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  3. A message especially for my Canadian male followers out there today, but it applies to all.

A message especially for my Canadian male followers out there today, but it applies to all.

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  • alessandro@cosocial.caA alessandro@cosocial.ca

    @chris

    Going to my first counter-protest against a transphobic group a few years ago opened my eyes to this. It's good to want to be fair and impartial, but a problem arises when you never get to experience the other side of the story, because it's never directed towards you. Once you feel fury directed at yourself because people think you're a member of the group they are targeting, then you really understand what "privilege" means. We can't let people be broken before believing them.

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    @alessandro indeed. the rule applies in many many cases across our society. I believe the push back to progress that we are seeing is a direct result of many of those higher-forces seeing their expectations and assumptions about how they can control the world crumble. And that's a good thing for equality, and for all of us to live in a freer and fairer world. But it takes those of us in the privileged group to be willing to first realize our own privilege and then learn how to recalibrate our own stances and statements.

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    • lazarou@mastodon.socialL lazarou@mastodon.social

      @chris it is a fool who makes an enemy of Ms Que Banh and Mr Ohman is that fool.

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      @Lazarou @chris

      Is this related to chad AT mstdn.ca? I saw something from him this am an had no idea what that was about (am not local to YEG). Is it this?

      MSN

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      • tezoatlipoca@mas.toT tezoatlipoca@mas.to

        @Lazarou @chris

        Is this related to chad AT mstdn.ca? I saw something from him this am an had no idea what that was about (am not local to YEG). Is it this?

        MSN

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        @tezoatlipoca @chris yes, he called the Police on Ms Que Banh for being anti-Police, upset her Ma and everything!

        The caucasity of the man!

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        • chris@mstdn.chrisalemany.caC chris@mstdn.chrisalemany.ca

          A message especially for my Canadian male followers out there today, but it applies to all.

          If you see a story from a woman calling out the behaviour of a man, believe them. Yes, believe them over the 'broโ€™, especially when there are multiple corroborating stories.

          Donโ€™t feign impartiality.
          Don't ignore.
          Just believe them, it's not that hard.
          It's long past time we do this as the default.
          It will make us all better in the long run.

          That is all.

          #BelieveWomen #Tech #Mastodon

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          @chris Currently making an exception for crown princesses.

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          • janxdevil@sfba.socialJ janxdevil@sfba.social

            @chris Currently making an exception for crown princesses.

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            @janxdevil there is that... lol

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            • lazarou@mastodon.socialL lazarou@mastodon.social

              @tezoatlipoca @chris yes, he called the Police on Ms Que Banh for being anti-Police, upset her Ma and everything!

              The caucasity of the man!

              arbutus@socialbc.caA This user is from outside of this forum
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              @Lazarou @tezoatlipoca @chris at least cleaning up the smoking wreckage of his life will give people in AB gainful employment!

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              • lazarou@mastodon.socialL lazarou@mastodon.social

                @tezoatlipoca @chris yes, he called the Police on Ms Que Banh for being anti-Police, upset her Ma and everything!

                The caucasity of the man!

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                @Lazarou @tezoatlipoca @chris I didn't know about this. Anyone feel like explaining what happened?

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                • javensbukan@mstdn.caJ javensbukan@mstdn.ca

                  @Lazarou @tezoatlipoca @chris I didn't know about this. Anyone feel like explaining what happened?

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                  @javensbukan @tezoatlipoca @chris This is what Chad pulled on Ms Que Banh

                  Ms. Que Banh (@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party)

                  Chad was the wankerbutternoodle Mstdn.ca owner who had called the cops on me for some past political posts. It was using cop violence on POC. The cops showed up & left fast, because it was all BS. It traumatized my Mom & enraged me. The cowardly liar then denied it when I posted about it all. A bunch of white folks supported him & didn't believe me. I knew #karma would catch up with that liar, sooner or later. Now, it has. Cops will be coming after him, for a real crime. I told you all that Chad was a dirty, lying weasel. Maybe, believe me instead of the white guy, next time ๐Ÿคก https://toot.cat/@catzilla/116267551374750231 #Criminal #Fraud #Canadian #Alberta #Liar #ToldYouSo #ConMan

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                  • lazarou@mastodon.socialL lazarou@mastodon.social

                    @javensbukan @tezoatlipoca @chris This is what Chad pulled on Ms Que Banh

                    Ms. Que Banh (@PhoenixSerenity@beige.party)

                    Chad was the wankerbutternoodle Mstdn.ca owner who had called the cops on me for some past political posts. It was using cop violence on POC. The cops showed up & left fast, because it was all BS. It traumatized my Mom & enraged me. The cowardly liar then denied it when I posted about it all. A bunch of white folks supported him & didn't believe me. I knew #karma would catch up with that liar, sooner or later. Now, it has. Cops will be coming after him, for a real crime. I told you all that Chad was a dirty, lying weasel. Maybe, believe me instead of the white guy, next time ๐Ÿคก https://toot.cat/@catzilla/116267551374750231 #Criminal #Fraud #Canadian #Alberta #Liar #ToldYouSo #ConMan

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                    @Lazarou @tezoatlipoca @chris That's gross. Do we have any examples of what these posts were that caused this to happen?

                    I could *potentially* understand if these were posts that were threatning violence on specific people or targets - I can't really make my own mind up on something with the generalities of the post - but if true that's seriously icky.

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                    • javensbukan@mstdn.caJ javensbukan@mstdn.ca

                      @Lazarou @tezoatlipoca @chris That's gross. Do we have any examples of what these posts were that caused this to happen?

                      I could *potentially* understand if these were posts that were threatning violence on specific people or targets - I can't really make my own mind up on something with the generalities of the post - but if true that's seriously icky.

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                      @javensbukan @tezoatlipoca @chris he just sounds like another entitled white dude who thinks he is the Police, a problem on the Fediverse and in FOSS in general.
                      And then there's the charity funds thing....

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                      • lazarou@mastodon.socialL lazarou@mastodon.social

                        @tezoatlipoca @chris yes, he called the Police on Ms Que Banh for being anti-Police, upset her Ma and everything!

                        The caucasity of the man!

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                        @Lazarou @tezoatlipoca @chris It was the biggest thing.

                        But there has been multiple reports from multiple people about his... hmm.. how can I say this. Let's say... red flags about his character and judgment.

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                        • stephanie@ottawa.placeS stephanie@ottawa.place

                          @Lazarou @tezoatlipoca @chris It was the biggest thing.

                          But there has been multiple reports from multiple people about his... hmm.. how can I say this. Let's say... red flags about his character and judgment.

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                          @stephanie @tezoatlipoca @chris quite a familiar story coming out, 'entitled cishet white dude in Technology'
                          We know where this goes.

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