINCH and run HEALTHILY on dopamine and noradrenaline by making every boring task interesting

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  • maikel@vmst.ioM maikel@vmst.io

    @PetraPhoenix good luck to you too.

    What external things are you struggling with ?

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    @maikel

    I am studying for my degree, so I have essays to write with fixed deadlines.
    Even though I am finding the topic fascinating, getting myself to start writing something I know will be critically assessed is incredibly difficult.
    I have tried working in different places, positions, alongside others, all sorts, and each thing will work for a short time, and then stops working.

    If I try to reincorporate something too soon, it isn't novel enough and doesn't work.

    Thankfully I am nearly finished - I could just do without the stress cycle that accompanies each submission date

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      @maikel

      I am studying for my degree, so I have essays to write with fixed deadlines.
      Even though I am finding the topic fascinating, getting myself to start writing something I know will be critically assessed is incredibly difficult.
      I have tried working in different places, positions, alongside others, all sorts, and each thing will work for a short time, and then stops working.

      If I try to reincorporate something too soon, it isn't novel enough and doesn't work.

      Thankfully I am nearly finished - I could just do without the stress cycle that accompanies each submission date

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      @PetraPhoenix let me be redundant but it is interesting than using interest is not working. What I find about PINCH that applies to myself is that there's critical parts of it for me to get me to do something and parts that don't work at all depending on circumstances.

      For example I crave zero novelty to do stuff, novelty won't get me to do shit. But I definitely love a challenge, or doing something against a clock. So the CH work for me more than the PIN

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      • maikel@vmst.ioM maikel@vmst.io

        @PetraPhoenix let me be redundant but it is interesting than using interest is not working. What I find about PINCH that applies to myself is that there's critical parts of it for me to get me to do something and parts that don't work at all depending on circumstances.

        For example I crave zero novelty to do stuff, novelty won't get me to do shit. But I definitely love a challenge, or doing something against a clock. So the CH work for me more than the PIN

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        @PetraPhoenix also you've got to consider the anti-pinch.

        - pain (physical) or illness.
        - boredom
        - distractions
        - overwhelm
        - perfectionism

        Which one of those is sucking up your energy?

        (I seriously need to make myself a drawing with these five)

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        • maikel@vmst.ioM maikel@vmst.io

          @PetraPhoenix also you've got to consider the anti-pinch.

          - pain (physical) or illness.
          - boredom
          - distractions
          - overwhelm
          - perfectionism

          Which one of those is sucking up your energy?

          (I seriously need to make myself a drawing with these five)

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          @PetraPhoenix to me it looks like overwhelm because of the awareness of being assessed on it AND perfectionism for the same reason.

          Can I suggest a first step to try ? The one that generally works for me. I hate unrequested advice so I rather ask you first.

          Troubleshooting what works and not for you can help me too.

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          • maikel@vmst.ioM maikel@vmst.io

            @PetraPhoenix also you've got to consider the anti-pinch.

            - pain (physical) or illness.
            - boredom
            - distractions
            - overwhelm
            - perfectionism

            Which one of those is sucking up your energy?

            (I seriously need to make myself a drawing with these five)

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            @maikel

            Ooh, this is very interesting

            Of these:

            - pain (physical) or illness.
            - boredom
            - distractions
            - overwhelm
            - perfectionism

            4 are relevant.

            Hmm, this is really something to consider!

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            • petraphoenix@beige.partyP petraphoenix@beige.party

              @maikel

              Ooh, this is very interesting

              Of these:

              - pain (physical) or illness.
              - boredom
              - distractions
              - overwhelm
              - perfectionism

              4 are relevant.

              Hmm, this is really something to consider!

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              @PetraPhoenix regarding the one, I'm extremely sensitive to temperature or comfort and I've noticed I concentrate a lot deeper when I take my weighted blanket from my bed and throw it on my legs (when I'm working from a shitty IKEA Peyo chair on my laptop because my back hurts, which happens daily) but the thing that works best for your case and mine, that one I'll tell you if you want me to.

              Do you want me to say that one ?

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              • maikel@vmst.ioM maikel@vmst.io

                @PetraPhoenix regarding the one, I'm extremely sensitive to temperature or comfort and I've noticed I concentrate a lot deeper when I take my weighted blanket from my bed and throw it on my legs (when I'm working from a shitty IKEA Peyo chair on my laptop because my back hurts, which happens daily) but the thing that works best for your case and mine, that one I'll tell you if you want me to.

                Do you want me to say that one ?

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                @maikel

                Yeah, go for it.

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                • maikel@vmst.ioM maikel@vmst.io

                  @PetraPhoenix to me it looks like overwhelm because of the awareness of being assessed on it AND perfectionism for the same reason.

                  Can I suggest a first step to try ? The one that generally works for me. I hate unrequested advice so I rather ask you first.

                  Troubleshooting what works and not for you can help me too.

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                  @maikel

                  Thank you for asking first. This is very thoughtful, but yes, I would love to hear your thoughts. If the advice works for me I will use it, if not, I wont.

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                  • petraphoenix@beige.partyP petraphoenix@beige.party

                    @maikel

                    Yeah, go for it.

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                    @PetraPhoenix

                    Do it
                    WRONG

                    You could have a first shitty copy of your assessment today, right ? It's not one that you have to deliver.

                    Then iterate over the wrong one. The way this works for me is
                    1. It kills the perfectionism because I'm actively doing it wrong
                    2. It is challenging (and I love challenges) because you have to change your goals for something that's not your normal aim.
                    3. It kills overwhelm because step number two is

                    ITERATION.

                    Take the wrong and do it slightly less wrong. Just improve something slightly, not today, TOMORROW.

                    Rinse and repeat, eventually you reach hyperfocus. I do this with all my coding.

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                    • maikel@vmst.ioM maikel@vmst.io

                      @PetraPhoenix

                      Do it
                      WRONG

                      You could have a first shitty copy of your assessment today, right ? It's not one that you have to deliver.

                      Then iterate over the wrong one. The way this works for me is
                      1. It kills the perfectionism because I'm actively doing it wrong
                      2. It is challenging (and I love challenges) because you have to change your goals for something that's not your normal aim.
                      3. It kills overwhelm because step number two is

                      ITERATION.

                      Take the wrong and do it slightly less wrong. Just improve something slightly, not today, TOMORROW.

                      Rinse and repeat, eventually you reach hyperfocus. I do this with all my coding.

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                      @maikel

                      Interesting idea. I will give this some thought.

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